Does trauma and an abusive childhood affect looks?

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I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development
 
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Yes malnutrition during development will obviously fuck shit up and for stress not enough study’s some people say over time it makes you look better some say it doesn’t also sorry you had to go through that if you actually did
 
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Yes malnutrition during development will obviously fuck shit up and for stress not enough study’s some people say over time it makes you look better some say it doesn’t also sorry you had to go through that if you actually did
Yea I wouldn’t lie bout this shit, also got sexually assaulted by my ex, but fuck her and her false rape stories, you might be the only person on this website with a soul, thanks for the information God bless you ✌🏽
 
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I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development
I think that only happens in puberty

I feel bad for u bro

Hope u can recover
 
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I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development
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I think that only happens in puberty

I feel bad for u bro

Hope u can recoverYea hopefully prolly got like 50 undiagnosed mental illnesses/disorders lmao but thanks for the concern ✌🏽
 
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maybe, but your body is pretty resilient so it doesnt make drastic changes unless it gets pushed to utter extremes
 
maybe, but your body is pretty resilient so it doesnt make drastic changes unless it gets pushed to utter extremes
Well I lost like 20+ pounds in like a week when I had the flu
 
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Well I lost like 20+ pounds in like a week when I had the flu
do you have ayone you could compare to ? for example if one of your brothers had it better see how you compare to him. or even uncles and shit
 

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