does this girl like me or am i being delusional or do i need more evidence?

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Okay, so tell me, this girl likes me or not, okay? So basically what happened is she was doing exercise, I was doing exercise, but I feel like she sometimes looks at me, or let's just say she doesn't even look at me. But maybe let's just say she is just looking around and her eyes sometimes lay on me. It's like that, okay? Let's just say that. And then she also, like, I feel like she kind of gets nervous around me. I don't know if it's true or not. I mean nervous in sense, like, you know, she's gonna do this or that, walk around, but usually when she's alone, she doesn't walk around, but when I'm there, she'll walk around, like here and there near the machine she's doing. And while doing exercise something funny happened, when we were doing alternate, like other guy was also there, I don't know what he was doing, but yeah, something funny happened, and she didn't laugh until I did, like I was smiling. Yeah, it was like that. Is she interested in me, or am I delusional as fuck? Because if I am, then I am very delusional. But the thing is, I don't know. I kind of get a vibe that she likes me. Maybe I'm just stupid or overthinking because I kind of like her. And the thing is that, you know the phenotype and archetype thing? So whatever dash is, like the last girl that had a crush on me, she has the same archetype or phenotype shit. So yeah, that's a thing. So I don't know, maybe I'm just overthinking it. Maybe it's true. I don't know. What do you guys think?
this girl doesn't do ND things tbh, she's just working out when she's working out tbh doesn't scroll reels but today i saw her scrolling reels when she was working out besides me, and whenever she talks with me she smiles but i noticed when she talks with other guy she doesn't smile. talk in sense asking for alternate sets and all.
and me and her doing some exercise with same rod but someone took it when the other guy was using rope on our cable we didn't notice and she did her set with different rod (which had something on it she did her pushdown) but when i tried to do my reverse curls i couldn't because of shit grip and then i left it tried to find the rod but other guys took it and they were working out with it. and then once it was felt rather than going herself (she's very self independent like girl, like does her workout on her own and isn't like rest of the girls in the gym who are basically behind guys or in group with girls) she said to me that's empty and then i got it for us and then she used it and i used it.
and once a few days back she offered me help when i didn't even need it like i was putting a 25 kgs plate on a machine because it was maxed out and she said "Should i call the trainer" because the machine was kinda broken and i was trying to fix it, i said no because it was a easy fix and she smiled and said ok. like i have noticed it a lot she only smiles when she's with her female friend which recently joined the gym otherwise she doesn't smile at/with anyone or rarely like once in a full moon type shit
 
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A foid shouldn’t make u type all this
 
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Okay, so tell me, this girl likes me or not, okay? So basically what happened is she was doing exercise, I was doing exercise, but I feel like she sometimes looks at me, or let's just say she doesn't even look at me. But maybe let's just say she is just looking around and her eyes sometimes lay on me. It's like that, okay? Let's just say that. And then she also, like, I feel like she kind of gets nervous around me. I don't know if it's true or not. I mean nervous in sense, like, you know, she's gonna do this or that, walk around, but usually when she's alone, she doesn't walk around, but when I'm there, she'll walk around, like here and there near the machine she's doing. And while doing exercise something funny happened, when we were doing alternate, like other guy was also there, I don't know what he was doing, but yeah, something funny happened, and she didn't laugh until I did, like I was smiling. Yeah, it was like that. Is she interested in me, or am I delusional as fuck? Because if I am, then I am very delusional. But the thing is, I don't know. I kind of get a vibe that she likes me. Maybe I'm just stupid or overthinking because I kind of like her. And the thing is that, you know the phenotype and archetype thing? So whatever dash is, like the last girl that had a crush on me, she has the same archetype or phenotype shit. So yeah, that's a thing. So I don't know, maybe I'm just overthinking it. Maybe it's true. I don't know. What do you guys think?
this girl doesn't do ND things tbh, she's just working out when she's working out tbh doesn't scroll reels but today i saw her scrolling reels when she was working out besides me, and whenever she talks with me she smiles but i noticed when she talks with other guy she doesn't smile. talk in sense asking for alternate sets and all.
and me and her doing some exercise with same rod but someone took it when the other guy was using rope on our cable we didn't notice and she did her set with different rod (which had something on it she did her pushdown) but when i tried to do my reverse curls i couldn't because of shit grip and then i left it tried to find the rod but other guys took it and they were working out with it. and then once it was felt rather than going herself (she's very self independent like girl, like does her workout on her own and isn't like rest of the girls in the gym who are basically behind guys or in group with girls) she said to me that's empty and then i got it for us and then she used it and i used it.
and once a few days back she offered me help when i didn't even need it like i was putting a 25 kgs plate on a machine because it was maxed out and she said "Should i call the trainer" because the machine was kinda broken and i was trying to fix it, i said no because it was a easy fix and she smiled and said ok. like i have noticed it a lot she only smiles when she's with her female friend which recently joined the gym otherwise she doesn't smile at/with anyone or rarely like once in a full moon type shit
dnr but you can never be sure if a female actually likes you, they can give mixed signs on purpose and fuck your brain, so if you like her try your chance without being humiliated somehow
 
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dnr but you can never be sure if a female actually likes you, they can give mixed signs on purpose and fuck your brain, so if you like her try your chance without being humiliated somehow
yeah foids are their mixed signals dude
idk how to even talk man i'm neurodivergent af dude and she's neurotypical + i'm autistic + social anxiety + i shake when i try to talk + i kinda like her ig? so i'll get even more nervous :feelswhy:
 
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kinda sounds like you are overthinking and just seems little creepy , but if you like her ask her out or for instagram or some shit like that
 
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kinda sounds like you are overthinking and just seems little creepy
i guess i forgot how to react when i actually like a girl? last time i actually liked a girl was 4 years ago and she proposed to me, and ever since then i never really liked a girl so all i know now is the girls who like me whom i don't like
 
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i guess i forgot how to react when i actually like a girl? last time i actually liked a girl was 4 years ago and she proposed to me, and ever since then i never really liked a girl so all i know now is the girls who like me whom i don't like
ask her out then , no point in waiting you got two option she likes you or dosen't
 
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ask her out then , no point in waiting you got two option she likes you or dosen't
she has a bf and she's in her last year (my friend told me) so brutal i'm not even asking her, my slight crush on her is gone :lul:
 
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Okay, so tell me, this girl likes me or not, okay? So basically what happened is she was doing exercise, I was doing exercise, but I feel like she sometimes looks at me, or let's just say she doesn't even look at me. But maybe let's just say she is just looking around and her eyes sometimes lay on me. It's like that, okay? Let's just say that. And then she also, like, I feel like she kind of gets nervous around me. I don't know if it's true or not. I mean nervous in sense, like, you know, she's gonna do this or that, walk around, but usually when she's alone, she doesn't walk around, but when I'm there, she'll walk around, like here and there near the machine she's doing. And while doing exercise something funny happened, when we were doing alternate, like other guy was also there, I don't know what he was doing, but yeah, something funny happened, and she didn't laugh until I did, like I was smiling. Yeah, it was like that. Is she interested in me, or am I delusional as fuck? Because if I am, then I am very delusional. But the thing is, I don't know. I kind of get a vibe that she likes me. Maybe I'm just stupid or overthinking because I kind of like her. And the thing is that, you know the phenotype and archetype thing? So whatever dash is, like the last girl that had a crush on me, she has the same archetype or phenotype shit. So yeah, that's a thing. So I don't know, maybe I'm just overthinking it. Maybe it's true. I don't know. What do you guys think?
this girl doesn't do ND things tbh, she's just working out when she's working out tbh doesn't scroll reels but today i saw her scrolling reels when she was working out besides me, and whenever she talks with me she smiles but i noticed when she talks with other guy she doesn't smile. talk in sense asking for alternate sets and all.
and me and her doing some exercise with same rod but someone took it when the other guy was using rope on our cable we didn't notice and she did her set with different rod (which had something on it she did her pushdown) but when i tried to do my reverse curls i couldn't because of shit grip and then i left it tried to find the rod but other guys took it and they were working out with it. and then once it was felt rather than going herself (she's very self independent like girl, like does her workout on her own and isn't like rest of the girls in the gym who are basically behind guys or in group with girls) she said to me that's empty and then i got it for us and then she used it and i used it.
and once a few days back she offered me help when i didn't even need it like i was putting a 25 kgs plate on a machine because it was maxed out and she said "Should i call the trainer" because the machine was kinda broken and i was trying to fix it, i said no because it was a easy fix and she smiled and said ok. like i have noticed it a lot she only smiles when she's with her female friend which recently joined the gym otherwise she doesn't smile at/with anyone or rarely like once in a full moon type shit
so funny how she with only some glances and small talk made you type all this

I think you're delusional
 
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I read about 4 characters, you could have gotten a much more accurate answer by asking her 4 words “do you like me”
 
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i guess i forgot how to react when i actually like a girl? last time i actually liked a girl was 4 years ago and she proposed to me, and ever since then i never really liked a girl so all i know now is the girls who like me whom i don't like
lol if you have girls liking you, you should definitely fuck them idk what is your disability
 
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so funny how she with only some glances and small talk made you type all this

I think you're delusional
yeah, had to confirm because recently fumbled a htb something like this only
 
my ass does social anxietymax
Overthinking leads to negative thoughts. Negative thoughts create anxiety. Write that down and repeat it when you overthink
 
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I'm guessing you're htn or something for girls to like you without you doing anything so you should enjoy it
yeah, had to confirm because recently fumbled a htb something like this only
 
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think less and slay more
 
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Overthinking leads to negative thoughts. Negative thoughts create anxiety. Write that down and repeat it when you overthink
do you have shakespeare in your family tree by any chance lol, i'll def write that down
 
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Tldr cba reading all that
 
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@non-chalant have you tried being non chalant?
 
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Tldr make it shorter bro
 
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I'm guessing you're htn or something for girls to like you without you doing anything so you should enjoy it
def not htn but i look human enough
my parents are rich but i keep it extremely low profile so idts anyone knows that, tbh i don't even look at girls and i don't even go out, i just stay in my room all day and go take my clg classes and gym that's it
i dress nicely and apply good perfumes if that even does anything lol
 
DNR BBoyo can't read with my goldfish atention
 
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Tldr make it shorter bro
girl at gym smile when she looks at me or talk to me, does that with no other guy
gets nervous around me ( not sure) but no other guy
very independent but whenever i'm around she let's me take the lead
offers help even though i don't really need it, doesn't do that with anyone

got to know now that she has a bf + she's in her last or second last year of clg
 
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girl at gym smile when she looks at me or talk to me, does that with no other guy
gets nervous around me ( not sure) but no other guy
very independent but whenever i'm around she let's me take the lead
offers help even though i don't really need it, doesn't do that with anyone

got to know now that she has a bf + she's in her last or second last year of clg
Oh i get it now she probably likes u idk about boy friend part whats ur rate and height
 
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Oh i get it know she probably likes u idk about boy friend part whats ur rate and height
i'm a mtn on a good day :feelswhy:, height i fraud 6'4.5 and lowkey i'm tallest the gym and hell even my entire clg except the tallest guy in our country who took admission in my clg who's 8'2:feelswhy:
 
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