Does self esteem vary constantly to you?

[MaghrebGator]

Do you have moments in which you feel the most handsome man alive but then some hours later after the lack of validation you feel like a VUP (Very Ugly Person)?

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Yeah but it usually depends on how i look that day

 

[MaghrebGator]

Yeah but it usually depends on how i look that day

At least that is more rational than seeking validation

 

[LooksOrDeath]

At least that is more rational than seeking validation

Its cause you actually get validated by others for looking better
I'm not rational either

 

[MaghrebGator]

Its cause you actually get validated by others for looking better

Man i understand what you say. It's that when you are younger people who love you like your family always tell you that you are good looking. But then obsession with women and marriage and whatever comes and it changes the dynamics completely.

I'm not rational either

Nah man, you sound like a enough rational person. Don't listen to these jews.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

no im narcy

 

[Zenis]

Do you have moments in which you feel the most handsome man alive but then some hours later after the lack of validation you feel like a VUP (Very Ugly Person)?

It’s always low

 

[LooksOrDeath]

.

 

[MaghrebGator]

no im narcy

Seeking validation is also a narcy trait

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Seeking validation is also a narcy trait

yes, and overreacting too. i do those

difference is when ppl dont validate me i think they are idiots or evil not that i should do better JFL

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Obviously
Everyone's like this

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Man i understand what you say. It's that when you are younger people who love you like your family always tell you that you are good looking. But then obsession with women and marriage and whatever comes and it changes the dynamics completely.

Nah man, you sound like a enough rational person. Don't listen to these jews.

I mean to say that my self esteem is higher when I look better, and vice versa. Like classmates and random people would say i look nice, which makes me feel better. That doesnt happen when i have a bad day. My family didnt especially tell me I looked good when i was young, i actually look a lot better now.

 

[MaghrebGator]

Obviously
Everyone's like this

I doubt everyone lives in a roller coaster of emotions related to looks and self esteem during just one day, and like this everyday.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Seeking validation is also a narcy trait

Depends
Almost everyone seeks validation from others, its a part of being human

 

[LooksOrDeath]

I doubt everyone lives in a roller coaster of emotions related to looks and self esteem during just one day, and like this everyday.

A lot of people are like this actually

 

[Deleted member 6305]

I doubt everyone lives in a roller coaster of emotions related to looks and self esteem during just one day, and like this everyday.

Most are but they don't say it out loud, specially women

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

I mean i do acknowledge some days i'm uglier but it doesn't affect my self esteem or confidence