Even normies don't have active social lives beyond high-school

[disillusioned]

Put simply, if you aren't good looking it's very unlikely you will have an active social life after you graduate from school. Yes there are exceptions but for the majority of people including even normies it's extremely difficult to enter any kind of social circle once they're longer at the apex of their youth and don't have the luxury of being surrounded by other people their own age.

None of my normie buddies that I'm aware of still have active social lives (I'm 31). Most either settled into a sort of beta bux marriage or simply ended up loners. Fact of the matter is, if you're late 20's or early 30's the only way to make other people give a shit about your existence is to be good looking.

Just lol it's possible to make a perfectly valid argument that only good looking people even get to have a proper life at all.

 

[thecel]

Stop spreading comforting lies.

It’s blackpilled to believe that everyone except you has everything.

I’m a bottom-0.1% creature, and normies’ lives are many orders of magnitude better than mine. This is a true blackpill belief.

 

[disillusioned]

Stop spreading comforting lies.

How is this comforting?

 

[thecel]

How is this comforting?

It tells you that you aren’t alone. It’s easy on a man’s mind to believe that 90% of men share his problems. It’s super tough to come to terms with the harsh truth that one’s in a tiny minority.

 

[Shrek2OnDvD]

I’m truly amazed at how OP consistently has the worst takes on everything

 

[disillusioned]

It tells you that you aren’t alone. It’s easy on a man’s mind to believe that 90% of men share his problems. It’s super tough to come to terms with the harsh truth that one’s in a tiny minority.

I don't know fucking anybody from my youth that still has active social life on any meaningful level.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

I noticed that everyone from my old high school still hang out with eachother, their social circles have not changed one bit. You would think they would have new friend groups but they don't. It's weird because their social circles were much larger in highschool and have seemed to shrink in college when you would think it would be the other way around.

 

[disillusioned]

I noticed that everyone from my old high school still hang out with eachother, their social circles have not changed one bit. You would think they would have new friend groups but they don't. It's weird because their social circles were much larger in highschool and have seemed to shrink in college when you would think it would be the other way around.

How old are they? All of my old buddies went their separate ways because of reasons such as work, moving to some other place etc.

 

[Deleted member 16392]

You don't make friends after 16. Even university friend groups break down and people just stay in contact with childhood friends.

 

[Deleted member 18086]

this life is a waste

 

[Deleted member 15099]

I’m truly amazed at how OP consistently has the worst takes on everything

Can you really blame him? He lives on a rock in the middle of nowhere

 

[Deleted member 17763]

None of my normie buddies that I'm aware of still have active social lives (I'm 31)

All this cope instead of just realizing all your friends are losers

 

[wollet2]

I’m truly amazed at how OP consistently has the worst takes on everything

This is an exaggeration at best and because it sounds funny "op CONSISTENTLY has the worst takes on everything lamo how does he do it "

Ive seen redditors use this line on every slightly not valid take forever.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

in what way is 31 the same as just finishing high school?

terrible take tbh OP almost every normal person has some mates who they do normie shit with like go to thye pub, holidays etc

If you never experienced this youre subhuman as fuck, its not like slaying which is legit reserved for only a small % of men, if you didnt experience normie social life theres something very very wrong with you

 

[disillusioned]

All this cope instead of just realizing all your friends are losers

They really weren't. Some of them were quite popular at school and would even occasionally get laid.

 

[Deleted member 17763]

They really weren't. Some of them were quite popular at school and would even occasionally get laid.

But they're losers now

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Put simply, if you aren't good looking it's very unlikely you will have an active social life after you graduate from school. Yes there are exceptions but for the majority of people including even normies it's extremely difficult to enter any kind of social circle once they're longer at the apex of their youth and don't have the luxury of being surrounded by other people their own age.

None of my normie buddies that I'm aware of still have active social lives (I'm 31). Most either settled into a sort of beta bux marriage or simply ended up loners. Fact of the matter is, if you're late 20's or early 30's the only way to make other people give a shit about your existence is to be good looking.

Just lol it's possible to make a perfectly valid argument that only good looking people even get to have a proper life at all.

I've begun to notice this issue since I'm going to graduate from uni soon. I worry about what I will do. But I've met lots of people through friends of friends which is how most normies function.

My one friend me and him were working in the same place. We made friends with this one other guy our age and he said he played videogames, so we added him on discord. We ended up smoking some weed together and then I met his friends - boom social circle expanded and added them guys on discord.

Whenever it's summer, in my hometown. I think I have like 1 core group of friends, then I have others which sprout from that. I probably have like 5 other groups of friends I can chill with. In total I have 6 groups of friends, but 1 core group. That's like at least 20 people in total. I'm on good term with them all and yeah every summer I meet up with them. This is how NT people make friends. Befriend chads and shit, they'll expand your circle massively

 

[thecel]

this life is a waste

life.exe ran into a problem : the process failed to start

 

[Deleted member 17997]

How old are they? All of my old buddies went their separate ways because of reasons such as work, moving to some other place etc.

20-21

 

[disillusioned]

20-21

That's nothing. I was still going out clubbing with my old mates at that age. But once we were mid to late 20s we stopped seeing one another.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

That's nothing. I was still going out clubbing with my old mates at that age. But once we were mid to late 20s we stopped seeing one another.

It seems old to me when I realise 16 year olds are half a decade younger than me ngl

 

[disillusioned]

It seems old to me when I realise 16 year olds are half a decade younger than me ngl

I'm literally twice their age jfl.