environment and perspective are just as important as looks

[kisuke]

something that i think a lot of guys don't grasp well is the fact that your succes with women relies on perspective and the environment you're in just as much as your objective looks rating . i understood that when i saw the difference of treatment i would receive when i'm out with my basketball teammates and how i'm treated without them , for example in school .

i'm definitely not the most attractive guy i'd say i'm mtn , but i'm tall with a good frame so i get more positive interaction than the average guy with girls , but i realized that when i'm out with my basketball teammates who are just as if not taller than me and all decent looking , that little attention i usually get significantly drops , because when i'm out with them , what makes me stand out usually which is my height , becomes something normal , and in the eyes of girls becomes less valuable .

A lot of guys here believe that your looks ratings define everything in your dating success , while i mostly agree , i think your environment ( direct competition ) matters just as much , if you're a mtn in a school full of ltn's you will have more success with girls in that environment than a cl in a school full of chads .

so being aware of the environment you're in and creating an environment where you're favored can help just as much as bettering your physical appearance

 

[kisuke]

something that i think a lot of guys don't grasp well is the fact that your succes with women relies on perspective and the environment you're in just as much as your objective looks rating . i understood that when i saw the difference of treatment i would receive when i'm out with my basketball teammates and how i'm treated without them , for example in school .

i'm definitely not the most attractive guy i'd say i'm mtn , but i'm tall with a good frame so i get more positive interaction than the average guy with girls , but i realized that when i'm out with my basketball teammates who are just as if not taller than me and all decent looking , that little attention i usually get significantly drops , because when i'm out with them , what makes me stand out usually which is my height , becomes something normal , and in the eyes of girls becomes less valuable .

A lot of guys here believe that your looks ratings define everything in your dating success , while i mostly agree , i think your environment ( direct competition ) matters just as much , if you're a mtn in a school full of ltn's you will have more success with girls in that environment than a cl in a school full of chads .

so being aware of the environment you're in and creating an environment where you're favored can help just as much as bettering your physical appearance

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[disillusioned]

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