Does looks matter more than 50% ?

[jdofh]

I honestly feel like I don’t look that bad, but my results don’t match that at all. I’m still struggling a lot socially and especially with dating—I don’t really pull anything, no matter what I try, and I kinda feel like a loser because of it.





It makes me question whether looks are actually more than 50% of the equation. People always say confidence, personality, and social skills matter, but in real life it doesn’t seem to play out that way for me.





I’ve also posted photos of myself before and I’ll include them here in this post again for reference. Based on that, I’d really like honest feedback—do I maybe have a biased/self-delusional view of how I look?





So I’m wondering—if you’re average or slightly above in looks, is that still not enough? Or am I missing something else that matters just as much (or more) than appearance?





Curious to hear honest opinions and experiences.
Oh yeah and of course that are good pictures of me I mean no filters or anything just good lightning in the second one I would say they really aren’t that frauded so let’s just imagine that I look 1:1 for this post

 

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[alexias]

I honestly feel like I don’t look that bad, but my results don’t match that at all. I’m still struggling a lot socially and especially with dating—I don’t really pull anything, no matter what I try, and I kinda feel like a loser because of it.





It makes me question whether looks are actually more than 50% of the equation. People always say confidence, personality, and social skills matter, but in real life it doesn’t seem to play out that way for me.





I’ve also posted photos of myself before and I’ll include them here in this post again for reference. Based on that, I’d really like honest feedback—do I maybe have a biased/self-delusional view of how I look?





So I’m wondering—if you’re average or slightly above in looks, is that still not enough? Or am I missing something else that matters just as much (or more) than appearance?





Curious to hear honest opinions and experiences.
Oh yeah and of course that are good pictures of me I mean no filters or anything just good lightning in the second one I would say they really aren’t that frauded so let’s just imagine that I look 1:1 for this post

Yeah looks dont matter, looks theory dismantled in one second now leave the forum

 

[jdofh]

Be fr

 

[Harmonnarrow]

looks matter in every aspect of life, but other skills keep you in positions of authority and in a relationship with a girl. First opportunities looks is far and away THE determinant. Ex: lawyers literally don't get hired if their under 6 foot or unnattractive and someone with a 5-10 lower LSAT will get hired over them, but if your good af at what you do you can still make it in life

 

[sickofitall]

well the only way a girl is gonna entertain something with you is whatever you offer. you have to literally be the best option in her mind to even get her attention . Ok so she might find you attractive right but your still not her first option cuz the dude she wants doesnt give her the attention she needs. so she talks to you , now you have to say the right things perfectly to manipulate her emotions to make you her first option but most guys are tryna do this looking average and average texting thats why you dont really stand out and not get the results u want . also girls go through like 40 dudes a day and they get 99+ matches a day on tinder and hinge so its js really cooked

 

[anticel]

you are a very attracive dude my guy. your nervous system probably all tensed up.