Even my mom thinks im ugly and some thoughts

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Got called ugly by my mom last night. It's nothing new as this sort of thing happens at least once or twice a month usually when I meet someone new. Everyone always has something to say some comment about the way I look. Sometimes it's about my body, how I'm skinny, other times people telling me directly i have a big head, sometimes people imply im ugly or directly comment about my face. Friends, new people I've met, and most recently my parents.

In one brutal case I was talking with some fat ethnic manlet who I became "friends" with at my university about past dating and i mentioned that I have been on a couple dates in the past (during mask period since my eyes area was okay) and this faggot immediately tells me "that's massive cap" pretty much person I've mentioned my dating sort of thing to has been surprised or didn't believe me. Later on he admits to me that he also believes personality doesnt matter in dating and that its about your looks. I'm white and 6 ft so it's not a race or height thing if that's what those people believed in

No matter how much I think I've improved my looks someone always has to say something negative. Yes i do look better than i did a year ago but I get it I'm still below average or maybe even ugly, but why do people always have to say some shit. Can't believe my own parents are against me and say this shit. Even my own dad has told me "your body looks terrible" despite having put on noticeable muscle and becoming leaner

I don't really expect anyone reading this to care. I just want to put my thoughts out there so I know at least someone can hear them. I have no real friends to talk about this with and most people that I do talk with are over text but many just leave me on read. Often times when i post on here asking for genuine advice people just react to my threads with jfl...nobody deserves to go through this :(
 
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Got called ugly by my mom last night. It's nothing new as this sort of thing happens at least once or twice a month usually when I meet someone new. Everyone always has something to say some comment about the way I look. Sometimes it's about my body, how I'm skinny, other times people telling me directly i have a big head, sometimes people imply im ugly or directly comment about my face. Friends, new people I've met, and most recently my parents.

In one brutal case I was talking with some fat ethnic manlet who I became "friends" with at my university about past dating and i mentioned that I have been on a couple dates in the past (during mask period since my eyes area was okay) and this faggot immediately tells me "that's massive cap" pretty much person I've mentioned my dating sort of thing to has been surprised or didn't believe me. Later on he admits to me that he also believes personality doesnt matter in dating and that its about your looks. I'm white and 6 ft so it's not a race or height thing if that's what those people believed in

No matter how much I think I've improved my looks someone always has to say something negative. Yes i do look better than i did a year ago but I get it I'm still below average or maybe even ugly, but why do people always have to say some shit. Can't believe my own parents are against me and say this shit. Even my own dad has told me "your body looks terrible" despite having put on noticeable muscle and becoming leaner

I don't really expect anyone reading this to care. I just want to put my thoughts out there so I know at least someone can hear them. I have no real friends to talk about this with and most people that I do talk with are over text but many just leave me on read. Often times when i post on here asking for genuine advice people just react to my threads with jfl...nobody deserves to go through this :(
Get money then go to Istanbul
 
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i would honestly say to try and get lean ( not starvemaxxing ) and maybe get on accutane if your skin is an issue and you can try and softmaxx some of your flaws but if its not fixable naturally then forget about that and you could get on certain peptides
 
i would honestly say to try and get lean ( not starvemaxxing ) and maybe get on accutane if your skin is an issue and you can try and softmaxx some of your flaws but if its not fixable naturally then forget about that and you could get on certain peptides
Thanks. I'm not even that ugly that's the sad part I'm just an LTN with MTN potential rn. I never got these comments from my mom when I was a genuine subhuman though
 
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Thanks. I'm not even that ugly that's the sad part I'm just an LTN with MTN potential rn. I never got these comments from my mom when I was a genuine subhuman though
6ft mtn should honestly be able to slay, i think the people who wouldnt belive you or be hesitant that youve been on dates are probably jealous in some sort of way like the ethnic guy who 100% hasnt been on a date before and him seeing that you have hurts his ego
 
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My mom thinks im short qnd look below average
She compare me to other kids
Mine too tbh she says I'm short/not tall enough despite being 3 inches above average and taller than both her and my dad by a margin
 
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Got called ugly by my mom last night. It's nothing new as this sort of thing happens at least once or twice a month usually when I meet someone new. Everyone always has something to say some comment about the way I look. Sometimes it's about my body, how I'm skinny, other times people telling me directly i have a big head, sometimes people imply im ugly or directly comment about my face. Friends, new people I've met, and most recently my parents.

In one brutal case I was talking with some fat ethnic manlet who I became "friends" with at my university about past dating and i mentioned that I have been on a couple dates in the past (during mask period since my eyes area was okay) and this faggot immediately tells me "that's massive cap" pretty much person I've mentioned my dating sort of thing to has been surprised or didn't believe me. Later on he admits to me that he also believes personality doesnt matter in dating and that its about your looks. I'm white and 6 ft so it's not a race or height thing if that's what those people believed in

No matter how much I think I've improved my looks someone always has to say something negative. Yes i do look better than i did a year ago but I get it I'm still below average or maybe even ugly, but why do people always have to say some shit. Can't believe my own parents are against me and say this shit. Even my own dad has told me "your body looks terrible" despite having put on noticeable muscle and becoming leaner

I don't really expect anyone reading this to care. I just want to put my thoughts out there so I know at least someone can hear them. I have no real friends to talk about this with and most people that I do talk with are over text but many just leave me on read. Often times when i post on here asking for genuine advice people just react to my threads with jfl...nobody deserves to go through this :(
What the fuck is up with your family? Holy ropefule :feelswhy::feelswhy:. Your life is hard bro ima be honest. If they care about you even a little, you should attempt to play on their sympathy and beg them to fund hardmaxx by making them feel guilty for saying those things. but they sound like shitty people tho so idk man gl tho
 
What the fuck is up with your family? Holy ropefule :feelswhy::feelswhy:. Your life is hard bro ima be honest. If they care about you even a little, you should attempt to play on their sympathy and beg them to fund hardmaxx by making them feel guilty for saying those things. but they sound like shitty people tho so idk man gl tho
They would prefer me to be skinny fat rather than lean. They think going to the gym is a waste of time and stupid. Still trying to reverse all those years of junk food I had to grow up around
 

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