Does she want me? Pls help

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I was at a party at a friend's house and there's this nice girl (maybe 5/10) and I think she might be into me. She's 16/17 and I'm 19 (completely normal and legal in my country ). About my SMV: got rated around 5/10 on truerateme (however I used my best photo, but I guess everybody does), average (maybe even a little above average) height, but on the party second or third tallest (out of 10 other guys) + might got little bit of halo from my younger chad brother + I'm like really smart in school and in general but that shit don't count I guess + I'm skinny but my face looks a little bit fat, but that's already accounted in my truerateme rating,so there's maybe potential

For:
  • After we met at a previous party, she added me on insta, but didn't write me any message, and neither had I
  • We fought (like try to sink each other) at the pool but most people here did as well, but she appeared to enjoy fighting particularly with me.
  • When I was laying down she just randomly touched my cheek and said: How cute is he sleeping
  • She seemed to be interested in my drunk stories, where I'm from and similar shit. I asked her about some of her stories and something about her, and she told me a little bit, but said that she enjoys listening to me. While that I was maybe hugging her or at least kinda similar touching her, can't tell exactly, I was a little bit drunk. Then I kinda fell asleep, but don't remember how or when and why she didn't stay sleeping there, however maybe cause I was sleeping on the sofa and it just might not be comfortable for her.
  • One guy gave me and her condoms, she was comfortable with it, we even took a photo and I send it to another friend and he seriously thought we fucked xDD
  • When I was leaving I was just shaking hands with everybody, even with girls (was trying to be nice, cause at other parties everybody was hugging complete strangers and it seemed weird to me, so I didn't want to force them into doing so, but it's fucking retarded, next time I will just hug every girl). When I was giving her my hand she wanted to hug me, but I, fucking retard, gave her just one hand hug, but again don't know if this count cause some random girl,I didn't talk a word with, wanted a hug too.​
  • Overall she appeared to behave kinda submissive and childish around me​
Against
  • She might wanna just use me to get to my brother, but don't think so cause she didn't tell a word about him
  • There was another guy she was talking to, but he is a midget (not literaly, but short enough to be made fun of)
  • After the party, I added her on snap (via QuickAdd not via Search to not appear creepy), but she didn't message me and neither had I (Should I? Possibly how?), we are just sending streaks, however, she appears to open my snaps the moment she's online.
Damm, I just realized how tf much I am overthinking, thank god for alcohol.
 
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Yeah bro, sounds like she's just having fun. Don't take it too seriously.

Spin the plates broo
 
I can't really read this. at this point your asking us to read her mind through words on a screen. Don't make the mistakes i have. There are women that did everything in their power to make it seem like they weren't interested in me but I still intuitively knew that they did. my mistake was not trusting my gut. i think you know if she likes you or not because humans are simple animals. it's just you're probably too insecure to believe it.

Enough overthinking, or trying to dodge rejection and control a situation. the only thing you can do is just let go and be okay with her not liking you. Put yourself in situations where romance can develop by spending time with her. Seduction and sex is like a dance where both parties will do what they can to facilitate something.

If you do take my advice, don't resist it and do what you feel like. spend some time with her and be her friend so that both of you have faith in each other. don't go into anything with any expectations and just let things happen naturally.

some girls need months, others days. best advice i can give you.
 
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