Don't Approach Women Theory Confirmed (They'll Lose Attraction)

[Deleted member 6403]

Men tend to be less selective than women when evaluating and pursuing potential romantic partners. The present experiment employed speed-dating procedures to test a novel explanation for this sex difference: The mere act of physically approaching a potential romantic partner (vs. being approached), a behavior that is more characteristic of men than of women, increases one's attraction to that partner. This hypothesis was supported in a sample of speed daters (N = 350) who attended a heterosexual event where either men (eight events) or women (seven events) rotated from one partner to the next while members of the other sex remained seated. Rotators were significantly less selective than were sitters, which meant that the tendency for men to be less selective than women at events where men rotated disappeared at events where women rotated. These effects were mediated by increased self-confidence among rotators relative to sitters.

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[Deleted member 4612]

well is this about physical approach, as in wait for her to walk towards you? but then if she moves in your vicinity, aren't you supposed to make a move?

also i suppose that also means you should get her to come to your place for a date, right?

 

[Deleted member 2100]

Ok but this advice will only help Chad. No woman is gonna approach a subhuman.

 

[magnificentcel]

93% of women prefer to be approached rather than doing the approaching

 

[Deleted member 11414]

only really applies to chad but good post regardless

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

Like most advice that isn't looks related, Chad only.

 

[Deleted member 10913]

well is this about physical approach, as in wait for her to walk towards you? but then if she moves in your vicinity, aren't you supposed to make a move?

also i suppose that also means you should get her to come to your place for a date, right?

I understand where you comming from but you can't just artaficially create value out of nothing. At least their needs to be a bare minimum.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I understand where you comming from but you can't just artaficially create value out of nothing. At least their needs to be a bare minimum.

no thats what i'm saying though. like try to wait for her to put herself near you, then make an approach

 

[Deleted member 10913]

no thats what i'm saying though. like try to wait for her to put herself near you, then make an approach

Oh my bad, i see now

 

[Deleted member 6341]

93% of women prefer to be approached rather than doing the approaching

Yeah, being passive is a bad thing .... unless you are willing to date post prime roasties and sluts who are less attractive than you.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Men tend to be less selective than women when evaluating and pursuing potential romantic partners. The present experiment employed speed-dating procedures to test a novel explanation for this sex difference: The mere act of physically approaching a potential romantic partner (vs. being approached), a behavior that is more characteristic of men than of women, increases one's attraction to that partner. This hypothesis was supported in a sample of speed daters (N = 350) who attended a heterosexual event where either men (eight events) or women (seven events) rotated from one partner to the next while members of the other sex remained seated. Rotators were significantly less selective than were sitters, which meant that the tendency for men to be less selective than women at events where men rotated disappeared at events where women rotated. These effects were mediated by increased self-confidence among rotators relative to sitters.

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That's why "dan balzerian" type of "gaming" moggs.
Where the woman basically comes to him, to ask if she can please be and chill at the party/house.

 

[Deleted member 11053]

93% of women prefer to be approached rather than doing the approaching

Women's are liars