Effort to exist socially is a cope

[sadcel]

Right now im on my late night thinking. That’s water but normies just exist to have everything happening to them.
All the sleepless nights when I thought of what could have done wrong to have an empty life, I had this idea of people calculating and working on all the relationships they have (friends/family/girlfriend) when in reality everything was happening to them effortlessly as you will understand that normies are not more socially intelligent than you nor think of every move they need to do.
Also they can feel when you try too hard to build connections with them and honestly that makes you look inferior and miserable.

I know this thread is a defeatist one (like many here…) But anyways I still think efforts need to be made by us without of course overdoing it (very important).
Think of a running race where getting to the finish line = get full satisfaction in terms of social life, chad starts a few metres ( few foot) from the finish line, a normie starts 50 metres before the finish line and a truecel starts 200 metres.

Do anything you can but if doesn’t work out as exceptes know that there is nothing more you could have done.

 

[Andremln]

 

[sadcel]

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indeed

 

[.Cx]

Right now im on my late night thinking. That’s water but normies just exist to have everything happening to them.
All the sleepless nights when I thought of what could have done wrong to have an empty life, I had this idea of people calculating and working on all the relationships they have (friends/family/girlfriend) when in reality everything was happening to them effortlessly as you will understand that normies are not more socially intelligent than you nor think of every move they need to do.
Also they can feel when you try too hard to build connections with them and honestly that makes you look inferior and miserable.

I know this thread is a defeatist one (like many here…) But anyways I still think efforts need to be made by us without of course overdoing it (very important).
Think of a running race where getting to the finish line = get full satisfaction in terms of social life, chad starts a few metres ( few foot) from the finish line, a normie starts 50 metres before the finish line and a truecel starts 200 metres.

Do anything you can but if doesn’t work out as exceptes know that there is nothing more you could have done.

Normies still choose what they do. Even tho it takes less effort

 

[Andremln]

indeed

I agree with what you said though dw bro, it is like that, normies just flow naturally in the river of life, in my case i know that no matter if i ascend i already am 19yrs old and i will get surgery in probably 3 to 4 years, at that point, the best era of our life is already gone, i will still try to have a good time but i plan to be no longer alive at 30

 

[sadcel]

Normies still choose what they do. Even tho it takes less effort

Still everything is naturally choses by them

 

[sadcel]

I agree with what you said though dw bro, it is like that, normies just flow naturally in the river of life, in my case i know that no matter if i ascend i already am 19yrs old and i will get surgery in probably 3 to 4 years, at that point, the best era of our life is already gone, i will still try to have a good time but i plan to be no longer alive at 30

I understand you bro, I wish I was blackpilled like you at 19. Having all this knowledge would have made my life better right now or at least kill all my exceptations of when I was 19. I also agree with you, if my life doesnt get better in my late 20s maybe in my early 30s there is no point in living as life will just get shittier past that age and having your 20s rotting will just make you more socially inapt.

 

[sadcel]

@takethewhitepill

 

[Andremln]

I understand you bro, I wish I was blackpilled like you at 19. Having all this knowledge would have made my life better right now or at least kill all my exceptations of when I was 19. I also agree with you, if my life doesnt get better in my late 20s maybe in my early 30s there is no point in living as life will just get shittier past that age and having your 20s rotting will just make you more socially inapt.

Yeah in my case i got blackpilled at 13, i tried to cope and got close to a more neurotypical life, met some cool people in high school but of course romantically i didn't experience anything, only sexually, so i kind of ditched everyone in senior year, i've been saving up for the surgeries i need because i have been dealing with insomnia since i was 10, because of being so fucking anxious and also cause i am recessed and my jaw falls on my trachea when i try to sleep so i developed obstructive sleep apnea, its literal hell, i think that on average i have been sleeping like 3 hours per night for the last 5 years, i don't have any energy or libido anymore, my parents are stupid as hell and think it could be a posture thing, my diet is also shit they literally just buy garbage but i can't use my money to buy food for myself cause Lefort + BSSO is like $15K

I truly want to study mechanical engineering but i don't have energy to do shit, i feel like i should just kill myself sometimes but i am not optimistic about death, i think its just as bad as living so ill try to pull a last attempt at having some happy years of life to experience a small fraction of the happiness that a normie does just organically, i truly hate myself

 

[buddhistking]

I think its just a luck pill cus alot of these normies are no better looking than ppl on the forum either, also an NT pill

 

[Klasik616]

I've tried enough but no luck whatsoever

 

[takethewhitepill]

The grass is always greener on the other side, especially if you don't water yours. Trust me, the normies who have this happen naturally aren't realised, they don't know why they live, and they will float through life. This sounds pretty nice, like letting go and enjoying the moment. We know that basically the only time we like our lives is when we live in the moment (hence why we love sex). But I tell you that they are not fulfilled, normies will experience things differently to you and that's for the best. Ignorance is bliss as they say.

In a normies life he doesn't really have a goal and so he fails in a way that can look like success. You hear about his many relationships, but those are his failures because he didn't select for a woman that would work in a relationship with him or he did something bad and lost her. You hear about normies adventures but don't realise that if people are talking about him they are also gossiping about his flaws. He goes out drinking and looks to be living it up, but he lives with no savings.

Now, you might say that he gets the benefits and you have the same issues but no benefits. I urge you, figure out a couple of goals and work toward them. Ask yourself what it is that makes you not kill yourself, whether loving family or some dream of being the best at your sport. If you have nothing going then at least look around and figure out why you are still alive, you have a passion for something I promise. Find new passions as well, take up martial arts, learn a language or an instrument, write a screenplay.

You will never live the normie life of drinking and smoking and having sex most likely. But you understand the rules of the game and play within them so you always get the desired result, compared to bluepilled people who will try to live outside their means and end up suffering or redpillers who want to change the rules. The blackpill is giving up because you know you won't live that trashy modern lifestyle where you wake up hungover with a stranger in your bed, but the whitepill is saying that life will not bring you fulfilment anyway and we must do what we can with what we have. You can still find a good virgin wife, but it isn't easy. If you value it you can have it. You can have anything you want, but it won't be easy. Devote yourself to yourself.

Have goals and forget about fun. Every reward has a cost, so pay only for what you actually want. If you really wanted the normie life you would have been a normie, but you inherently understood the truth of the world. You can be better becausd you are different. Prosper.

@sadcel

 

[sadcel]

Yeah in my case i got blackpilled at 13, i tried to cope and got close to a more neurotypical life, met some cool people in high school but of course romantically i didn't experience anything, only sexually, so i kind of ditched everyone in senior year, i've been saving up for the surgeries i need because i have been dealing with insomnia since i was 10, because of being so fucking anxious and also cause i am recessed and my jaw falls on my trachea when i try to sleep so i developed obstructive sleep apnea, its literal hell, i think that on average i have been sleeping like 3 hours per night for the last 5 years, i don't have any energy or libido anymore, my parents are stupid as hell and think it could be a posture thing, my diet is also shit they literally just buy garbage but i can't use my money to buy food for myself cause Lefort + BSSO is like $15K

I truly want to study mechanical engineering but i don't have energy to do shit, i feel like i should just kill myself sometimes but i am not optimistic about death, i think its just as bad as living so ill try to pull a last attempt at having some happy years of life to experience a small fraction of the happiness that a normie does just organically, i truly hate myself

Good luck man, you must Lifemaxx and studymaxx. I know someone who also has sleep apnea and has bad sleep. He got a CPAP machine and sleeps better now, do you have that?

 

[sadcel]

I think its just a luck pill cus alot of these normies are no better looking than ppl on the forum either, also an NT pill

Also true

 

[sadcel]

The grass is always greener on the other side, especially if you don't water yours. Trust me, the normies who have this happen naturally aren't realised, they don't know why they live, and they will float through life. This sounds pretty nice, like letting go and enjoying the moment. We know that basically the only time we like our lives is when we live in the moment (hence why we love sex). But I tell you that they are not fulfilled, normies will experience things differently to you and that's for the best. Ignorance is bliss as they say.

In a normies life he doesn't really have a goal and so he fails in a way that can look like success. You hear about his many relationships, but those are his failures because he didn't select for a woman that would work in a relationship with him or he did something bad and lost her. You hear about normies adventures but don't realise that if people are talking about him they are also gossiping about his flaws. He goes out drinking and looks to be living it up, but he lives with no savings.

Now, you might say that he gets the benefits and you have the same issues but no benefits. I urge you, figure out a couple of goals and work toward them. Ask yourself what it is that makes you not kill yourself, whether loving family or some dream of being the best at your sport. If you have nothing going then at least look around and figure out why you are still alive, you have a passion for something I promise. Find new passions as well, take up martial arts, learn a language or an instrument, write a screenplay.

You will never live the normie life of drinking and smoking and having sex most likely. But you understand the rules of the game and play within them so you always get the desired result, compared to bluepilled people who will try to live outside their means and end up suffering or redpillers who want to change the rules. The blackpill is giving up because you know you won't live that trashy modern lifestyle where you wake up hungover with a stranger in your bed, but the whitepill is saying that life will not bring you fulfilment anyway and we must do what we can with what we have. You can still find a good virgin wife, but it isn't easy. If you value it you can have it. You can have anything you want, but it won't be easy. Devote yourself to yourself.

Have goals and forget about fun. Every reward has a cost, so pay only for what you actually want. If you really wanted the normie life you would have been a normie, but you inherently understood the truth of the world. You can be better becausd you are different. Prosper.

@sadcel

Wow bro that’s a nice long message, you should probably post it as a thread to reach more people.

Anyways I feel like you’re not wrong as even normies are not fulfillied of their lifes so it may just be our nature of thinking that we missed everything and that we suffer more than others.

It is also a question of perspective ( do you see the glass as half-empty or half-full?), some will be happy with being into a betabuxx relationship, some with only search for true love. Some will be happy with a girl showing interest in them, some will see her as a MTB with bad features. If you see the glass as half-empty you can’t be saved as nothing will ever satisfy you.

Blackpill is actually a very good cope, maybe I have suffered of this in the past with all the pression of trying to do things right . You get peace when you understand that it is what it is and no action could have made the result you wanted.

 

[sadcel]

I've tried enough but no luck whatsoever

Not your fault bro

 

[sadcel]

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