Does living with your parents handicap your dating life?

[thereallegend]

On a couple occasions now, I've seen women who were at least somewhat interested in me perceive my cohabitation in my childhood home with my family as some sort of obstacle. Here's one from a day ago:

More context surrounding this example is that I'm 10-11 inches taller than her. I've been rated 4/10 on photofeeler with two different photos. She's definitely chubby in the face. We're both the same age (20). She's latina. I'm mixed (b+w).

Another example is at my workplace where a 7/10 18 yo latina went from to when in convo she found out I didn't have my own apartment.

I guess the redpill explanation for this is that women want men with money/status. Men that have something "going for them". Perhaps for the logistics as well.

With the blackpill, we know that looks take priority in all situations. However...idk what do y'all think?

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Of course it does. It's almost worse than not having a driver's license.

 

[thereallegend]

Of course it does. It's almost worse than not having a driver's license.

brootal. the place i stay now would be better than most apartments...

maybe i gotta escortmaxx, hotelmaxx, or use my car lol

 

[Deleted member 7725]

brootal. the place i stay now would be better than most apartments...

maybe i gotta escortmaxx, hotelmaxx, or use my car lol

Use your car or live in college dorms. Don't say you live with your parents, say you have roommates or something.

 

[Deleted member 13094]

depends, but normally yes it does handicap your dating life

 

[Deleted member 1560]

Yes it does,

 

[sensen]

On a couple occasions now, I've seen women who were at least somewhat interested in me perceive my cohabitation in my childhood home with my family as some sort of obstacle. Here's one from a day ago:

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More context surrounding this example is that I'm 10-11 inches taller than her. I've been rated 4/10 on photofeeler with two different photos. She's definitely chubby in the face. We're both the same age (20). She's latina. I'm mixed (b+w).

Another example is at my workplace where a 7/10 18 yo latina went from to when in convo she found out I didn't have my own apartment.

I guess the redpill explanation for this is that women want men with money/status. Men that have something "going for them". Perhaps for the logistics as well.

With the blackpill, we know that looks take priority in all situations. However...idk what do y'all think?

yes, obviously it does in the West.

 

[.*my*.]

yes it's a big time problem unless you're both like 17

 

[Entschuldigung]

Yes 100%

 

[JamesHowlett]

Living with parents is one of the reasons I don’t try to slay

 

[Deleted member 6128]

Never understood why u tell them u live with parents just bring them to a hotel or ur car

 

[eduardkoopman]

Yes 100%

I 100% agree.

With the side note.
Below the age of 20, it's normal.
From 20-25; it's a hindrance but ot that much a biggie hindrance
After 25: it's a proble,
After 30: it's a huge problem

 

[eduardkoopman]

I guess the redpill explanation for this is that women want men with money/status. Men that have something "going for them". Perhaps for the logistics as well.

With the blackpill, we know that looks take priority in all situations. However...idk what do y'all think?

Redpill explanation is bs.
The balckpill offers no explanation, I guess.

The reason , has to do with 2 things.
1. comfort and freedom and other peoples judgements. When a guy lives alone she visits, she can be more comfy, do as she likes, not need to concern tp offend or annoy others, etc... you 2 can get physical without others judgements, etc.. privacy, .. she can dance, scream, or whatever the hell she wants in some ways.
2. maybe she has equally attrcative options as you chasing her, whom do ahve a place off their own. Making it thus, that the other dude becomes the better option.

Chad don't need to worry, because she has no other Chads trying to get with her. So he still wins, even when living with parents.
But when normies men are competing with other normies men, iit matters.
Sadly us normies, can't get away with a Chad mindset to these matters. One can get away with stuff, only, after being Chad.

 

[volcelfatcel]

Redpill explanation is bs.
The balckpill offers no explanation, I guess.

The reason , has to do with 2 things.
1. comfort and freedom and other peoples judgements. When a guy lives alone she visits, whe can be more comfy, do as she likes, not need to concern tp offend or annoy others, etc... you 2 can get physical without others judgements, etc.. privacy, .. she can dance, scream, or whatever the hell she wants in some ways.
2. maybe she has equally attrcative options as you chasing her, whom do ahve a place off their own. Making it thus, that the other dude becomes the better option.

Chad don't need to worry, that she has other Chads trying to get with her. So he still wins, even when living with parents.
But when normies men are competing with other normies men, iit matters.

chad still needs to worry ngl, there are certain things not even chad can survive and one of them is having your own place, even a 1 bedroom apartment is better than not having shit.

 

[wristcel]

my brother used to slay and he lived at home until he was a fosil lol
He'd just bring girls back from bars and smash. This was pre-tinder though so not sure if that matters

 

[eduardkoopman]

chad still needs to worry ngl, there are certain things not even chad can survive and one of them is having your own place, even a 1 bedroom apartment is better than not having shit.

It's hard for me to confirm or deny, if Chad can get away with it. Because I never seen irl a Chad that lived with his parents.

The rare few Chads I knew, were all making money also and living on their own. In some ways, it's often kinda easier for Chads to make money anyways. Get hired more easily and stuff.

A 1 bedroom appartment, should be enough for Chad.
Maybe even a 1 room appartment is enough.

 

[volcelfatcel]

It's hard for me to confirm or deny, if Chad can get away with it. Because I never seen irl a Chad that lived with his parents.

The rare few Chads I knew, were all making money also and living on their own. In some ways, it's often kinda easier for Chads to make money anyways. Get hired more easily and stuff.

A 1 bedroom appartment, should be enough for Chad.
Maybe even a 1 room appartment is enough.

I just don't think any girl will fuck chad past 25 if he still lives with his parents and that's the reality. Most people need a bachelor studio apartment to not look aspie.

I doubt it for 1 room, but 1 bedroom yea.

 

[Deleted member 756]

Not too much

 

[BobbyJindalsTwin]

No shit it does

 

[thereallegend]

Redpill explanation is bs.
The balckpill offers no explanation, I guess.

The reason , has to do with 2 things.
1. comfort and freedom and other peoples judgements. When a guy lives alone she visits, she can be more comfy, do as she likes, not need to concern tp offend or annoy others, etc... you 2 can get physical without others judgements, etc.. privacy, .. she can dance, scream, or whatever the hell she wants in some ways.
2. maybe she has equally attrcative options as you chasing her, whom do ahve a place off their own. Making it thus, that the other dude becomes the better option.

Chad don't need to worry, because she has no other Chads trying to get with her. So he still wins, even when living with parents.
But when normies men are competing with other normies men, iit matters.
Sadly us normies, can't get away with a Chad mindset to these matters. One can get away with stuff, only, after being Chad.

Appreciate this bro. I'm somewhat leanmaxxed (probably 12% bf), above 6 foot, have a normie face. I'm doing every softmax I can. So I probably need to focus on locationmaxxing more at this point.

 

[thereallegend]

Not too much

If I were Chadrone it wouldn't matter?

 

[Deleted member 756]

If I were Chadrone it wouldn't matter?

Pretty much

 

[TITUS]

It's a game changer.

 

[ReignsChad]

ofc it makes an impact; but I feel like she would’ve flaked out on you regardless. When I was younger, I literally had sex while my parents were one room away. If she wants to fuck u, she would.

ultimately, it’s your face that decides what her next move will be

 

[thereallegend]

Pretty much

I don't think I can become Chadrone without surgery. My cheekbones are recessed. I'm lean and still kinda look like a moonface.

 

[MOGGERR]

Juat be chad and move in with her

 

[FleshPerson]

it used to be impossible for me to move out of the house when there were so many outposts revolting, it was quite dangerous to go out especially with so many AUSKA rebels

 

[carnage]

That's fucked tho. How in the hell are you supposted to have your own place at 20? Unless your rich parents buy you an apartment, you are fucked.

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

Its a problem, but chase money in your 20s. You will slay easier in your 30s.

 

[Genny]

Depends on age. After high school? Absolutely

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Its not perfect but living in your parents house is normal at this age. Either she feels unconfortable in this situation or she is using this an as exsue to flake. I would say she just feels uncomfortable. You could push for something else of just convince her to come to your house. Maybe just go have sex in a forest or something idk.

People expect you to move out between 18-25. After 25 the failio will get progressively worse until your reach 30. After 30 its over for you. Although chad will still be able to slay even if he lives with his parents, women will want to "change him".

 

[eyelidcel]

Of course it does. It's almost worse than not having a driver's license.

so what if you do both?

 

[Going2KillMyself]

a bit but its a big cope to think that the apartment will hold u back jfl.

Might hold u back from betabuxxing if you want to show you have a job.

I'd live with parents and save money for looksmaxxing and other things first. Then worry about apartment renting if its an issue then

 

[loksr]

None of that redpill bullshit, they just don’t want your family to listen in on you plowing them jfl

Above average looking guys can survive it ez no problems, normies would have more trouble with it.

 

[thereallegend]

UPDATE:

I've been smashing this chick and have done it in my parents house.

Also did it in my car once.

 

[thereallegend]

Its a problem, but chase money in your 20s. You will slay easier in your 30s.

Cope. Looks always takes priority. Most men age like shit by looksminning themselves.

 

[uglynihilist]

You either have to have a car or your own place. Especially if you're in your 20's. And NEVER EVER write/say it this way "They will leave us alone". Sounds super fucking cringy and immature. Kills any bit of attraction. Instead you should've just said something like "They are gone for the weekend ".

If it's a first date also better go meet outside first and then come to your place. If you're trying to make her come straight to you they will flake a lot, unless you look like Amnesia.

 

[Mastermind]

Yes it does.
Everything that is childish in nature damages your SMV in a way or another.

Paying rent or moving to a pod is low IQ and will destroy your finances tho.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Yes it does.
Everything that is childish in nature damages your SMV in a way or another.

Paying rent or moving to a pod is low IQ and will destroy your finances tho.

Pussy > muh finances. There's a reason every normie is in debt and every incel has money.

 

[Mastermind]

Pussy > muh finances. There's a reason every normie is in debt and every incel has money.

Wtf waste money on looksmaxxing instead, living alone boosts your SMV but turning into a rentoid subhuman for pussy is retarded

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Wtf waste money on looksmaxxing instead, living alone boosts your SMV but turning into a rentoid subhuman for pussy is retarded

Average normie for ya.

 

[JosephGarrot123]

Depends, If your dating partner lives with her parents also it wouldn't handicap, now if she was rich, older and experienced then yes

 

[Deleted member 6273]

Yes it's one of the biggest handicaps especially with strict parents, past 20 I think you need to be looking into getting your own place or even moving out with roommates.

 

[Gonthar]

I'm 39 and still living with my parents...
When I finished college, I got a job, parents helped me buy my own place, but still couldn't get a gf, no matter how hard I tried. I realized there's no point in struggling, so I quit and moved back with them. I still have the place and go there from time to time to clean it and relax, but there's no point in living by yourself if you are all alone.

 

[lasthope]

I'm 39 and still living with my parents...
When I finished college, I got a job, parents helped me buy my own place, but still couldn't get a gf, no matter how hard I tried. I realized there's no point in struggling, so I quit and moved back with them. I still have the place and go there from time to time to clean it and relax, but there's no point in living by yourself if you are all alone.

brutal you are 39? what is your psl?

 

[Gonthar]

brutal you are 39? what is your psl?

I don't know, probably below average, I had a few gfs but after college was over, I didn't have much luck even though I approached and dated many girls.
Having a job, a house, a car, etc. gives you no guarantee that you'll get a girl, so there comes a moment when you wonder what's the point of struggling if the results are the same, so you might as well just have a comfortable life, move back your parents, and live with not much stress and responsibilities..

 

[lasthope]

I don't know, probably below average, I had a few gfs but after college was over, I didn't have much luck even though I approached and dated many girls.
Having a job, a house, a car, etc. gives you no guarantee that you'll get a girl, so there comes a moment when you wonder what's the point of struggling if the results are the same, so you might as well just have a comfortable life, move back your parents, and live with not much stress and responsibilities..

Holy shit
What’s your height?

to be honest I am afraid that this will be my fate too lol
Ex gf left me
Soon i will get hopefully my own place + car etc
But what’s the point if nothing changes lol

 

[Gonthar]

Holy shit
What’s your height?

165cm.

to be honest I am afraid that this will be my fate too lol
Ex gf left me
Soon i will get hopefully my own place + car etc
But what’s the point if nothing changes lol

The older you get, the more you have to offer to be even considered by women. Job, house, car, etc. are just checkboxes you have to mark after a certain age, but they don't guarantee in any way you'll get someone if you simply have them...

 

[lasthope]

165cm.

The older you get, the more you have to offer to be even considered by women. Job, house, car, etc. are just checkboxes you have to mark after a certain age, but they don't guarantee in any way you'll get someone if you simply have them...

You living in the west?
if yes it’s probably over right? Or do you have some ascentation Plan? Or just ldar and fuck hookers?

 

[Gonthar]

You living in the west?
if yes it’s probably over right? Or do you have some ascentation Plan? Or just ldar and fuck hookers?

In Romania.
I guess I need just to make a lot of money, anything else is unimportant compared to this.