Dont vent to women

[Deleted member 132430]

Some women might seem like saints, or like they care or understand. Some are mentally ill themselves so u think they could sympathize
Never vent to women, never talk about anything deeper with women, never talk about your feelings with women, never mention your shortcomings to women thats law

 

[Deleted member 159614]

True, the majority of women can only empathize with other women and even then it's often just shallow and used as a way to virtue signal.

 

[Deleted member 132430]

True, the majority of women can only empathize with other women and even then it's often just shallow and used as a way to virtue signal.

was talking to a girl i want sexually and realized as soon as the convo went even slightly in the direction of feelings or similar that i must turn it around. It would kill any sex appeal i could have had to her instantly

 

[Deleted member 159614]

was talking to a girl i want sexually and realized as soon as the convo went even slightly in the direction of feelings or similar that i must turn it around. It would kill any sex appeal i could have had to her instantly

Yes, the vast majority of women want a man that is empathetic and open about their feelings only on "paper" so to speak. What they often mean by that is a man who looks good and can listen to her nagging about her problems without criticizing her.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Some women might seem like saints, or like they care or understand. Some are mentally ill themselves so u think they could sympathize
Never vent to women, never talk about anything deeper with women, never talk about your feelings with women, never mention your shortcomings to women thats law

Water as fuck and I def can relate. Girls ghosted me the second I started to talk about my own problems and mental issues.

 

[Deleted member 132430]

Yes, the vast majority of women want a man that is empathetic and open about their feelings only on "paper" so to speak. What they often mean by that is a man who looks good and can listen to her nagging about her problems without criticizing her.

its brutal because a girl can seem understanding at times if she has that “innocent” type of behavior
but all of them will think less of you
at best you might find a girl that can actually tolerate a problem you have but that could only be if she relates to it and is obsessed with u
like 0.001% of women would fall into that type of empathy

 

[CorinthianLOX]

its brutal because a girl can seem understanding at times if she has that “innocent” type of behavior
but all of them will think less of you
at best you might find a girl that can actually tolerate a problem you have but that could only be if she relates to it and is obsessed with u
like 0.001% of women would fall into that type of empathy

I want this type of girl but they’re hard to find. My mental problems are so hard rn that i can’t have a gf or even slay rn.

 

[Deleted member 159614]

its brutal because a girl can seem understanding at times if she has that “innocent” type of behavior
but all of them will think less of you
at best you might find a girl that can actually tolerate a problem you have but that could only be if she relates to it and is obsessed with u
like 0.001% of women would fall into that type of empathy

True, another valid option is to trauma bond them. You hear endless stories about narcissists, assholes, jerks and psychos who mistreat and abuse women and despite that they are still perceived by women as "misunderstood" or "he wasn't himself". This is a bit difficult to do though unless you have these tendencies naturally but I'm working on a post on this very subject.

 

[Deleted member 132430]

I want this type of girl but they’re hard to find. My mental problems are so hard rn that i can’t have a gf or even slay rn.

i want this type of girl but its impossible to find
maybe im coping even, maybe a girl like thag is just a movie thing and there are actually 0% irl

 

[CorinthianLOX]

True, another valid option is to trauma bond them. You hear endless stories about narcissists, assholes, jerks and psychos who mistreat and abuse women and despite that they are still perceived by women as "misunderstood" or "he wasn't himself". This is a bit difficult to do though unless you have these tendencies naturally but I'm working on a post on this very subject.

Jfl i lost my v card by traumabonding

 

[CorinthianLOX]

i want this type of girl but its impossible to find
maybe im coping even, maybe a girl like thag is just a movie thing and there are actually 0% irl

True. The movies lied to us mane

 

[wsada]

Some women might seem like saints, or like they care or understand. Some are mentally ill themselves so u think they could sympathize
Never vent to women, never talk about anything deeper with women, never talk about your feelings with women, never mention your shortcomings to women thats law

What if i dont plan on dating the woman?

 

[Deleted member 132430]

True, another valid option is to trauma bond them. You hear endless stories about narcissists, assholes, jerks and psychos who mistreat and abuse women and despite that they are still perceived by women as "misunderstood" or "he wasn't himself".

even this is plausible tbh.
But whining about depression, anxiety and stuff where you present yourself as imperfect thats when you lose majority of women
You would have to find one that really has a fetish for looking out for you or is as mentally ill or some weird rare shit

 

[qazw]

Some women might seem like saints, or like they care or understand. Some are mentally ill themselves so u think they could sympathize
Never vent to women, never talk about anything deeper with women, never talk about your feelings with women, never mention your shortcomings to women thats law

JFL at the dudes who fell for the “its okay for men to talk about mental health” meme

 

[Deleted member 132430]

What if i dont plan on dating the woman?

If u dont mind being just a friend of her go for it
I had a female friend i wasnt sexually attracted to so i could whine about anything to her. It helped me a bit tbh and i didnt care that if she were attracted she would lose the attraction simply because i wasnt attracted to her like that to begin with

 

[Kroker]

was talking to a girl i want sexually and realized as soon as the convo went even slightly in the direction of feelings or similar that i must turn it around. It would kill any sex appeal i could have had to her instantly

What kind of feelings are you talking about? Wouldn't it revolve around love and intimacy?

 

[truthhurts]

True, another valid option is to trauma bond them. You hear endless stories about narcissists, assholes, jerks and psychos who mistreat and abuse women and despite that they are still perceived by women as "misunderstood" or "he wasn't himself". This is a bit difficult to do though unless you have these tendencies naturally but I'm working on a post on this very subject.

Tag me

 

[Deleted member 132430]

What kind of feelings are you talking about? Wouldn't it revolve around love and intimacy?

You mean what kind of feelings i think you shouldnt talk to women about, or about which feelings were getting into the convo when i decided to turn the conversation and change the topic with her?

 

[Kroker]

You mean what kind of feelings i think you shouldnt talk to women about, or about which feelings were getting into the convo when i decided to turn the conversation and change the topic with her?

I'd like to know both. But either way regarding the latter, you can't expose your attraction right off the bat if any

 

[Deleted member 132430]

I'd like to know both. But either way regarding the latter, you can't expose your attraction right off the bat if any

the convo we got into was how both of us dont have a lot of activity on insta, she said its because she thought she was oversharing, i said i donr because i used to post cringy shit to make people laugh then realized im dumb and stopped posting altogether

Already a mistake-
if i let that convo go any deeper i wouldve mentioned that the reason i was trying to make people laugh and impress them was because i was lonely, insecure and wanted to be accepted so badly
I knew people were laughing at me not with me but i would delude myself

Imagine if i told her that. I wouldnt be a potential partner to her anymore in any sense of the word, not a LTR, not sex, ever. Doesnt matter that i changed a lot and that she has shown interest. I would just be a friend she can vent to, she would perceive me as a child that needs protection

Thats basically an answer to the first thing
Intimacy and love is fine to show if appropriate, but feelings that make you seem weaker, no matter how valid they are shouldnt be shown to women. Anxiety, depression, stress, bad habits.. Just never tbh

 

[Deleted member 159614]

even this is plausible tbh.
But whining about depression, anxiety and stuff where you present yourself as imperfect thats when you lose majority of women
You would have to find one that really has a fetish for looking out for you or is as mentally ill or some weird rare shit

Most dark triadic men don t have to worry about this since a one sided abusive relationship it s the ideal relationship for 99% of women, you can see it even in dark romance goonertok books. Being genuinely dark triadic is more attractive to foids than even looks which on themselves can be a game changer, in an ideal world you d have both but even having the two to a moderate degree can change your life. I ve been made to swallow this ugly truth quite early on in life by the fact that the girl I was with left me for an uglier, shorter dude that looked like a ghetto rat, at first I thought it was because he had local clout due to being a wannabe rapper and covered in tattoos. Just after time went on did I find out the guy was actually involved in illegal activities and said girl literally was whored by him. Despite me being taller, better looking and having more money than him she still left me for a tekashi 69 wannabe. The way these dude operate is that they make their intentions well known in their first contact with the quote on quote victim and through time they make the victim do them bigger and bigger favours until the victim actually buys into the fact that they do these things due to genuine affection for the abuser. Their attachment grows stronger over time and thus you don t have to worry anymore about venting or bitching about your problems since it won t be seen like that by women at this level of indoctrination but as you being open and sincere even despite the fact that you could be rearranging her makeup on the regular so to speak. What I explained so far is just a heavily dumbed down version of the whole process and dynamic that I will expand on in the future.

 

[PoopyFartGamer]

Some women might seem like saints, or like they care or understand. Some are mentally ill themselves so u think they could sympathize
Never vent to women, never talk about anything deeper with women, never talk about your feelings with women, never mention your shortcomings to women thats law

Not really in my experience, u can be vulnerable with women, but just dont be a bitch. For example, a family member of urs died, do u think her will dry up seeing u cry mourning ur father's death? What will dry her up tho is u locking urself in ur room bcs of it for weeks and months neglecting ur responsibilities. U can absolutely vent to a women,just like anyone else,just pick urself up urself after and dont make her ur therapist. Nothing feel as good as the warm embrace of a woman I hope y'all can experience it.

 

[roadtochang123]

Could i ever open up to anybody at all

 

[Deleted member 158882]

Fake venting is good if it's a topic that the girl is also concerned about.

Such as equal rights or helping the environment.

In fact, it can increase your compatibility a lot.

But real venting about your own life struggles is a big no.

Your girlfriend should be the one venting to you.

 

[iamomni]

True, another valid option is to trauma bond them. You hear endless stories about narcissists, assholes, jerks and psychos who mistreat and abuse women and despite that they are still perceived by women as "misunderstood" or "he wasn't himself". This is a bit difficult to do though unless you have these tendencies naturally but I'm working on a post on this very subject.

post it pls

 

[Prøphet]

Dont vent to anyone tbh, it never goes the way you hope, actually usually the opposite

 

[Tenzen Thenziro]

attractive

Most dark triadic men don t have to worry about this since a one sided abusive relationship it s the ideal relationship for 99% of women, you can see it even in dark romance goonertok books. Being genuinely dark triadic is more attractive to foids than even looks which on themselves can be a game changer, in an ideal world you d have both but even having the two to a moderate degree can change your life. I ve been made to swallow this ugly truth quite early on in life by the fact that the girl I was with left me for an uglier, shorter dude that looked like a ghetto rat, at first I thought it was because he had local clout due to being a wannabe rapper and covered in tattoos. Just after time went on did I find out the guy was actually involved in illegal activities and said girl literally was whored by him. Despite me being taller, better looking and having more money than him she still left me for a tekashi 69 wannabe. The way these dude operate is that they make their intentions well known in their first contact with the quote on quote victim and through time they make the victim do them bigger and bigger favours until the victim actually buys into the fact that they do these things due to genuine affection for the abuser. Their attachment grows stronger over time and thus you don t have to worry anymore about venting or bitching about your problems since it won t be seen like that by women at this level of indoctrination but as you being open and sincere even despite the fact that you could be rearranging her makeup on the regular so to speak. What I explained so far is just a heavily dumbed down version of the whole process and dynamic that I will expand on in the future.

Please expand, need more high iq posts like this man, dark psychology