"Dont obsess over one girl man, ABUNDANCE mentality is the key"

[Deleted member 18086]

The thing is, you have 0 control of the people you meet and if you meet new people at all. You meet a girl, she rejects you, gotta move on right? Well, its not that easy. It may take months, or even years to meet another girl, and even then you cant know if you will have a chance with her or not. She could be taken or she could reject like the previous one.

And the years go by and you just havent gotten anything. You are in your late 20s now, still a virgin, your friends have moved out and you are all alone. Your life is a ping pong betwen work and home, you work enviroment consists strictyl of men that you dont interact much with. Your only option to have sex is with escorts at this point. Luck is extremely important in life, you can very easily end up incel if you dont have any. Abundance mentality is bs, because you cant control who you meet.

 

[Full-time Ascension]

What do u mean, u have so much opportunities to meet girls, unless ur in jail

 

[Deleted member 18086]

What do u mean, u have so much opportunities to meet girls, unless ur in jail

if your life is work,home, work, home then you have no opportunities lol. if you are in a male only envioment you have no opprtnities. if you are the only person in class you have no opportunities

 

[the BULL]

The thing is, you have 0 control of the people you meet and if you meet new people at all. You meet a girl, she rejects you, gotta move on right? Well, its not that easy. It may take months, or even years to meet another girl, and even then you cant know if you will have a chance with her or not. She could be taken or she could reject like the previous one.

And the years go by and you just havent gotten anything. You are in your late 20s now, still a virgin, your friends have moved out and you are all alone. Your life is a ping pong betwen work and home, you work enviroment consists strictyl of men that you dont interact much with. Your only option to have sex is with escorts at this point. Luck is extremely important in life, you can very easily end up incel if you dont have any. Abundance mentality is bs, because you cant control who you meet.

Incel cope. Unless you don't work in a low paid manual job you're going to meet mostly females at work. And they ain't gonna respect you if you're ugly

 

[Deleted member 18086]

you're going to meet mostly females at work.

you clearly havent left the house if you think this

 

[Deleted member 16819]

Yeah instead of getting rejected by one girl let's getting rejected by hundreds of them

 

[Deleted member 18086]

Yeah instead of getting rejected by one girl let's getting rejected by hundreds of them

not hundreds but pretty much every girl you will meet

 

[Deleted member 12234]

ill never understand why incels don't careermaxx/moneymaxx. You dudes have all the time in the world and disposable income. No gfs, no kids, no friends.. Basically no distractions. Even if you only spend 1-2 hrs a day trying to learn a new skill or saving up to invest/start something, there's no way you wouldn't be better off years down the line. Get off this fuckin forum and go do something with ur life dude. Big diff between me and you is that I multitask when I'm on here. I have 3 monitors. 1 for leisure shit like this and 2 for work. So I make money while I browse this forum or do other shit. GO do something productive today and stop whining.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

ill never understand why incels don't careermaxx/moneymaxx. You dudes have all the time in the world and disposable income. No gfs, no kids, no friends.. Basically no distractions. Even if you only spend 1-2 hrs a day trying to learn a new skill or saving up to invest/start something, there's no way you wouldn't be better off years down the line. Get off this fuckin forum and go do something with ur life dude. Big diff between me and you is that I multitask when I'm on here. I have 3 monitors. 1 for leisure shit like this and 2 for work. So I make money while I browse this forum or do other shit. GO do something productive today and stop whining.

That’s horrible for your productivity. It’ll skyrocket if you focus on one activity at a time and give yourself a set break time for leisure, such as browsing this forum

 

[Deleted member 12234]

That’s horrible for your productivity. It’ll skyrocket if you focus on one activity at a time and give yourself a set break time for leisure, such as browsing this forum

not really. I am in IT and huge part of the job is thinking/problem solving. If you're working just to work, you'll get absolutely nothing done in this field. What helps me problem solve is, ironically, not focusing on work. Its where I usually realize that a problem that's been bothering me is pretty simple.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

not really. I am in IT and huge part of the job is thinking/problem solving. If you're working just to work, you'll get absolutely nothing done in this field. What helps me problem solve is, ironically, not focusing on work. Its where I usually realize that a problem that's been bothering me is pretty simple.

interesting. not too common for someone to be more productive when they multi-task but if it works for you keep on doing it

 

[Deleted member 12234]

interesting. not too common for someone to be more productive when they multi-task but if it works for you keep on doing it

There was a quote on twitter I saw a while back about how the problems that's been bothering you for a while find their solutions at the most random times.. like waking up in the middle of the night, or at the grocery store, etc.. That's how it is for me. When I get overwhelmed with something, I let my mind rest and that's usually where I find the solution.

 

[lilhorizontal32]

There was a quote on twitter I saw a while back about how the problems that's been bothering you for a while find their solutions at the most random times.. like waking up in the middle of the night, or at the grocery store, etc.. That's how it is for me. When I get overwhelmed with something, I let my mind rest and that's usually where I find the solution.

try meditation. its helped me a lot

 

[Deleted member 12234]

try meditation. its helped me a lot

What do you do?

 

[Deleted member 18086]

ill never understand why incels don't careermaxx/moneymaxx.

because its pointless. ik tons of carrermaxxed men who are rotters

 

[oldcelloser]

ill never understand why incels don't careermaxx/moneymaxx. You dudes have all the time in the world and disposable income. No gfs, no kids, no friends.. Basically no distractions. Even if you only spend 1-2 hrs a day trying to learn a new skill or saving up to invest/start something, there's no way you wouldn't be better off years down the line. Get off this fuckin forum and go do something with ur life dude. Big diff between me and you is that I multitask when I'm on here. I have 3 monitors. 1 for leisure shit like this and 2 for work. So I make money while I browse this forum or do other shit. GO do something productive today and stop whining.

what do you do for money srs?