DROP EVERY NT ADVICE YOU KNOW

[niggero0]

The secret ingredient is being yourself and shitting on the nt crowd.

The thing that more or less works for me ig....

Doesn't necessarily work well... but in my environment with my people it's perfect.

Just surround yourself with special particular people, people who are different and you'll fit in.

That's what my dad does.

*edit: "fit in" is not the right expression, at all. You'll be in the right place is what i mean ig.

I don't even know what my true self is, I always larp my personality depending on whom I am interacting with, so much so that I lost my original personality. My best bet would be to mimick someone else's personality or add some traits into my own.

 

[abzz!]

it's very hard to say because not every single piece of advice will help every single person who struggles with these problems

i guess if you consider these people homely and part of your family, it will make the interaction somewhat smoother and less awkward

something like assuming that your classmate is actually your biological brother. ik it sounds retarded but it worked for my social anxiety somewhat. if you find it really hard to socialise, put a performance on.

what i mean by this, is just to act. put on this extra nice friendly dude that everyone likes type personality when in public, but then be as miserable as you want to in your free time

in regards to eye contact, just practice looking at eyes. you can either focus on the left, the right, or that little space in the middle of them both. genuinely, just pull up a photo of eyes on your PC or something, and just look at them. imagine they are real and not digital.

the main trick with most of these methods is just acting and fooling yourself into becoming like an NT / "regular" dude. start random convos, find mutual interests, laugh in public, smile at others, throw all of them anxiety/nervousness away

all the best, love u bro

 

[iblamexyz]

@Cinnamon fan64 @iblamexyz

Idk if I can give you advice bro

being nt is a state of the mind rather than larping

 

[niggero0]

the main trick with most of these methods is just acting and fooling yourself into becoming like an NT / "regular" dude. start random convos, find mutual interests, laugh in public, smile at others, throw all of them anxiety/nervousness away

being nt is a state of the mind rather than larping

interesting

 

[Nectar]

Don’t give a fuck
Mock sub normies

 

[niggero0]

it's very hard to say because not every single piece of advice will help every single person who struggles with these problems

i guess if you consider these people homely and part of your family, it will make the interaction somewhat smoother and less awkward

something like assuming that your classmate is actually your biological brother. ik it sounds retarded but it worked for my social anxiety somewhat. if you find it really hard to socialise, put a performance on.

what i mean by this, is just to act. put on this extra nice friendly dude that everyone likes type personality when in public, but then be as miserable as you want to in your free time

in regards to eye contact, just practice looking at eyes. you can either focus on the left, the right, or that little space in the middle of them both. genuinely, just pull up a photo of eyes on your PC or something, and just look at them. imagine they are real and not digital.

the main trick with most of these methods is just acting and fooling yourself into becoming like an NT / "regular" dude. start random convos, find mutual interests, laugh in public, smile at others, throw all of them anxiety/nervousness away

all the best, love u bro

@rraymond this is the best advice by far only part I would kinda disagree with is the extra nice friendly guy thing, ppl sometimes takes advantage of such ppl

Essentially it's just fake it till you forget you are faking it

 

[rraymond]

i guess if you consider these people homely and part of your family, it will make the interaction somewhat smoother and less awkward

something like assuming that your classmate is actually your biological brother. ik it sounds retarded but it worked for my social anxiety somewhat. if you find it really hard to socialise, put a performance on.

what

what i mean by this, is just to act. put on this extra nice friendly dude that everyone likes type personality when in public, but then be as miserable as you want to in your free time

wayyy easier said than done. i wish i could mask. this is just who i am. i'm so miserable it's impossible to hide it now.

in regards to eye contact, just practice looking at eyes. you can either focus on the left, the right, or that little space in the middle of them both. genuinely, just pull up a photo of eyes on your PC or something, and just look at them. imagine they are real and not digital.

i don't really have a problem with eye contact i can hold it if i need to i just look away when people look at me often

the main trick with most of these methods is just acting and fooling yourself into becoming like an NT / "regular" dude. start random convos, find mutual interests, laugh in public, smile at others, throw all of them anxiety/nervousness away

so just masking
i cant
i cant change my brains wiring, i am autistic
and this is not an exaggeration i literally never know what to say.
"start random convos" i cant "find mutual interests" i cant "laugh / smile" i cant

"throw all of the anxiety/nervousness away" son

this sounds like im just making excuses and being stubborn but trust me if any of this worked for actual neurodivergents i would be social and happy right now

we cant just speak shit into existence

we're doomed

 

[niggero0]

what

lol almost forgot abt that biological father part

wayyy easier said than done. i wish i could mask. this is just who i am. i'm so miserable it's impossible to hide it now.

i don't really have a problem with eye contact i can hold it if i need to i just look away when people look at me often

so just masking
i cant
i cant change my brains wiring, i am autistic
and this is not an exaggeration i literally never know what to say.
"start random convos" i cant "find mutual interests" i cant "laugh / smile" i cant

"throw all of the anxiety/nervousness away" son

this sounds like im just making excuses and being stubborn but trust me if any of this worked for actual neurodivergents i would be social and happy right now

we cant just speak shit into existence

we're doomed

have you tried using drugs or alcohol?

 

[abzz!]

what

wayyy easier said than done. i wish i could mask. this is just who i am. i'm so miserable it's impossible to hide it now.

i don't really have a problem with eye contact i can hold it if i need to i just look away when people look at me often

so just masking
i cant
i cant change my brains wiring, i am autistic
and this is not an exaggeration i literally never know what to say.
"start random convos" i cant "find mutual interests" i cant "laugh / smile" i cant

"throw all of the anxiety/nervousness away" son

this sounds like im just making excuses and being stubborn but trust me if any of this worked for actual neurodivergents i would be social and happy right now

we cant just speak shit into existence

we're doomed

yeah like i said, it definitely won't work for everyone. that's a fact

im just saying what worked for me Bhai, nothing personal

love u bro

 

[zygosmasher]

just be confident brah

 

[Cinnamon fan64]

@Cinnamon fan64 @iblamexyz

@Idontknow- tbh im friendless irl
was gonna show this butt u saw it

https://looksmax.org/threads/how-social-interaction-actually-works.1793207/