
warmth
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every decision a woman makes comes from envy or insecurity. not some — every. she doesn’t go for a man because she loves him. she goes because having him means something. he’s tall? her kids will mog others. he’s rich? her friends will envy. he’s hot? her instagram value spikes. it’s never about the man. it’s about what being with him says about her. everything is acquisition. validation through association. you’re not the goal — you’re a symbol.
this is why women chase the same 10% of men. not because those men are better humans. but because they are social trophies. she doesn’t want him — she wants to be him. and if she can’t, she wants to possess him. envy disguised as desire. insecurity disguised as standards. even “love” becomes a form of self-comparison: “does he make me feel like i’m winning against other women?” if yes, she stays. if not, she rebrands it as toxicity and leaves.
female friendship is competition in drag. relationships are status climbing. fashion, body positivity, makeup — all tools to either 1) quiet her own insecurity or 2) amplify another girl’s. when a girl says “i’m just doing this for myself,” she means “i want to stop hating my reflection” or “i want others to envy me more.” self-love doesn’t require an audience. yet every act of self-love today is posted, filtered, branded. that’s not healing — that’s marketing envy.
in the end, you never dated her. you dated her insecurity’s temporary reflection of status. once you stopped making her feel superior — she detached. not emotionally. symbolically. she left the moment you no longer gave her the edge. that’s why she posts right after the breakup. not because she’s healing. but because she’s recalibrating her value in the envy economy. you were just a mirror. and mirrors get replaced when they stop flattering.
tldr: don't take women seriously, ever. just have fun.
this is why women chase the same 10% of men. not because those men are better humans. but because they are social trophies. she doesn’t want him — she wants to be him. and if she can’t, she wants to possess him. envy disguised as desire. insecurity disguised as standards. even “love” becomes a form of self-comparison: “does he make me feel like i’m winning against other women?” if yes, she stays. if not, she rebrands it as toxicity and leaves.
female friendship is competition in drag. relationships are status climbing. fashion, body positivity, makeup — all tools to either 1) quiet her own insecurity or 2) amplify another girl’s. when a girl says “i’m just doing this for myself,” she means “i want to stop hating my reflection” or “i want others to envy me more.” self-love doesn’t require an audience. yet every act of self-love today is posted, filtered, branded. that’s not healing — that’s marketing envy.
in the end, you never dated her. you dated her insecurity’s temporary reflection of status. once you stopped making her feel superior — she detached. not emotionally. symbolically. she left the moment you no longer gave her the edge. that’s why she posts right after the breakup. not because she’s healing. but because she’s recalibrating her value in the envy economy. you were just a mirror. and mirrors get replaced when they stop flattering.
tldr: don't take women seriously, ever. just have fun.