Does trauma and an abusive childhood affect looks?

[notagrey]

I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development

 

[sms]

Dnr

 

[notagrey]

Dnr

Then don’t reply unless you have an answer

 

[imontheloose]

No.

 

[Node]

Did not read

 

[notagrey]

No.

Thank you

 

[jeb98]

doesn't affect face or body but affects mental health

 

[BeanCelll]

Not really just look at Rira

 

[Terrortheplug]

Yes malnutrition during development will obviously fuck shit up and for stress not enough study’s some people say over time it makes you look better some say it doesn’t also sorry you had to go through that if you actually did

 

[Terrortheplug]

Not really just look at Rira

He wasn’t malnourished as a kid it started when he would take drugs

 

[notagrey]

Yes malnutrition during development will obviously fuck shit up and for stress not enough study’s some people say over time it makes you look better some say it doesn’t also sorry you had to go through that if you actually did

Yea I wouldn’t lie bout this shit, also got sexually assaulted by my ex, but fuck her and her false rape stories, you might be the only person on this website with a soul, thanks for the information God bless you

 

[BeanCelll]

He wasn’t malnourished as a kid it started when he would take drugs

Malnutrition sure but trauma as in you were beat, exposed to violent crime/obscene material, etc isn't enough

 

[John6Enjoyer]

I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development

I think that only happens in puberty

I feel bad for u bro

Hope u can recover

 

[John6Enjoyer]

I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development

Heart emojis from mumbai

 

[John6Enjoyer]

Dnr

Did not read

Damn u low iq monster troglodytes have a heart

 

[Node]

Damn u low iq monster troglodytes have a heart

I’m heartless

 

[notagrey]

Heart emojis from mumbai

Appreciate it bhai

 

[Jewgymmaxx]

no look at rira

 

[notagrey]

I think that only happens in puberty

I feel bad for u bro

Hope u can recoverYea hopefully prolly got like 50 undiagnosed mental illnesses/disorders lmao but thanks for the concern

 

[notagrey]

no look at rira

Fuck them jews

 

[pope]

maybe, but your body is pretty resilient so it doesnt make drastic changes unless it gets pushed to utter extremes

 

[notagrey]

maybe, but your body is pretty resilient so it doesnt make drastic changes unless it gets pushed to utter extremes

Well I lost like 20+ pounds in like a week when I had the flu

 

[pope]

Well I lost like 20+ pounds in like a week when I had the flu

do you have ayone you could compare to ? for example if one of your brothers had it better see how you compare to him. or even uncles and shit

 

[klip11]

Childhood trauma can put your body in a state of stress, which causes your stress hormones to increase. Stress hormones suppress the testosterone you're supposed to get at puberty. It also negatively impacts bone growth.

Studies have shown that too much Childhood stress, particularly in the first 5 years of life can cause shorter adult height and more facial asymmetry.

 

[notagrey]

Childhood trauma can put your body in a state of stress, which causes your stress hormones to increase. Stress hormones suppress the testosterone you're supposed to get at puberty. It also negatively impacts bone growth.

Studies have shown that too much Childhood stress, particularly in the first 5 years of life can cause shorter adult height and more facial asymmetry.

Hmmm that’s weird, I must have good genes because I’m not short, and I’ve always been considered attractive

 

[notagrey]

do you have ayone you could compare to ? for example if one of your brothers had it better see how you compare to him. or even uncles and shit

Yea my oldest brother has insane bone mass and imo his only failo is his eye area, think of him as a taller penn badgley with a better sub mental region, and higher set cheekbones he also has a wide jaw he’s high key low-mid chadlite. We have literally the same face shape but my zygos and cheekbones and eye area are better than his, but his jaw high key mogs me

 

[samz]

I’m not gonna sound like a pussy and trauma dump but I haven’t had the best childhood or current life, my dad was an abusive rapist not towards me but towards other people and my family, after that demon hellspawn got deported to the slums of Colombia, i had a calm 3 months before my money-greedy babysitters called the police and made a report that my mother wouldn’t feed us, not buy us new clothes, and over all not take care of us (completely false my mom worked 4-5 jobs to maintain us she isn’t a immigrant and is actually very very beautiful and I don’t just say it because she’s my mom she’s genuinely very pretty) I stood in foster for 4 years, was starved to near death while I had the flu (I was 4 at the time) and foster was overall a bad experience for me and my 2 brothers, but after a while my mom got us back. Something probably happened to her tho, because before quarantine hit, she started getting abusive psychology, and physically, she hasn’t tried to beat my ass in a couple of months but she was still mentally abusive and still is to the point where exactly 1 month ago from today I tried to kill myself. I got sent to a psyche ward it was only for 5 hours but still nonetheless terrible experience, enough trauma dumping but to the actual question, could this have affected how good I look, I’m not ugly by any means but I do know that stress and malnutrition can hurt your attractiveness especially during development

Childhood trauma and abuse don’t just damage the mind — they physically change how the body and face develop. When a child grows up in constant stress, their body is flooded with cortisol, which blocks growth hormone and shifts the system into survival mode instead of healthy growth. This often leads to shorter height, weaker bone structure, and delayed physical development. In extreme cases, the body activates precocious puberty — maturing far too early as a defence mechanism, basically saying, “life is unsafe, grow fast so you can reproduce before it’s too late.” While this might protect survival, it comes at a cost: the growth plates fuse earlier, stunting height, and sex hormones hit too soon, giving the face a harsher, unbalanced look compared to someone who matures slowly. Trauma also affects facial development — stress and anxiety encourage mouth breathing and tension in facial muscles, which over time cause a recessed maxilla, weaker jawline, and permanent “stressed” expressions. Cortisol further damages the skin, leaving it dull and aged, while the body stores more belly fat and struggles to build muscle. Science calls this biological aging acceleration, where stress literally wears the body out faster.

 

[samz]

Not really just look at Rira

Good genes will always thrive but trauma and abuse does effect looks, rira would have only looked better if he ate correctly and developed normally