Does looks matter in making friends

[h111]

Had an interaction on tiktok with someone who made a video on how you can’t have good conversation starters on foids as sub 5

I’m a hideous creature, people probably get scared when they see me, I have the body of slenderman and the face of an asian bo2cel.

Am I coping or is my looks affecting my ability to make friends? When people see me they assume that I am either a nerd or an NPC, which is reasonable because I look like a dork.

 

[fuse]

ofc but if you're NT enough you'll still make friends even if you're like low LTN

 

[h111]

ofc but if you're NT enough you'll still make friends even if you're like low LTN

What if you are subhuman? I am decently NT but still struggle (ignored and laughed at)

 

[Darkeningstar]

It matters more to be nt, like me, see pfp

 

[fuse]

What if you are subhuman? I am decently NT but still struggle (ignored and laughed at)

probably not as NT as you think or you're actually subhuman. dm face if u want my opinion

 

[h111]

It matters more to be nt, like me, see pfp

Can’t even tell whats going on in your pfp

 

[Darkeningstar]

Can’t even tell whats going on in your pfp

Over for my autism

 

[Darkeningstar]

I have seen subhumans have enough friends, in very rare cases the problem is physical, but still not related with the opposite sex.

 

[h111]

I have seen subhumans have enough friends, unless in very rare cases the problem is not physical, or at least, not related to success with the opposite sex.

Probably im just a boring cuck then

 

[Darkeningstar]

Probably im just a boring cuck then

Don't put too much responsibility on yourself, you can be boring, as I am. If you are cuck you know that. I never had many friends either, even when I was good looking.

 

[looksmaxxed]

people make friends in their looks/status range.

 

[CoreSchizo]

You can make friends even if you’re a sub 5 it just won’t be the group you are hoping for

 

[N1666]

I see deformed people with friends, meanwhile I have none

 

[h111]

Don't put too much responsibility on yourself, you can be boring, as I am. If you are cuck you know that. I never had many friends either, even when I was good looking.

Im a pushover. I try to be too nice to everyone when i know they want me dead

 

[Darkeningstar]

Im a pushover. I try to be too nice to everyone when i know they want me dead

Don't be too nice

 

[h111]

people make friends in their looks/status range.

Then i must have nobody in my looks/status range because i am not known by anybody and I rot all day

I see deformed people with friends, meanwhile I have none

all i want to do is go outside and enjoy time with friends like how chads do. Im not some sort of mentalcel that doesn’t want to go outside. It feels shit to go outside by myself though

 

[Deleted member 81007]

I see deformed people with friends, meanwhile I have none

Surely if you looked like this shrek nigga it would be hard

 

[h111]

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Surely if you looked like this shrek nigga it would be hard

I look worse at least he is white

 

[N1666]

Then i must have nobody in my looks/status range because i am not known by anybody and I rot all day

If you rot all day then that probably answers your question, you can’t expect people to just float towards you.

all i want to do is go outside and enjoy time with friends like how chads do. Im not some sort of mentalcel that doesn’t want to go outside. It feels shit to go outside by myself though

I can guarantee you if you went outside and saw a group of people, they’d be MTNs at best. It’s not like only good looking people can have friends. Sounds bluepilled asf but you are probably deluding yourself into thinking that everyone you see on the street is above average looking. I used to do the same until I consistently went outside and realised the average person looks like shit/average

 

[N1666]

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Surely if you looked like this shrek nigga it would be hard

Unironically looks like he would be NT. He doesn’t look freakishly ugly or off putting, he’s just fat

 

[h111]

Unironically looks like he would be NT. He doesn’t look freakishly ugly or off putting, he’s just fat

Idk him but he looks like a normal guy

 

[incel194012940]

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Surely if you looked like this shrek nigga it would be hard

not really tbh just go to meetups with other reddit looking soycucks and dont be too autistic. If he wanted to be friends with sex-havers or anyone above his status range that’s where it’d be hard

 

[billymidnight]

ofc but if you're NT enough you'll still make friends even if you're like low LTN

Low ltn is a stretch no one wants to be seen walking around with that , high LTN. Can easily get accepted into any friend group if they’re NT enough

 

[fuse]

Low ltn is a stretch no one wants to be seen walking around with that , high LTN. Can easily get accepted into any friend group if they’re NT enough

yeah fair. maybe like mid to high LTN is around the limit

 

[h111]

not really tbh just go to meetups with other reddit looking soycucks and dont be too autistic. If he wanted to be friends with sex-havers or anyone above his status range that’s where it’d be hard

The thing is, most guys who look like me CHOOSE to stay inside so I can’t find anyone to go outside with

Low ltn is a stretch no one wants to be seen walking around with that , high LTN. Can easily get accepted into any friend group if they’re NT enough

Well thats what i thought too, im low ltn most likely nobody can handle seeing me face to face for a few hours straight

 

[billymidnight]

The thing is, most guys who look like me CHOOSE to stay inside so I can’t find anyone to go outside with

Well thats what i thought too, im low ltn most likely nobody can handle seeing me face to face for a few hours straight

It’s not that they don’t like seeing ur face, it’s more that they’re afraid to be caught with some one who is really ugly because it can kinda knock of their status. Plus people usually assume ugly people have nothing going for them in life

 

[Maalik]

If you rot all day then that probably answers your question, you can’t expect people to just float towards you.

I can guarantee you if you went outside and saw a group of people, they’d be MTNs at best. It’s not like only good looking people can have friends. Sounds bluepilled asf but you are probably deluding yourself into thinking that everyone you see on the street is above average looking. I used to do the same until I consistently went outside and realised the average person looks like shit/average

this is true, but its also true
even guy do see it as a hit to their status to be seen with ugly dudes.
i remember my schoolfriends wanted me out of our last pic together insisting i hold the camera. they were all solid HIGH MTNs / Low HTNs while im birdcel sub5.

my case is a true exception tho. there's not that many sub5s in the world or on this forum.
As long a guy isn't straight up offensive to the eye his looks never stop him from making friends.

 

[Deleted member 79871]

You can honestly only make “friends” if you’re average looking.

Ugly - disgust from people

Good looking - jealous and envy

 

[Maalik]

It’s not that they don’t like seeing ur face, it’s more that they’re afraid to be caught with some one who is really ugly because it can kinda knock of their status. Plus people usually assume ugly people have nothing going for them in life

100%
i had many lengthy conversations, jokes, all nighters and adventures etc with my schoolfriends and we really were close even outside school.
but they would act colder to me in class and never let me be in their instagram pics.

People just dont want to be seen as a sub5's friend by other people.

 

[AustinCutler]

yesn't

 

[billymidnight]

100%
i had many lengthy conversations, jokes, all nighters and adventures etc with my schoolfriends and we really were close even outside school.
but they would act colder to me in class and never let me be in their instagram pics.

People just dont want to be seen as a sub5's friend by other people.

Damn I’m sorry bro, but that’s just the way it is. I hate hanging around with ugly friends as I just feel so embarrassed cos I feel as if I don’t want to associate myself with them at all, as I automatically assume they’re have no use in life

 

[twojei]

Had an interaction on tiktok with someone who made a video on how you can’t have good conversation starters on foids as sub 5
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I’m a hideous creature, people probably get scared when they see me, I have the body of slenderman and the face of an asian bo2cel.

Am I coping or is my looks affecting my ability to make friends? When people see me they assume that I am either a nerd or an NPC, which is reasonable because I look like a dork.

I'd say that people tend to interact or associate more between those who are of similar levels of attractiveness or below. I have seen friendships of HTN and MTN, but I have never seen a LTN being friends with a HTN.

 

[einzigartig]

Had an interaction on tiktok with someone who made a video on how you can’t have good conversation starters on foids as sub 5
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I’m a hideous creature, people probably get scared when they see me, I have the body of slenderman and the face of an asian bo2cel.

Am I coping or is my looks affecting my ability to make friends? When people see me they assume that I am either a nerd or an NPC, which is reasonable because I look like a dork.

kinda true when i was on new school people always came to me to talk amd through we got friends

I've never made the first step

 

[h111]

You can honestly only make “friends” if you’re average looking.

Ugly - disgust from people

Good looking - jealous and envy

Not true i feel like good looking people are always very popular

 

[beniman]

Had an interaction on tiktok with someone who made a video on how you can’t have good conversation starters on foids as sub 5
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I’m a hideous creature, people probably get scared when they see me, I have the body of slenderman and the face of an asian bo2cel.

Am I coping or is my looks affecting my ability to make friends? When people see me they assume that I am either a nerd or an NPC, which is reasonable because I look like a dork.

Now that I think abt it. I only have one friend thats bellow mtn

 

[Deleted member 79871]

Not true i feel like good looking people are always very popular

They might be popular but they are not necessarily “liked”

There’s a lot of envious people praying on your downfall

 

[Deleted member 73803]

good post op

They might be popular but they are not necessarily “liked”

There’s a lot of envious people praying on your downfall

yea normally when i interact with people in uni i usually get their number or business contact really easily. jfl i've even done cold approaching on guys in class and the eating area and gained new friends that way

but yea strength in numbers i constantly saw sub5-ltn males/females trying to gang up on me and gaslight me when in their friend groups but act scared af when alone