Does it ever get better

[korup]

I started talking to a girl and we made out and shit, sometimes the way she texts me makes me feel like genuinely likes me but then idk. I would be with her every chance I get but I just know that it’s not the case for her and I can’t help but have the thoughts that if I were prettier this wouldn’t have happened or what if she’s talking to someone else. I just want to vent a bit because I can tell this to no one. We are not together and I should not be so like obsessed or idk but I get too attached from the basic stuff and I can’t let go and can’t help but think that it’s just not the same for her. I just want to ask can I ever truly be loved and understood for who I am. Am I an ND retard. I want to just take a razor and cut myself because that is the thing that brings me a bit of comfort amidst these thoughts.

 

[idkmanimao]

I started talking to a girl and we made out and shit, sometimes the way she texts me makes me feel like genuinely likes me but then idk. I would be with her every chance I get but I just know that it’s not the case for her and I can’t help but have the thoughts that if I were prettier this wouldn’t have happened or what if she’s talking to someone else. I just want to vent a bit because I can tell this to no one. We are not together and I should not be so like obsessed or idk but I get too attached from the basic stuff and I can’t let go and can’t help but think that it’s just not the same for her. I just want to ask can I ever truly be loved and understood for who I am. Am I an ND retard. I want to just take a razor and cut myself because that is the thing that brings me a bit of comfort amidst these thoughts.

then keep her. you need someone with you if you want it to get better. delete your account or self ban and go enjoy yourself.

 

[hax]

everyone loves someone at some point

as corny and generic as it sounds, you just have to "move on" and realize you can't obsess over her

 

[ybuyhgui]

real

 

[vincentzygo]

dnr

 

[valentine]

girl

stopped reading

 

[svarddre]

It absolutely gets better. Not even on some basic bullshit but life is what you make of it. I’ve been at rock bottom but you can get up again as long as you keep trying

 

[korup]

everyone loves someone at some point

as corny and generic as it sounds, you just have to "move on" and realize you can't obsess over her

I mean I get that it’s not my first thing like that yknow and its not even over, its just that I always think its over because I cannot believe that someone could really see something in me and I doubt the things weve experienced together

 

[korup]

It absolutely gets better. Not even on some basic bullshit but life is what you make of it. I’ve been at rock bottom but you can get up again as long as you keep trying

thank you

 

[buzzy :)]

I want to just take a razor and cut myself because that is the thing that brings me a bit of comfort amidst these thoughts.

Woah woah hold your horses bro that shit ain’t worth it.

 

[korup]

Woah woah hold your horses bro that shit ain’t worth it.

Ive been told this but its not someting really that serious and it calms me down in an intense wave of emotions

 

[hax]

I mean I get that it’s not my first thing like that yknow and its not even over, its just that I always think its over because I cannot believe that someone could really see something in me and I doubt the things weve experienced together

my friend has been wanting to kill himself for a while because no girl approaches him, you're doing better than him

i was so in love with this girl back in the days but she broke up with me and i never really got a taste of love or even irl attraction anymore

it's all "vague" and unclear, trust me it will pass, you jsut have to cope with time and find new ways to distract yourself, someone loved you in the first place and that's more than enough

 

[ItsSoGymMaxx]

revenge goon to a picture of her

 

[buzzy :)]

Ive been told this but its not someting really that serious and it calms me down in an intense wave of emotions

I know how it is bro been in the same position. But it really ain’t worth it yes it brings comfort and silences your mind but those scars gon be there forever. My mh improved slightly and I got clean from sh but those scars I made still haunt me to this day and remind me of how much of a failure I am so quit before it’s too late it will make things slightly better for you and find better coping mechanisms that don’t put visible harm on you

 

[korup]

my friend has been wanting to kill himself for a while because no girl approaches him, you're doing better than him

i was so in love with this girl back in the days but she broke up with me and i never really got a taste of love or even irl attraction anymore

it's all "vague" and unclear, trust me it will pass, you jsut have to cope with time and find new ways to distract yourself, someone loved you in the first place and that's more than enough

i guess so yeah, thanks

 

[korup]

I know how it is bro been in the same position. But it really ain’t worth it yes it brings comfort and silences your mind but those scars gon be there forever. My mh improved slightly and I got clean from sh but those scars I made still haunt me to this day and remind me of how much of a failure I am so quit before it’s too late it will make things slightly better for you and find better coping mechanisms that don’t put visible harm on you

well the way I do it I have no scars its a clean cut not too deep and heala itself perfectly I just want to feel something real and pain is the only thing

 

[SEA FIT]

I started talking to a girl and we made out and shit, sometimes the way she texts me makes me feel like genuinely likes me but then idk. I would be with her every chance I get but I just know that it’s not the case for her and I can’t help but have the thoughts that if I were prettier this wouldn’t have happened or what if she’s talking to someone else. I just want to vent a bit because I can tell this to no one. We are not together and I should not be so like obsessed or idk but I get too attached from the basic stuff and I can’t let go and can’t help but think that it’s just not the same for her. I just want to ask can I ever truly be loved and understood for who I am. Am I an ND retard. I want to just take a razor and cut myself because that is the thing that brings me a bit of comfort amidst these thoughts.

Yea This website you learn alot of info yes, but after you learn from this website on how to improve get off it and use those things you have learned to be become a better version of yourself do not rott here like most people do.

then keep her. you need someone with you if you want it to get better. delete your account or self ban and go enjoy yourself.

 

[bonemaxxer001]

I started talking to a girl and we made out and shit, sometimes the way she texts me makes me feel like genuinely likes me but then idk. I would be with her every chance I get but I just know that it’s not the case for her and I can’t help but have the thoughts that if I were prettier this wouldn’t have happened or what if she’s talking to someone else. I just want to vent a bit because I can tell this to no one. We are not together and I should not be so like obsessed or idk but I get too attached from the basic stuff and I can’t let go and can’t help but think that it’s just not the same for her. I just want to ask can I ever truly be loved and understood for who I am. Am I an ND retard. I want to just take a razor and cut myself because that is the thing that brings me a bit of comfort amidst these thoughts.

Life was not made to be easy. Cant always be good, but thats natural. No one ever had a care-free life. Let's say you live like an average human (till around 80) you won't even think about the problems you had in your childhood.

To answer your question: Yes it will get better. May sound weird/corny/schizo but the way you think actually makes a huge difference. If you expect the good then the good will come. If you expect the bad then the bad will come. I went through shit too and I can tell you that it will get better.
And again: mindset matters. In the past 5 months I've barely changed my looks. What I changed tho was the way I think and now I enjoy life more, get more girls, etc.
I improved my life just by thinking differently, and you can too.

 

[NickIsOver]

I started talking to a girl and we made out and shit, sometimes the way she texts me makes me feel like genuinely likes me but then idk. I would be with her every chance I get but I just know that it’s not the case for her and I can’t help but have the thoughts that if I were prettier this wouldn’t have happened or what if she’s talking to someone else. I just want to vent a bit because I can tell this to no one. We are not together and I should not be so like obsessed or idk but I get too attached from the basic stuff and I can’t let go and can’t help but think that it’s just not the same for her. I just want to ask can I ever truly be loved and understood for who I am. Am I an ND retard. I want to just take a razor and cut myself because that is the thing that brings me a bit of comfort amidst these thoughts.

Do you ever make her laugh