Disturbed
Org was better when i ran it
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Stop avoiding social situations
You have to put yourself out there, and make an effort. I remember before when i watched BlakeSpeaks video on this, and he said that cold approaching is a very good strategy to improve your talking skills, and be more confident in yourself. In the beginning it will ofcourse be very hard, but as you keep going this will help your social skills by a lot, dont get sad or anything if you get rejected, thats still progress, some mother fuckers are rotting at home instead while youre actually improving. And dont have a filter of who you cold approach, doesnt matter if theyre stacy or just a random ltb, most guys are too scared to ask out girls so for an example if youre an lmtn, and you cold approach a hhtb, she might not reject you. And ofcourse there will be some hypergamous ltb wanting chad rejecting you on the way, but if you actually dont take offense by that, youre improving a lot. Also if youre friends ask you out to eat or go to a party, then fucking go. Especially if there are foids there, ofcourse you can still use various drugs before cold approaching such as beta blockers etc, but trust me, it will feel the best if you do it naturally.
You have to put yourself out there, and make an effort. I remember before when i watched BlakeSpeaks video on this, and he said that cold approaching is a very good strategy to improve your talking skills, and be more confident in yourself. In the beginning it will ofcourse be very hard, but as you keep going this will help your social skills by a lot, dont get sad or anything if you get rejected, thats still progress, some mother fuckers are rotting at home instead while youre actually improving. And dont have a filter of who you cold approach, doesnt matter if theyre stacy or just a random ltb, most guys are too scared to ask out girls so for an example if youre an lmtn, and you cold approach a hhtb, she might not reject you. And ofcourse there will be some hypergamous ltb wanting chad rejecting you on the way, but if you actually dont take offense by that, youre improving a lot. Also if youre friends ask you out to eat or go to a party, then fucking go. Especially if there are foids there, ofcourse you can still use various drugs before cold approaching such as beta blockers etc, but trust me, it will feel the best if you do it naturally.
