Even if you got the looks, money, status, fame, Dick, body, etc of your dreams, 99% of you would still fail at getting girls and here's why...

[Lefty Rankin]

It's because you're insecure, but it's not just the insecurity from those external things; it's deep inside you that you're subconsciously insecure and believe you're not enough.

The majority of you are looking to improve the external to heal the internal when you need both. I'm not saying try to improve yourself in all areas, but you need to heal the internal thoughts as well.

I fucking come across women with no fame, fortune, status, job, and actually poor health. Now some will say you're good looking well my looks have been rated as a 5-6 on here. Then they will say I'm tall. I'm basically 6 foot with no shoes on. I'm in my forty's now and yet I can pull fairly easily IRL. Online only works in groups of common interests I've noticed so IRL or common interest groups is key here.


Basically the key elements I've noticed one needs if you're average or below in all the areas men are taught they need to be GOD's to attract mates is

1.) Be on your purpose
2.) 100% don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks
3.) Extreme high level of confidence and a bit of arrogance
4.) In your Masculine frame


Added bonuses I've picked up
1.) Dangerous side
2.) Mysterious and unpredictable

Your fucking drive and not being distracted her sexual advances are key. If you show that you can allow her to manipulate you with sex then she loses attraction. Your purpose is number one. But if she just touches you and then that takes you away from your purpose over and over and over then she loses attraction.




When you're natrually on your purpose, in your masculine frame, extremely confident, don't give a fuck and have a little mystery/danger side to you then it doesn't matter much on your LMFS. There may be limits to this sure but the main thing is women want you to be a level above her in sexual market value and even if you don't have LMFS that doesn't matter if you have the purpose, drive, confidence frame and mystery as she will want you for you and all that superficial shit is irrelevant. Not having a monster cock, a supermodel face, billions of dollars, 6'5" Chad doesn't mean jack fucking diddly.

Over time I've gone from blue pill, to red pill, to black pill and now to my own pill the dark pill, as this is dark shit nobody talks about in what truly attracts females for the short and long term. The Dark Pill is the way the truth and the light and the truth shall set your free.

I don't know if you can truly fake confidence as it's something natural after having a purpose and then working on that purpose daily for a long time and obsessing about that purpose all day every day. The dangerous side or risk taking side comes from that purpose having the danger or risk attached to it.

Only closed minded beta's will be unable to accept this truth.


COPE
DNR
not one word
Chad fucks beta bucks
KYS
Suck my dick, faggot.
Nigger
Kiss my ass bitch
but but the black pill
but but the studies
but but the apps lol
tales from your mom's basement

I agree with everything you said except the purpose bit. You don't have to have any purpose whatsoever to:

100% don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks

Have extreme high level of confidence and a bit of arrogance

Stay in your frame

Have a dangerous side

Be effectively mysterious and unpredictable





I've never needed any sense of purpose, or any purpose to work toward, to be my foundation for any of those things. I've always just thoroughly enjoyed revealing myself to people, whether they like it or not.

"Purpose purpose purpose."

 

[Glorious King]

water
intelligent water


but a few things matter

1) looks
2) height
3) body

but where you win is

if the guy meets her cutoff

ex: mtn, 5'11 success, nt
mtn, 5'7 nope, nt

so meet her cutoff your thread works

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Major flaws of men that have most of or all the Chad qualities
1. Go emotionally weak for woman
2. Fall for their lust
3. Commit to a woman
4. Get in the weeds and talk to much and share too much about themselves and the mystery about themselves is gone.
5. Don't lead the woman
6. Don't demonstrate they are superior in every fashion to the woman.
7. Chase the woman

I actually fully agree with this. It’s essential to respect these and probably more if you get in a LTR.

I would actually say you should extend this to any woman in your life.

Respect bro.

 

[King Solomon]

I actually fully agree with this. It’s essential to respect these and probably more if you get in a LTR.

I would actually say you should extend this to any woman in your life.

Respect bro.

Thank you very much and it's nice to see someone who comprehends my message. Yes with good looks the Chad characteristics you can suck and fuck through thousands of women from online dating apps. This leads to degeneracy, self destruction, a waste of time effort and energy and eternal damnation. If one wants to actually have an LTR or a so called soul mate then the insides of the man must be developed as all the other superficial stuff means nothing for an LTR. Tom Brady was dumped as NFL star with billions, fame, 6'4" Chad. Steph Curry's wife doesn't respect him. All those so called alpha's are getting destroyed. They don't have what it takes on the inside.

 

[King Solomon]

I agree with everything you said except the purpose bit. You don't have to have any purpose whatsoever to:

100% don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks

Have extreme high level of confidence and a bit of arrogance

Stay in your frame

Have a dangerous side

Be effectively mysterious and unpredictable





I've never needed any sense of purpose, or any purpose to work toward, to be my foundation for any of those things. I've always just thoroughly enjoyed revealing myself to people, whether they like it or not.

"Purpose purpose purpose."

Unfortunately without your own purpose that drives you each and every day, you'll eventually fall victim to her sexual temptations and looks and she will become your purpose and when that happens she'll lose all respect for you and leave. This happens all the time unfortunately. You have to have a main goal or something that drives you outside of a girl.

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Thank you very much and it's nice to see someone who comprehends my message.

I do because I was in a LTR for 8 years and I realized a few things after we broke up => my "downfall" was pretty much aligned with what you said. Actually she even told me something along the lines when we had a big argument. By the time I woke up and tried to fix shit, it was too late and she already lost pretty much all respect because I caught her texting another guy. Then I fucked up even more and "forgave" that to keep going for another 3 months in which I lost any form of self respect and dedicated to trying to make her stay. Jfl

Fortunately she wasn’t a huge loss despite being together for 8 years and I learned my lesson for the next relationship, which I hope will be with a better looking woman.

 

[King Solomon]

I do because I was in a LTR for 8 years and I realized a few things after we broke up. My downfall was pretty much aligned with what you said. Actually she even said something along the lines. By the time I "woke up" and tried to fix shit, it was too late and she already lost pretty much all respect. Fortunately she wasn’t a huge loss despite being together for 8 years and I learned my lesson for the next relationship, which I hope will be with a better looking woman.

Yes, if one royally fucks up like develops an emotionally attachment or say you love her, commit to her, make her the center of your universe, over compliment her, go weak for her looks or sex, needy, spend too much time with her etc. Once you make a major error and continue to worsen over time then it can't be undone she see's you as a friend at best. The only possible way one can overcome something like this is if you got sick and it affected your emotions and she realizes the difference in you and even though she pulls away sexually she still remembers the real you and waits for you to recover. The best you can do in this case if you see her turn into a cold fish in terms of desire is to leave at least temporarily until you heal because she can't see you in this weak state as the longer she see's this the more respect she loses for you even if she stays there for you.

Once you come back you must act as if nothing happened and even be more in your masculine frame than ever before. She'll forget you ever changed.

The looks are somewhat important for sex and desire for a man yes but her past, her personality, will be more important for the LTR. She just needs to meet bare minimum levels for me.

Get them to obsess over you and keep them in this state by being able to control their emotions, and building up sexual desire. For true desire and respect you'll see she will travel the ends of the earth to do anything you want her to do for you, let you pound her any way you want to whenever you want to and do whatever you tell her with no resistance.


Keep conversations and dates to 30 minutes or less. Never go into logic or reason and keep topics light and fun and flirt. Future forecast with her by painting this amazing relationship you'll be in with her.

 

[SoundnVision]

Again you are confused as fuck.

Women see men for their insides for the long term and looks means absolutely nothing for the long term.

I've done this routinely while having average looks. Hell I've made women obsessed with me and they didn't even know wtf I looked like. Game set match

Can I pm you fella

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Yes, if one royally fucks up like develops an emotionally attachment or say you love her, commit to her, make her the center of your universe, over compliment her, go weak for her looks or sex, needy, spend too much time with her etc. Once you make a major error and continue to worsen over time then it can't be undone she see's you as a friend at best.

Tbh for 85% of the relationship I never showed her love, tiny gestures, buying flowers etc because I honestly felt I didn’t love her. I also wasn’t attracted to her physically so it was fucked up for both of us but I had no better option and when I did, either she intervened (her cousin wanted to fuck me, she followed me on Instagram and the next thing I know is she was blocked. My ex gf did it lmao) or I wasn’t interested.

Then she complained that I don’t love her and I am not man enough to handle stuff men should handle etc etc so I did a 180 and tried to do all those things and slowly she became my focal point like I said.

I think you gotta find some balance for example reward her from time to time when she does something you want to show her bits of affection. Idk

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Unfortunately without your own purpose that drives you each and every day, you'll eventually fall victim to her sexual temptations and looks and she will become your purpose and when that happens she'll lose all respect for you and leave. This happens all the time unfortunately. You have to have a main goal or something that drives you outside of a girl.

What the hell are you on about? Her sexual temptations, lol. How am I gonna fall victim to her sexual temptations when her body already belongs to me you dope?

You call people out for being betas when that's actually what you are too. I've never needed any purpose and after living comfortably for a long enough time without one, with plenty of women having come and gone, I'm sure I don't ever have to worry about a woman ever becoming my purpose. I don't have to have a purpose to keep my woman from becoming it.

You losers are the reason I can't call myself red pilled. Having a purpose is good but if you gotta have purpose to simply get or keep a woman then you are certainly not a masculine man.

Better keep running on that wheel. Be a good boy and stay on your purpose. If you lose your purpose you better find a new one really quick or you'll have to answer to her displeasure, and her eventual non consensual separation from you, lol. You fucking loser. Speak for yourself.

"You gotta have purpose."

I've never had to have shit. You're talking to a guy who stood up from the couch, pulled out his dick, and pissed all over the hardwood floor right where he stood before sitting back down the last time his wife continued trying to nag him after he raised his voice at her telling her to stop. That was in 2021. I've been married for 7 years by the way.

Modern day red pillers are nothing but betas convincing themselves they're alphas, while larping. Fortunately for you guys though society has gotten sloppy to where enough people just can't tell the difference anymore.

 

[kazama]

made a thread of just saying " be more confident"

U Joined Aug 11, 2025
He Joined Aug 8, 2021
He wasnt the one who jumped on the trend. And he literally made it clear "have a DECENT smv to put this into practice"

 

[Lefty Rankin]

U Joined Aug 11, 2025
He Joined Aug 8, 2021
He wasnt the one who jumped on the trend. And he literally made it clear "have a DECENT smv to put this into practice"

Don't have to have much SMV. As long as you're not a burn victim it should work wonders. All but that nonsense about purpose.

 

[karmacita901]

1. Talent can be developed if you are passionate enough about something and consistently do it and thrive for your goals.
2. Your own proof of worth is your core beliefs and without these core beliefs everything crumbles. The insides make the man not the exterior.
3. Confidence comes from being on your purpose, working out daily and eating right builds the high T levels and experience builds the confidence points just like time and experience builds your game character.
4. Masculine frame is the social proof. Masculine frame works with zero social proof in reality because your core beliefs actions and words are congruent with a man that has high status and doesn't go emotionally weak for women. Meaning the way he acts talks thinks speaks moves etc are congruent with a man that is pre selected and gives zero fucks about the woman and can get any woman he wants. You don't need actual social proof to achieve this. The social proof is you. I achieve this same thing as I have zero fame, status or social proof and yet I magically make women obsessed with me.

good points on #4, but someone who isn't used to moving like that isn't going to suddenly start moving like that without any kind of primer like good looks (or other high level accomplishments that would be respected by many)

 

[karmacita901]

I've never had to have shit. You're talking to a guy who stood up from the couch, pulled out his dick, and pissed all over the hardwood floor right where he stood before sitting back down the last time his wife continued trying to nag him after he raised his voice at her telling her to stop. That was in 2021. I've been married for 7 years by the way.

this is the highest t post i ever seen, my man really pissed on the floor and made the bitch clean it up

 

[Lefty Rankin]

this is the highest t post i ever seen, my man really pissed on the floor and made the bitch clean it up

If I recall correctly I had to smash a few dinner plates before she got to cleaning it up.

 

[King Solomon]

Tbh for 85% of the relationship I never showed her love, tiny gestures, buying flowers etc because I honestly felt I didn’t love her. I also wasn’t attracted to her physically so it was fucked up for both of us but I had no better option and when I did, either she intervened (her cousin wanted to fuck me, she followed me on Instagram and the next thing I know is she was blocked. My ex gf did it lmao) or I wasn’t interested.

Then she complained that I don’t love her and I am not man enough to handle stuff men should handle etc etc so I did a 180 and tried to do all those things and slowly she became my focal point like I said.

I think you gotta find some balance for example reward her from time to time when she does something you want to show her bits of affection. Idk

When she does things for you that you ask her to do and does it well then compliment her for good behavior.