DONT JUMP STRAIGHT INTO INTAMACY JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN

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I'm 18 years old and a month ago I was a khhv.

From last month until today I've done pretty much every intimate thing someone can do except losing my virginity.

She was a friend of a friend visiting my country for a month.

She initiated every interaction since the day we met and gave infinite IOI's and on the second day we already did some pretty intimate stuff.

Assuming she liked me and we would keep talking for a while I was ok with it.

We got a bit closer over the span of the first 1-2 weeks and did some stuff again.

2 days later I send some slightly clingy texts and she's like I don't think we should talk anymore since she's leaving the country and whatever.

Now I feel like shit bcs she was the first person I did anything with idk if I messed it up or if she was just looking for something for the summer like I wish we couldve kept talking.

Anyways my point is if you're a sensible guy and aren't just looking for meaningless intimacy with randoms, even if you've never experienced anything intimate before you should always wait and make sure about the person you're with expecially with the first person you do it with bcs I kinda feel like shit now and If hadn't agreed to do those stuff I wouldn't feel nearly as bad.

For the people who have a lot of experience is this something that normally happens or did I just fumble really badly.
 
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I fuck on the first date
 
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You need to move as fast as possible. Every girl I ever met wanted intimacy before me.
When you wait it simply doesn't happen.
You first have to show you don't care, and when the moment is there, or she escalates or shows she's ready, you take your chance.
The rest is pointless.
Take it from a slayer.
 
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You need to move as fast as possible. Every girl I ever met wanted intimacy before me.
When you wait it simply doesn't happen.
You first have to show you don't care, and when the moment is there, or she escalates or shows she's ready, you take your chance.
The rest is pointless.
Take it from a slayer.
Spongebob dropping truth nukes
 
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I'm 18 years old and a month ago I was a khhv.

From last month until today I've done pretty much every intimate thing someone can do except losing my virginity.

She was a friend of a friend visiting my country for a month.

She initiated every interaction since the day we met and gave infinite IOI's and on the second day we already did some pretty intimate stuff.

Assuming she liked me and we would keep talking for a while I was ok with it.

We got a bit closer over the span of the first 1-2 weeks and did some stuff again.

2 days later I send some slightly clingy texts and she's like I don't think we should talk anymore since she's leaving the country and whatever.

Now I feel like shit bcs she was the first person I did anything with idk if I messed it up or if she was just looking for something for the summer like I wish we couldve kept talking.

Anyways my point is if you're a sensible guy and aren't just looking for meaningless intimacy with randoms, even if you've never experienced anything intimate before you should always wait and make sure about the person you're with expecially with the first person you do it with bcs I kinda feel like shit now and If hadn't agreed to do those stuff I wouldn't feel nearly as bad.

For the people who have a lot of experience is this something that normally happens or did I just fumble really badly.
Dnr but sounds pretty trust worthy
 
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You need to move as fast as possible. Every girl I ever met wanted intimacy before me.
When you wait it simply doesn't happen.
You first have to show you don't care, and when the moment is there, or she escalates or shows she's ready, you take your chance.
The rest is pointless.
Take it from a slayer.
I dont understand wdym like if i want an actual long term relationship and dont wanna risk someone just looking for intamacy for a couple of weeks and dipping what do I do
 
do not redeem it ahh
 
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Been there aswell, for women having sex is when she will feel closer to u.

Especially if shes non virgin, anything else doesn't rlly matter
 
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I dont understand wdym like if i want an actual long term relationship and dont wanna risk someone just looking for intamacy for a couple of weeks and dipping what do I do
No girl wants a relationship. Take it from me. It will spare you 10 years of misery. Just fuck them and some will try to build a relationship. You can never be the initiator of the relationship though.
 
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I'm 18 years old and a month ago I was a khhv.

From last month until today I've done pretty much every intimate thing someone can do except losing my virginity.

She was a friend of a friend visiting my country for a month.

She initiated every interaction since the day we met and gave infinite IOI's and on the second day we already did some pretty intimate stuff.

Assuming she liked me and we would keep talking for a while I was ok with it.

We got a bit closer over the span of the first 1-2 weeks and did some stuff again.

2 days later I send some slightly clingy texts and she's like I don't think we should talk anymore since she's leaving the country and whatever.

Now I feel like shit bcs she was the first person I did anything with idk if I messed it up or if she was just looking for something for the summer like I wish we couldve kept talking.

Anyways my point is if you're a sensible guy and aren't just looking for meaningless intimacy with randoms, even if you've never experienced anything intimate before you should always wait and make sure about the person you're with expecially with the first person you do it with bcs I kinda feel like shit now and If hadn't agreed to do those stuff I wouldn't feel nearly as bad.

For the people who have a lot of experience is this something that normally happens or did I just fumble really badly.
meanwhile as an actual INCEL best i can get is an expensive young escort or my own imaginationa and deluions.
 
meanwhile as an actual INCEL best i can get is an expensive young escort or my own imaginationa and deluions.
I mean I'm back to where I started basically also. I just really want a proper girl
 

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