Estimate my rating (super autistic)

[thsdoe]

I need an estimate based on the following situations I’ve been in

.on hinge I have a match rate of 28 percent with 422+ matches in total as a south Asian man (which imo surprised me since south Asians don’t have the best reputation)
. I find it relatively easy to slay irl
. Gets called handsome frequently by strangers, was walking down the street once and a stranger said “god you’re handsome as fuck” even though I had unkempt hair and simple clothes on
. Gets called a player/ whore pretty often
.got scouted for modelling by a legitimate scout over instagram

What is confusing me however is…

on instagram I Went on a following spree with a public account with a few posts and stories, got some follow backs with others accepting them and not even following back (mostly strangers with no mutuals) . Tried dming some girls and got flirty responses and was unsuccessful with other girls (although I have to admit my game over DMs needs a lot of work). Some of the girls that aired my DMs were I’d say sub5 which confused me the most since I’d get htbs and stacylites on hinge.

. Some girls do slide into MY DMs but they aren’t strangers and I’ve known them irl

So now I’m left pretty confused as where I stand in terms of rating because of these mixed experiences. Any advice or answers is appreciated, please let me know if I’m overthinking this as someone else’s perspective on this would help a lot.

 

[Ascension_incoming]

estimated hmtn its normal not every girl will be into you

 

[thsdoe]

estimated hmtn its normal not every girl will be into you

Fair enough, do you reckon instagram is more clout based rather than looks based? The difference in success I find on dating apps and instagram is insane man

 

[zenautist]

Fair enough, do you reckon instagram is more clout based rather than looks based? The difference in success I find on dating apps and instagram is insane man

Yes, on Instagram your follower count matters a lot as it reflects how active your social circle is
If you have something like 80 followers they either think you have no friends or are a catfish
Theres a thread here somewhere that goes more in depth on this and how to gain followers properly
Its more like a requirement though, once you have a solid follower count it doesnt really add much more

 

[thsdoe]

Tha

Yes, on Instagram your follower count matters a lot as it reflects how active your social circle is
If you have something like 80 followers they either think you have no friends or are a catfish
Theres a thread here somewhere that goes more in depth on this and how to gain followers properly
Its more like a requirement though, once you have a solid follower count it doesnt really add much more

that makes a lot of sense now, gonna stick to hinge from now on I guess. Thanks for the new perspective man

 

[thsdoe]

estimated hmtn its normal not every girl will be into you

Is that like a hard estimate or could it potentially be higher given the massive dating app success rate and the unwarranted complements from strangers whilst walking on the street?

 

[Ascension_incoming]

Is that like a hard estimate or could it potentially be higher given the massive dating app success rate and the unwarranted complements from strangers whilst walking on the street?

hmtn is already very good but i wouldn't know without seeing your face