Don't let your friends stop you from approaching an interested girl

[chang cypionate]

Quick story time so I won't have to do tldr

NYE party, know most guys there and some girls

Towards end of party, girl I don't know sees me and uses her pointer finger to gesture for me to come here

Literally like in the movies where a girl is flirting or in music videos

She was in a group of her friends who didn't seem to care

I completely ignored her as I was leaving with my friends

Outside the house, same girl and her friends pulls up to me and my friend

I forgot the conversation, but she ended up touching my pockets and pants a lot

I stood there with no emotion, poker faced because my friend was right there and I didn't want to act for some reason

Her friend saw from my facial expression that I wasn't interested, and said "maybe stop touching his pants"

Tldr anywa: She did the most flirtatious shit of all time, I did the most loser shit and ignored her because I didn't want to approach or chat to her in front of people I know

 

[RedDragonSlayer67]

Why would i

 

[jozsef316@gmail]

L move

 

[chang cypionate]

Why would i

You're a better man than I was two years ago

 

[DrRodger]

You've got the best name here

 

[chang cypionate]

You've got the best name here

Appreciate it

 

[DarkAscender]

tl;dr don't be a narcy fag

happens to the best of us

 

[L(oser)ooksmaxxer]

Retard sold it’s ok tho still padded stats and ego

 

[chang cypionate]

Retard sold it’s ok tho still padded stats and ego

It did, I thought about my fumble for the entire day after the party, but then I forgot about it until now

 

[L(oser)ooksmaxxer]

It did, I thought about my fumble for the entire day after the party, but then I forgot about it until now

We all fumble bro it’s ok I did something even more retarded like 2 years ago

 

[armemann]

Volcel stories

Are u actually this ND or just selfsabotaging

I would change this mindset very FAST because who knows how much more of this chances you will get, if even

 

[_Zygomatic_]

bro i’m the opposite when im at parties i talk to every girl in my vicinity regardless of who’s watching bruh

 

[chang cypionate]

Volcel stories

Are u actually this ND or just selfsabotaging

I would change this mindset very FAST because who knows how much more of this chances you will get, if even

Yes I hoped I have changed after 2 years, but you're right

bro i’m the opposite when im at parties i talk to every girl in my vicinity regardless of who’s watching bruh

That's a good thing

 

[RichardSpencel]

I do this every time I look good( never ) I just stand there and say thanks when they compliment me and if they’re ask for socials I literally say I don’t have any only my incels account (creeped out 2 girls instantly with this one )

But when she points at you I’d say dont go over ,especially not all excited like most cucks would do although I am giga aspie I’m certain this is a turn off for girls like your story if she is that attracted to you she’ll approach

 

[chang cypionate]

I do this every time I look good( never ) I just stand there and say thanks when they compliment me and if they’re ask for socials I literally say I don’t have any only my incels account (creeped out 2 girls instantly with this one )

But when she points at you I’d say dont go over ,especially not all excited like most cucks would do although I am giga aspie I’m certain this is a turn off for girls like your story if she is that attracted to you she’ll approach

I would definitely give socials if they ask for it, even 2 years ago me would.

But I get what you mean about the finger gesturing thing, especially since she's in a group of her friends.

But she basically did approach me outside the party.

 

[RichardSpencel]

I would definitely give socials if they ask for it, even 2 years ago me would.

But I get what you mean about the finger gesturing thing, especially since she's in a group of her friends.

But she basically did approach me outside the party.

Well I actually don’t have any social media only my incels account so

 

[chang cypionate]

Well I actually don’t have any social media only my incels account so

I would say having socials is pretty important unironically in 2026