Elements that every man must have to signal women high value

[johnny4612]

Hi!

As soon as I entered in a relationship with a woman, I suddenly had the interest of many old women friends.
So, when I was single, those women still had my IG account, see my stories, but never reply or like.
So it's like the women were interested in me as a guy, but they still, weren't "sure" because of "something" missing.
As soon as I made couple with a woman, they started to like, comment and dm me.

So I've learnt, that "Having a GF" is a huge element man must have in order to display value.
You could have value, but to display that to the world, you must pass and have that in your checklist.


So women were more interested in "elements" rather than "morality".
No matter if you're now committed to a GF means that you're not open to other women.
So that they might not get any chance. Women just perceived this a you being "pre-selected".

So, keeping this in mind, I'm pretty sure we could make a very good list.
And make that list more complete, with everyone commenting on this.

Which are the real elements women look up for in a man, that when are present, activate them to "pursue" this man, but when they're not present, but the man still have value, they linger or orbit him, hoping that him will get those elements somehow in his life.

It's like women check things like "Ok this guy have look, money, status, but yes I care more about why He doesn't have a GF or a Hobby"
As you can see in orange, those are the example we know of.
In green the elements we are still not very aware of

 

[ClayBeingGray]

still forgot to mention that u need to be tall and good loking

 

[Junbae]

So I've learnt, that "Having a GF" is a huge element man must have in order to display value.

it's all about signaling. women will literally avoid dating someone who everyone else knows has never been seen with a girlfriend, as that's instantly a red flag.

 

[johnny4612]

still forgot to mention that u need to be tall and good loking

Those are the things we are aware of from the SMV.
For sure.

But there are other things we miss

 

[johnny4612]

it's all about signaling. women will literally avoid dating someone who everyone else knows has never been seen with a girlfriend, as that's instantly a red flag.

That is exactly the point of the post.
We might want to list those elements women scan.
It's not 100% on the SMV.
Once you pass the SMV test, you need to pass other tests.

This is why ugly men get laid more that "single high value" guys

 

[Junbae]

That is exactly the point of the post.
We might want to list those elements women scan.
It's not 100% on the SMV.
Once you pass the SMV test, you need to pass other tests.

This is why ugly men get laid more that "single high value" guys

smv for men is literally just being outgoing, media promotion, and social proximity. everything else is subjective and not a reliable way to determine how much smv someone will have. you will get much farther in life following the bluepill or even redpill than blackpill theories. only women should be following blackpill theory as looks is literally their entire social value.

 

[johnny4612]

Those are the ones I thought about

1) A girlfriend or steady partner (preselection)
2) Female presence (she thinks you’re cheating, though you never actually would)
3) Places you frequent where you are treated like a king (she can only believe what she sees in that little world and how you are regarded there)

 

[johnny4612]

you will get much farther in life following the bluepill or even redpill than blackpill theories. only women should be following blackpill theory as looks is literally their entire social value.

Please explain this better when you get time, it's an interesting point

 

[Junbae]

Please explain this better when you get time, it's an interesting point

there is no blackpill for men, outside of theory. it was always nt, proximity, and media being the three things that truly determine your smv for women. bluepill and redpill both have their flaws but are closer to these factors than blackpill, which is why bluepillers and redpillers both have better lives and more success with women than blackpillers.