Does social anxiety/being a loner cuck your appeal to women?

[suicidemonkey]

I swear to God, any time I'm on the train or out in public I often notice girls staring at me. I've also nearly been laid by foids in clubs, and they looked decent.

2 weeks ago I walked into some chemist and some foid legit started following me around giggling with her sisters (I'm not a sub 5 btw people have rated me here).

I'm doing this university course currently and it really is like no one has any interest in speaking to me, for the first few weeks I was treated pretty well by the people around me but now a I'm just invisible.

It's like people can just tell that I'm self-conscious, is social anxiety really that bad of a thing for a 20 year old guy to have? It isn't severe, but enough that it's borderline impossible to fit in with normies. The only people that will be friends with me are low status losers, but when people first meet me they find me charismatic. Like I was talking to this one foid for some time, we had this group presentation and I basically humiliated myself in front of 10 people, after that she just stopped talking to me.

I'd honestly rather be a loner than be friends with low status guys. Can someone relate? It often feels like I'm the only guy in the world who experiences this to such an extreme degree.

Also in some pics a lot of people have rated me above average, I've had social issues like this my whole life.

 

[Mess]

For the most part, yes. Unless you look like this:

 

[Newday*V3]

Yes

 

[suicidemonkey]

For the most part, yes. Unless you look like this:

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Yeah fuck bro, I should probably just hit the club with a drink or two at this point

 

[Newday*V3]

Well no but yes, women like when you are busy or have plans doing something that’s different, if you are a loner it doesn’t matter, but if you are a loner + you ldar all day and they know that then yes your appeal is gone

 

[suicidemonkey]

Well no but yes, women like when you are busy or have plans doing something that’s different, if you are a loner it doesn’t matter, but if you are a loner + you ldar all day and they know that then yes your appeal is gone

No no what I wrote was just based on my university course, I haven't actually tried going on dates.

 

[Newday*V3]

No no what I wrote was just based on my university course, I haven't actually tried going on dates.

bro I dnr’d ur shit im just replying to title

 

[suicidemonkey]

For the most part, yes. Unless you look like this:

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Random question but would you also rather be a loner than known as the guy who's friends with low status losers?

I'm talking 5'6 LTNs, there's this other guy who's a high MTN but he's a faggot.

 

[Mess]

Random question but would you also rather be a loner than known as the guy who's friends with low status losers?

I'm talking 5'6 LTNs, there's this other guy who's a high MTN but he's a faggot.

Loner.

 

[suicidemonkey]

Loner.

Dude the thing is these social problems have been soo pervasive that I've just given up on having the ideal social life, this has actually helped since I don't really care as much what other people think of me anymore.

I'll still my best to fit in though, but I think you can see where I'm coming from. I think much of it is rooted in internal beliefs.

 

[JohnnyRamone]

I swear to God, any time I'm on the train or out in public I often notice girls staring at me. I've also nearly been laid by foids in clubs, and they looked decent.

2 weeks ago I walked into some chemist and some foid legit started following me around giggling with her sisters (I'm not a sub 5 btw people have rated me here).

I'm doing this university course currently and it really is like no one has any interest in speaking to me, for the first few weeks I was treated pretty well by the people around me but now a I'm just invisible.

It's like people can just tell that I'm self-conscious, is social anxiety really that bad of a thing for a 20 year old guy to have? It isn't severe, but enough that it's borderline impossible to fit in with normies. The only people that will be friends with me are low status losers, but when people first meet me they find me charismatic. Like I was talking to this one foid for some time, we had this group presentation and I basically humiliated myself in front of 10 people, after that she just stopped talking to me.

I'd honestly rather be a loner than be friends with low status guys. Can someone relate? It often feels like I'm the only guy in the world who experiences this to such an extreme degree.

Also in some pics a lot of people have rated me above average, I've had social issues like this my whole life.

It does if you’re not hot.

 

[flatcheck213]

obviously