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The purpose of the phone (instagram, snapchat, whatsapp, facebook, email, short messages) is to make a date or at least just bring you two together in one place irl.
If you text for any other reason it's fine, but only initially, and I don't recommend you text a girl more than 3 separate times before a date or between dates. Why? Because then her motivation to see you will go down or go away completely. Why would she go out with you if she already knows everything there is to know about you?
If you text a girl daily or even every other day her attraction to you will drop to the point where she won't even want to see you again. How do I know? It happened to me many times when I didn't understand this.
Another reason why you should go out is because you can make things physical while it's impossible to do that over the phone.
If you text for any other reason it's fine, but only initially, and I don't recommend you text a girl more than 3 separate times before a date or between dates. Why? Because then her motivation to see you will go down or go away completely. Why would she go out with you if she already knows everything there is to know about you?
If you text a girl daily or even every other day her attraction to you will drop to the point where she won't even want to see you again. How do I know? It happened to me many times when I didn't understand this.
Another reason why you should go out is because you can make things physical while it's impossible to do that over the phone.