Don't let anyone demotivate you.

[Jason Voorhees]

Title even I was told on this forum that I would never get a gf. I would never get any girls and I would never find anyone. Yet I did. despite all my flaws and set backs. real life is far more forgiving, nuanced empathetic and friendly than people here make it out to be. You don't have to fight ghosts. There are people out there who will accept you for who you are see your value, and care about you. I am not saying you should stop looksmaxxing or improving your situation but grinding away under the delusion that you are completely unlovable until you hit some ideal is equally delusional. Some of the modern societies greatest tricks is convincing young men that they are inherently worthless unless they fit certain standards. Just fuck off with that BS.

 

[scuderia]

Title even I was told on this forum that I would never get a gf. I would never get any girls and I would never find anyone. Yet I did. despite all my flaws and set backs. real life is far more forgiving, nuanced empathetic and friendly than people here make it out to be. You don't have to fight ghosts. There are people out there who will accept you for who you are see your value, and care about you. I am not saying you should stop looksmaxxing or improving your situation but grinding away under the delusion that you are completely unlovable until you hit some ideal is equally delusional. Some of the modern societies greatest tricks is convincing young men that they are inherently worthless unless they fit certain standards. Just fuck off with that BS.

hopefuel

 

[Seven]

right unc
btw read my thread

https://looksmax.org/threads/foids-keep-approaching-me-lately-gtfih-must-read.2345619/

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@optimisticzoomer

 

[Seth Walsh]

Title even I was told on this forum that I would never get a gf. I would never get any girls and I would never find anyone. Yet I did. despite all my flaws and set backs. real life is far more forgiving, nuanced empathetic and friendly than people here make it out to be. You don't have to fight ghosts. There are people out there who will accept you for who you are see your value, and care about you. I am not saying you should stop looksmaxxing or improving your situation but grinding away under the delusion that you are completely unlovable until you hit some ideal is equally delusional. Some of the modern societies greatest tricks is convincing young men that they are inherently worthless unless they fit certain standards. Just fuck off with that BS.

Real and true.

Always stay up

 

[Surfsup]

HOPEMAXXING

 

[ShamelessClubSlut]

There are people out there who will accept you for who you are see your value, and care about you

This is just not true for everyone. Some people are genuinely hopeless and it’s evil to tell them otherwise. I was told all of my life to “just work hard brah” or “just be a good person brah” or “the right person is out there for you brah” and it was all bullshit. Fact is, I should have been told from the start that there was nothing for me so I would have never gotten my hopes up only to have them smashed into pieces over and over and over again. Real life was NOT forgiving to me. Real life chewed me up, shit me out, and flushed me down the toilet. Hope fuel is nice for those who are worthy of being hopeful, but don’t make blanket statements like that.

 

[Foreverbrad]

This is just not true for everyone. Some people are genuinely hopeless and it’s evil to tell them otherwise. I was told all of my life to “just work hard brah” or “just be a good person brah” or “the right person is out there for you brah” and it was all bullshit. Fact is, I should have been told from the start that there was nothing for me so I would have never gotten my hopes up only to have them smashed into pieces over and over and over again. Real life was NOT forgiving to me. Real life chewed me up, shit me out, and flushed me down the toilet. Hope fuel is nice for those who are worthy of being hopeful, but don’t make blanket statements like that.

Someone who just had self esteem problems rather than physical deformity and mental illness may benefit from that advice.

Otherwise, framing the situation as an internal problem rather than an external one is a cope for the likes of us.

 

[ShamelessClubSlut]

Someone who just had self esteem problems rather than physical deformity and mental illness may benefit from that advice.

Otherwise, framing the situation as an internal problem rather than an external one is a cope for the likes of us.

legit. my own mother who was the main person fucking my life up tries to convince me, even to this day, that it was MY FAULT. That I’m alone because of my “personality”, and not because the worthless whore made me a half black subhuman tortured with a vegetarian diet.

I legit fucking despise her

 

[Jason Voorhees]

This is just not true for everyone. Some people are genuinely hopeless and it’s evil to tell them otherwise. I was told all of my life to “just work hard brah” or “just be a good person brah” or “the right person is out there for you brah” and it was all bullshit. Fact is, I should have been told from the start that there was nothing for me so I would have never gotten my hopes up only to have them smashed into pieces over and over and over again. Real life was NOT forgiving to me. Real life chewed me up, shit me out, and flushed me down the toilet. Hope fuel is nice for those who are worthy of being hopeful, but don’t make blanket statements like that.

Atleast try your best before giving up

 

[Foreverbrad]

legit. my own mother who was the main person fucking my life up tries to convince me, even to this day, that it was MY FAULT. That I’m alone because of my “personality”, and not because the worthless whore made me a half black subhuman tortured with a vegetarian diet.

I legit fucking despise her

I was tortured with a vegetarian diet too. Pretty sure that’s why I can’t build muscle effectively.

 

[ShamelessClubSlut]

Atleast try your best before giving up

i just don’t think I can tbh, i’m not built with that level of mental fortitude some people have. The idea of even speaking to women makes me panic. I nearly cry sometimes when I have to IRL, and that’s not a joke. I don’t even feel like I can control it or fix it. Just being around people IRL makes me so deeply miserable and depressed. Ever since going to university classes again, I feel this intense sense of despair all the time, hence all the posting in the past fee days to distract from it.

 

[ShamelessClubSlut]

I was tortured with a vegetarian diet too. Pretty sure that’s why I can’t build muscle effectively.

Yeah everything about me looks fucked dude, like my body was desperately trying to grow correctly but didn’t have a real chance.

 

[Renophobeadoobe]

Mirin post. I was thinking about this today.

Recent thoughts were "I can't enjoy my life until I do x surgeries and achieve x physique"

I realized my constraints haven't really limited me, I'm the one who put limits on myself

 

[Renophobeadoobe]

Someone who just had self esteem problems rather than physical deformity and mental illness may benefit from that advice.

Otherwise, framing the situation as an internal problem rather than an external one is a cope for the likes of us.

You're not wrong at all, and

I think this reaches a good majority of the forum. Most niggas here aren't even that hideous and their internal limits them.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@pony @Jason5000

 

[Jason5000]

hopefuel. I agree. we can all find love someday