Embrace being alone in your 20s

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Jason Voorhees

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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see.
did read lifefuel for loners ig if u have the discipline for this:Comfy:
 
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Good message. Most of us gotta lock in 🔥
 
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@loyolaxavvierretard @deadstock @SecularIslamist @FaceandBBC
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork.
I'M TELLING YOU GUYS ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE, DON'T EVER GET UP, KEEP- KEEP GRINDING, KEEP HUSTLING, SHOOT FOR YOUR DREAMS YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT, I PROMISE YOU, YOU JUST HAVE TO TAKE THAT FIRST STEP TAKE THAT HARD STEP OF ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING
 
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I feel the best when alone honestly. It's insufferable being around other humans.
 
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I feel the best when alone honestly. It's insufferable being around other humans.
i feel the same but at the same time i feel a bit envious. Its weird
 
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i feel the same but at the same time i feel a bit envious. Its weird
Yeah I know exactly what you mean. It's like you wanna be alone but at the same time you don't.
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
lifefuel thank you for this bro <3
 
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Yeah I know exactly what you mean. It's like you wanna be alone but at the same time you don't.
yeah exactly like normies/foids are annoying and virtually impossible to get along with but i also long for a connection with them
 
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@pprimus43 @Swarthy Knight @Debetro @Magnus Ironblood
 
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yeah exactly like normies/foids are annoying and virtually impossible to get along with but i also long for a connection with them
agreed social events can be draining asf but when I spend too much time alone I get depressed
 
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Yeah I know exactly what you mean. It's like you wanna be alone but at the same time you don't.
You want to reproduce but can’t. That is why.

So go rape like monke.
 
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Social domination is lifes purpose
 
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Do the work.
 
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Yeah I know exactly what you mean. It's like you wanna be alone but at the same time you don't.
I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips .
I heavily disagree to the point that I believe what you’re saying is just a coping mechanism.

The reason I say this is because I am now alone (for about 2 years now) living alone with no family nor friends. But before these 2 years (when I was still living in my old city) I had people who supported me and had my back I would not get bored and hanged our every day with friends , and I’ll even cut 1 of my arms to go back and live this lifestyle forever . That’s how bad being alone is
 
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I heavily disagree to the point that I believe what you’re saying is just a coping mechanism.

The reason I say this is because I am now alone (for about 2 years now) living alone with no family nor friends. But before these 2 years (when I still living in my old city) I had people who supported me and had my back I would not get bored and hanged our every day with friends , and I’ll even cut my 1 of my arms to go back and live this lifestyle forever . That’s how bad being alone is
we need to be social for sure
 
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I did this throughout my 20s.. except instead of grinding I was LDARing and NEETmaxxing :feelswhy:
 
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I heavily disagree to the point that I believe what you’re saying is just a coping mechanism.

The reason I say this is because I am now alone (for about 2 years now) living alone with no family nor friends. But before these 2 years (when I still living in my old city) I had people who supported me and had my back I would not get bored and hanged our every day with friends , and I’ll even cut my 1 of my arms to go back and live this lifestyle forever . That’s how bad being alone is
I know it sounds giga cope but I'm seriously not lying. I'd much rather be alone than to be with the old insufferable "friend" group that I was around for social benefits. Having no family (depending on the family) around will def take a toll on you tho.
 
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I never put any extra / not needed effort into any shit, I always put in the bare minimum and made it as late as possible (even though I came from a small and bad town from a relatively poor and bad family)

And even so, it always seemed as if my life arranged itself alone and on automatic mode, without any direct initiative from me to ‘'have / get something out of life’', but based on external factors that I couldn't control (and I basically let life flow the way it wanted and take me in the direction it wanted)

I now work hybrid (more remote) at the top 2 multinational firm in my city which is the top 2 city in the country by any measure, and I have a bachelor's and master's in engineering

Life's good for now, but far from having all shit together, but at least I'm comfortable, and the only thing that seems to worry me is getting older (especially my parents), and how time seems to pass faster and faster..
 
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I know it sounds giga cope but I'm seriously not lying. I'd much rather be alone than to be with the old insufferable "friend" group that I was around for social benefits. Having no family (depending on the family) around will def take a toll on you tho.
Yeah I get that , having bad friends is as bad as being alone , but having supporting friends who will back you up and being friends with you purely for your company is awesome as shit . Yeah and family aswell ofcourse. Tbh I’ll leave this site soon and start taking more risks and hope I get a better life
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
Your just a curry


This is standard for your race, all curries are born with god tier work ethic and ultra nepotism and stubbornness and egos. Theres a reason why nobody’s impressed with curries being successful :lul:
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
leonardo dicaprio gatsby GIF
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
i ll have to get ready for this, i had no serious relationship and i m 20 now, i hope it will get better :ogre:
 
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Im like this where I like my peace and my friends are also like this so we find the balance between meeting each other and staying to ourselves perfectly.
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
Would it have been possible to do both together?
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
And if you're so succesful why you have an account here?
 
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Mirin. Meanwhile I'm a 28 year old neet with an ivy degree
 
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Huge cope. Make 6 figs when youre young and spend it all on travel with friends
 
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What makes it enjoyable for u?
Forums like these are highly repetitive, blackpill and looks theory seems very novel at first but quickly becomes stale. You’ll also start to become less NT and desensitised to violent and disparaging humour that is present here and no longer laugh at things you used to find funny which is why I tell users to focus on looksmaxxing and gain as much as they can from the good content that's on here and leave after 2-3 months.


For people like me however this is a good place to talk about random things and talk about political stuff without getting censored. That's basically why I use the forum now. I don't care about thr blackpill, looks theory no more I've outgrown these things
 
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Forums like these are highly repetitive, blackpill and looks theory seems very novel at first but quickly becomes stale. You’ll also start to become less NT and desensitised to violent and disparaging humour that is present here and no longer laugh at things you used to find funny which is why I tell users to focus on looksmaxxing and gain as much as they can from the good content that's on here and leave after 2-3 months.


For people like me however this is a good place to talk about random things and talk about political stuff without getting censored. That's basically why I use the forum now. I don't care about thr blackpill, looks theory no more I've outgrown these things
Same it feels like the black pill and lookism is just reality and I’ve learnt about as much as their is to learn I do want to leave but currently I don’t see a point in leaving Im still at the point where I haven’t fully ascend and I’m just in limbo what do u think I should do

As for political stuff idk much about it so I never bothered looking into it to much
 
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Forums like these are highly repetitive, blackpill and looks theory seems very novel at first but quickly becomes stale. You’ll also start to become less NT and desensitised to violent and disparaging humour that is present here and no longer laugh at things you used to find funny which is why I tell users to focus on looksmaxxing and gain as much as they can from the good content that's on here and leave after 2-3 months.


For people like me however this is a good place to talk about random things and talk about political stuff without getting censored. That's basically why I use the forum now. I don't care about thr blackpill, looks theory no more I've outgrown these things
So you're acting bluepilled now or do you get some girls.
 
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@Gaygymmaxx
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
Based nigga behavior

Where did the mass of your wealth come from blenchod,

Give us the specific sauce
 
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Based nigga behavior

Where did the mass of your wealth come from blenchod,

Give us the specific sauce
Freelance work on a website called Toptal that paid me over $60/hr. A few smart investments in stocks and crypto. Regarding the crypto if you need some resources i can dm you them
 
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Nigga you are still very young.
I was in army at 23
Go to army
 
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Pepe cry pepe
 
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Freelance work on a website called Toptal that paid me over $60/hr. A few smart investments in stocks and crypto. Regarding the crypto if you need some resources i can dm you them
Yea please do

Tbh bitcoin is very clearly the future I planned to money maxx and put every penny into it

While my parents host me until I finish college. I've got like 4-6 years to stack bread

I'll probably leverage bet on btc with moderate leverage for every input

It's the safest commodity to ever exist if you understand the system of it
 
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Just started socializing and am already regretting it, going to go back to loner.
 
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I had so many chances to get caught up in the usual college chaos druggy parties, hookah nights, random beach trips but that stuff just wasn’t for me. I always felt better doing my own thing, solo, learning new stuff, building cool projects. That grind paid off big time later.

In your 20s no matter how Chad and incrl you are you’ll be spending a lotta time alone. What really matters is how you use that time. I never cared about clout or chasing likes. I was more into stacking skills, getting fit, staying disciplined, and making shit that actually matters.

Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7, then lectures, study sessions, freelancing gigs, gym in the evening. I joined every damn club you can think of debate, finance, toastmasters, NGOs, even shooting through the army. People kept telling me to chill but I just kept pushing. Now I’m 21 working, and already sitting on a bank balance with more zeroes than most of them will ever see. I started from nothing. I am not gifted, I wasn't privileged. My daddy ain't rich either. I am a product of sheer hardwork and focused effort.
How much bank balance? Curious. in USD
 
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Back in uni, I was basically living like I was in the military up at 5:30, running at 6, breakfast by 7,
Do you think waking up at 5:30 is early? :lul:
@Eltrē @optimisticzoomer
 
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Yea please do

Tbh bitcoin is very clearly the future I planned to money maxx and put every penny into it

While my parents host me until I finish college. I've got like 4-6 years to stack bread

I'll probably leverage bet on btc with moderate leverage for every input

It's the safest commodity to ever exist if you understand the system of it
👨🏿 Saaar I want moneee saaar giv meee moneeeee 👨🏿

Lock in bitch.
 
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Do you think waking up at 5:30 is early? :lul:
@Eltrē @optimisticzoomer
By then I've already done my morning chants, yoga, and meditation, as well as feeding the squirrels
 
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