Dudes who actually ascended, how does it feel?

[KT-34]

How drastic was the change and how much did people's behavior around you change

 

[KT-34]

Bump

 

[valentine]

people treat me a lot worse now

 

[KT-34]

people treat me a lot worse now

They're just jealous bhai

 

[Orc]

still unlovable

 

[KT-34]

still unlovable

Didn't you get dudes in your reddit DMs asking you to cuck them? Mogs me

 

[StraightHeadJames]

i got some hoe Beckies that's all

 

[Orc]

Didn't you get dudes in your reddit DMs asking you to cuck them? Mogs me

I have no issues getting laid, but that has nothing to do with love.

 

[KT-34]

i got some hoe Beckies that's all

Acting like this is nothing on this forum

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Acting like this is nothing on this forum

i only ascended to strong MTN when frauded

 

[ketamin]

nothing changed

 

[KT-34]

I have no issues getting laid, but that has nothing to do with love.

Well love is something more complicated than looks, hope you find it bro but these days it's getting more and more complicated with how out of touch people are, love is mostly a fantasy people just don't live in the moment anymore

 

[KT-34]

i only ascended to strong MTN when frauded

Do you get attention ?

 

[KT-34]

nothing changed

Absolute ropefuel

 

[ketamin]

Absolute ropefuel

yup, I only sometimes get complimented by ltb's it's so over

 

[NuclearGeo20]

still unlovable

orc, you had a good thread on cheekbones. How do I become smart in bone aesthetics like u?

 

[Orc]

Well love is something more complicated than looks, hope you find it bro but these days it's getting more and more complicated with how out of touch people are, love is mostly a fantasy people just don't live in the moment anymore

I'm not interested in closeness if it isn't for love, rather not have sex for the rest of my life than be used for it again.

 

[Orc]

orc, you had a good thread on cheekbones. How do I become smart in bone aesthetics like u?

don't know, no one's done the things I'm doing with it before, I made the entire concept up in my head.

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Do you get attention ?

yeah I got cold approached 3 times on the street by young girls

 

[KT-34]

I'm not interested in closeness if it isn't for love, rather not have sex for the rest of my life than be used for it again.

I feel like you unironically reached the stage some women reach when they get so much attention they don't know what to do with it and just start focusing on what's important, except you can look at it from a male's perspective

 

[got.daim]

I'm not interested in closeness if it isn't for love, rather not have sex for the rest of my life than be used for it again.

wdym by love

 

[KT-34]

yeah I got cold approached 3 times on the street by young girls

You're insanely tall tho so it probably helps

 

[NuclearGeo20]

don't know, no one's done the things I'm doing with it before, I made the entire concept up in my head.

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[Orc]

wdym by love

unconditional desire to be with me as a person, rather than for what I have.

 

[got.daim]

unconditional desire to be with me as a person, rather than for what I have.

does it matter the gender to you? i feel like a lot of people would be willing to do that, from what i've seen you're a pretty nice dude, only thing is i feel like you have something you're hiding, you never really want people to get close

 

[chadlitecurry]

Well love is something more complicated than looks, hope you find it bro but these days it's getting more and more complicated with how out of touch people are, love is mostly a fantasy people just don't live in the moment anymore

its all in your brain. How you look the world shapes it, surround yourself with beauty. There are enormous no. of cute, beautiful and ideal women in those small cities or villages who are always giggling and make your days worth it at the end

 

[KT-34]

unconditional desire to be with me as a person, rather than for what I have.

It's a sad reality but nothing is unconditional, even your parents love is conditional on the ground that they are your parents

Nothing is free, even "true" love is conditional on personality

 

[StraightHeadJames]

You're insanely tall tho so it probably helps

im 186 cm

 

[Orc]

does it matter the gender to you? i feel like a lot of people would be willing to do that, from what i've seen you're a pretty nice dude, only thing is i feel like you have something you're hiding, you never really want people to get close

I don't look at gender, I look at personalities, which is even more brutal, no amount of physical appeal makes me like you if that isn't there.

 

[KT-34]

its all in your brain. How you look the world shapes it, surround yourself with beauty. There are enormous no. of cute, beautiful and ideal women in those small cities or villages who are always giggling and make your days worth it at the end

Said women giggle with me and make my day then block me for no reason a couple months later, so no thanks, I've been over it and I honestly cannot understand romantic love tbh, like maybe I'm a born autist but I've never truly had a crush on someone

 

[got.daim]

I don't look at gender, I look at personalities, which is even more brutal, no amount of physical appeal makes me like you if that isn't there.

real shit.
i feel the same way

 

[RapeAllFemales]

Nothing changed, its all in my head

 

[jake_okok]

I ascended just through age and soft maxxing . Never kissed a girl or had any relationships before uni really. I just get a lot more compliments and IOI. It sort of backfired tho cos i didnt know how to control myself with new-found attention and cheated on my first gf which ruined me for a while. Lol

 

[gangiewangie]

people listen to what i say now thats nice

 

[nullandvoid]

I have no issues getting laid, but that has nothing to do with love.

Doesn't your partner love you? if they haven't showed signs or explicitly said that, then you're a mentalcel

 

[ShowerCelling]

How drastic was the change and how much did people's behavior around you change

idk cuz i havent ascended

 

[RealNinja]

people treat me a lot worse now

Unironically true in some ways.

If you’re good looking and tall, people project a lot of shit onto you and have a lot of expectations as to how you should behave.

Being quiet and reserved now means you’re “arrogant” or an asshole. One thing I miss about being fat and ugly sometimes is just being invisible and not having anyone give a fuck about how you’re acting.

 

[Orc]

Doesn't your partner love you? if they haven't showed signs or explicitly said that, then you're a mentalcel

it hasn't been that long, love takes a while to develop, it's not the same as having a crush.

haven't heard it explicably yet, and I can tell they like me a lot, but I won't jump to conclusions or put my words in their mouth.

 

[nullandvoid]

it hasn't been that long, love takes a while to develop, it's not the same as having a crush.

haven't heard it explicably yet.

Well are you fond of each other?

 

[valentine]

Unironically true in some ways.

If you’re good looking and tall, people project a lot of shit onto you and have a lot of expectations as to how you should behave.

Being quiet and reserved now means you’re “arrogant” or an asshole. One thing I miss about being fat and ugly sometimes is just being invisible and not having anyone give a fuck about how you’re acting.

thats not the case for me, im short and skinny and look feminine, and girls hate guys like that

 

[Orc]

Well are you fond of each other?

yes, but that's not the same as love.

they'll need more time for that.

 

[KT-34]

I ascended just through age and soft maxxing . Never kissed a girl or had any relationships before uni really. I just get a lot more compliments and IOI. It sort of backfired tho cos i didnt know how to control myself with new-found attention and cheated on my first gf which ruined me for a while. Lol

Damm, kind of brutal in it's own way, I realize ascension is basically like a janitor winning the lottery, he just never prepared for it and spends all his money without thinking and doesn't know how to manage it

 

[unowkn]

you could say im sort of a chad all the foids flock to me like birds... in the end i feel nothing

 

[nullandvoid]

yes, but that's not the same as love.

they'll need more time for that.

That goes without saying but do you actually have any hope? also as corny as it sounds, self-love is the key to loving and being loved by others (LMS status aside, I'm talking LTR) but the problem is that it's really hard to start loving yourself when you've been an abused dog your whole life.

 

[antipsychotics]

Well ive ascended my looks and i just lost my virginity like last week. I got an HTB infatuated with me. Shes so cooperative and easy to talk to. Conversations come very naturally with her. Even tho im a bit odd she dont gaf and still is just as obsessed cause im 8/10 with good dick, and a personality.

Life has never felt better

 

[Orc]

That goes without saying but do you actually have any hope? also as corny as it sounds, self-love is the key to loving and being loved by others (LMS status aside, I'm talking LTR) but the problem is that it's really hard to start loving yourself when you've been an abused dog your whole life.

I have absolutely zero hope of ever finding love and fear they'll leave me long before that, it's just what I've come to expect through life experiences.

 

[jake_okok]

Damm, kind of brutal in it's own way, I realize ascension is basically like a janitor winning the lottery, he just never prepared for it and spends all his money without thinking and doesn't know how to manage it

Also unless you are like death tier ugly looks really isnt end all be all. I am quite lonely at times. Imo you need to softmax / lean out then forget about looksmaxxing. I find GL people are incredibly insecure and it gets in the way of living their life, and before they know it they have wasted their youth, and don't even have their looks anymore. There are so many happy people (in relationships too) because they aren't mentalcels obsessed about looks

 

[KT-34]

Also unless you are like death tier ugly looks really isnt end all be all. I am quite lonely at times. Imo you need to softmax / lean out then forget about looksmaxxing. I find GL people are incredibly insecure and it gets in the way of living their life, and before they know it they have wasted their youth, and don't even have their looks anymore. There are so many happy people (in relationships too) because they aren't mentalcels obsessed about looks

Honestly I feel like I'm at the middle point of incels and normal

I basically befriended and talked to with so many people including women that I lost count, I get invited to hang outs etc..., there are girls that I can hang out with for days but I always get rejected even if I was really close with the girl to the point where people think we're a couple, I'm not even that ugly tbh

Litteraly my only problem is getting laid, all the other social aspects are fine and people literally come up to me to talk

 

[chadlitecurry]

Said women giggle with me and make my day then block me for no reason a couple months later, so no thanks, I've been over it and I honestly cannot understand romantic love tbh, like maybe I'm a born autist but I've never truly had a crush on someone

Everyone on this forum is to get girls wether he admits it or not. However if you have drawn a conclusion after a single failure and happy to believe in a negative and a saddening opinion, I am nobody to be concerned.

 

[TrustintheBP101]

How drastic was the change and how much did people's behavior around you change

my change was super drastic, i lost 20+kg and ascended to HTN. People treat you different, they have more respect for you and don’t just see you as a fat loser. But some of your so called ”friends” maybe like 2 out of 10 friends will start to get jealous of you especially if they are worse looking. They will start to hate on you for no reason, straight up insult you. But many friends will also treat you better. As soon I ascended people were more intrested in me and what I have to offer. I’m still a mentalcel and have trouble with relationships so I’m still not super popular and have LOADS of pure friends but my situation got better. Girls also treat you better, I have gotten away with many things just cause I’m above average in looks. Sure the girls haven’t been stacies but still they have high egos so it counts still. Female cashiers also are very nice to you. Some Women will also want to fuck you just by you sending a boring ass selfie. Looks are everything, BUT if you are weird and off putting being HTN/CL won’t save you every time.