
bddcoper
36 mm pfl
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Got called ugly by my mom last night. It's nothing new as this sort of thing happens at least once or twice a month usually when I meet someone new. Everyone always has something to say some comment about the way I look. Sometimes it's about my body, how I'm skinny, other times people telling me directly i have a big head, sometimes people imply im ugly or directly comment about my face. Friends, new people I've met, and most recently my parents.
In one brutal case I was talking with some fat ethnic manlet who I became "friends" with at my university about past dating and i mentioned that I have been on a couple dates in the past (during mask period since my eyes area was okay) and this faggot immediately tells me "that's massive cap" pretty much person I've mentioned my dating sort of thing to has been surprised or didn't believe me. Later on he admits to me that he also believes personality doesnt matter in dating and that its about your looks. I'm white and 6 ft so it's not a race or height thing if that's what those people believed in
No matter how much I think I've improved my looks someone always has to say something negative. Yes i do look better than i did a year ago but I get it I'm still below average or maybe even ugly, but why do people always have to say some shit. Can't believe my own parents are against me and say this shit. Even my own dad has told me "your body looks terrible" despite having put on noticeable muscle and becoming leaner
I don't really expect anyone reading this to care. I just want to put my thoughts out there so I know at least someone can hear them. I have no real friends to talk about this with and most people that I do talk with are over text but many just leave me on read. Often times when i post on here asking for genuine advice people just react to my threads with jfl...nobody deserves to go through this
In one brutal case I was talking with some fat ethnic manlet who I became "friends" with at my university about past dating and i mentioned that I have been on a couple dates in the past (during mask period since my eyes area was okay) and this faggot immediately tells me "that's massive cap" pretty much person I've mentioned my dating sort of thing to has been surprised or didn't believe me. Later on he admits to me that he also believes personality doesnt matter in dating and that its about your looks. I'm white and 6 ft so it's not a race or height thing if that's what those people believed in
No matter how much I think I've improved my looks someone always has to say something negative. Yes i do look better than i did a year ago but I get it I'm still below average or maybe even ugly, but why do people always have to say some shit. Can't believe my own parents are against me and say this shit. Even my own dad has told me "your body looks terrible" despite having put on noticeable muscle and becoming leaner
I don't really expect anyone reading this to care. I just want to put my thoughts out there so I know at least someone can hear them. I have no real friends to talk about this with and most people that I do talk with are over text but many just leave me on read. Often times when i post on here asking for genuine advice people just react to my threads with jfl...nobody deserves to go through this