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yachtclubb
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Im 21yo in college and im still a virgin.
I have madeout with a bunch of girls and get shown interest/have social clout but I only find myself escalating if I won’t have to see a bitch again due to my comical level fear of embarrassment not knowing what to do.
It has gotten so ridiculous to the point I’m genuinely debating getting an escort to teach me pro level technique, but I don’t want to feel like a genuine subhuman afterward knowing that for my virginity I had to stoop that low all to avoid fear.
My other idea was to go to some 3rd world shit hole and fuck a random ethnic where the stakes don’t matter, but then I would never really know how good I am at what I’m doing.
What would you do in my situation.
I have madeout with a bunch of girls and get shown interest/have social clout but I only find myself escalating if I won’t have to see a bitch again due to my comical level fear of embarrassment not knowing what to do.
It has gotten so ridiculous to the point I’m genuinely debating getting an escort to teach me pro level technique, but I don’t want to feel like a genuine subhuman afterward knowing that for my virginity I had to stoop that low all to avoid fear.
My other idea was to go to some 3rd world shit hole and fuck a random ethnic where the stakes don’t matter, but then I would never really know how good I am at what I’m doing.
What would you do in my situation.