How to quit blackpill(if you are at least a 3/10)

[fishcooasnodjodjdj]

All roads lead to hammerhand

I don’t get the reference can u save me

 

[fishcooasnodjodjdj]

good thread

Thx bhai

 

[VirginByChoice1]

If you have something the attractive guy truly cannot offer than the chances are in your favor. God people have no discipline, talent, or a developed personality and complain about not getting girls because of chad. If you genuinely had something fruitful and impactful in your life you are going to find a girl. You are also lucky cus most attractive guys are retarded and go for bop htbs. Also, yes, that statistic makes sense, because tall people are a smaller part of the population while average height guys are a massive one. It also just so happens that everyone is a boring pos that complains about life when they haven't even developed it.

Would you go for a 4-5/10 who had a "good personality" when you could get an 7/10 who had an "ok personality", that's the choice a lot of girls have, and throw in the fact they don't find guys under a 6/10 remotely attractive, why in the world would they ever choose a sub 5. How many girls have you heard say "omg i wish i couldve been alive earlier and married albert einstein" as opposed to some 60s hearthrob celebrity.
Regarding the statistic, did you understand what I said?
I forgot the numbers but the idea is something like
80% of men 40+ who are under 5'6" in the US are unmarried
while 10% of men 40+ who are over 6' in the US are unmarried

Also, in my opinion it doesn't make you morally superior, but you could feel a sense of regret and guilt if you slept around, found a good woman who was reserved, but had that past behind you. Also, Chico got extremely lucky and won a lottery, and his case doesn't matter because nobody on this forum is on his level. Chico has done nothing with his life except for walk down a runway and he hasn't contributed to society in a meaningful way. Models only give the illusion of fulfillment because they are retarded and blissful.

yeah its an extreme example to show the point that people can still be fulfilled being promiscuous. And it doesn't matter if he contributed anything cuz we're talking about his mental state.

Yes people do want that, but the woman who wants that probably isn't the best bet to marry. A woman should be marrying you for you brain and heart, not your genetics. If she wants only your genetics and physical then get out of there ur stuck in a dopamine trap and will be left unfulfilled with her.

Brain is also genetic, and again, why would you choose a 5/10 looks with a 10/10 personality, if you could get a 7/10 in looks with a 10/10 personality. No one, not even you no matter how hard you try to convince yourself, doesn't care about looks when dating. It's human nature to reproduce with the best genetics.

And yes everyone should try and improve their looks to an extent but never obsess about it, and hardmaxxing turns you into something you are not. I don't feel like typing all of this out so read my latest reply.

what do you mean "something youre not"? Hardmaxxing helps people look better and improves their lives, in dating and otherwise. Just because you look different than your genetics doesn't mean it's morally wrong or something.

Also, my thread said for at least 3/10. Betabuxxing happens to sub3 guys usually, not 4s or 5s. I simply only assessed the human potential of everyone, and I should've specified that women aren't always a part of that. But, my claim is still strong because I said at least 3/10.

betabuxxing happens to 6/10s
95% of women have to settle with someone less than they wanted and thought they would end up with
and betabuxxing doesn't have to be literal or intentional, there's a reason there's an epidemic of dead bedrooms throughout the west

 

[laworg]

In my opinion, the blackpill only stems from deep personal insecurity. Although people do subconsciously judge you, it is entirely your choice whether you listen to those judging you or not. The blackpill tricks you into caring what those people think. This is central to why you all(and me) feel like shit 24/7.

It does this in a particular way, that being making people so obsessed over their outside appearance that they have no time to look into themselves. If I were say 4/10, maybe 5'7, and I was in college, thinking the reason I was being rejected was because of my approach or personality, I would be significantly more content with my life than if I knew the real reason behind it. After all, ignorance is bliss, and we've all seen what the blackpill does to people who truly take it.

The way to progress, meet the wife of your dreams, and seek fulfillment in our short lives is not from something as superficial as improving our appearance. Health should be a greater concern than anything you do to your outside body. The gift of living and breathing is simply something worth subsisting for. Lets use an example. Clavicular. Clav is the most brainwashed human being I've ever seen(aside from loox). He is genuinely taking meth to "suppress his appetite". He is willing to do everything in his power to be the most polished person he can be. However, this ignores something endemic to all things living.

We are not machines, we are not polished. Animals and living organisms move in a flowing onward behavior without burden(aside from most humans). We are meant to have an awkward moment or a kink or quirk about ourselves, that is what makes us human. When water flows and the cheetah sprints they do not care about hiccups in the way, they simply keep flowing or keep sprinting. Our human equivalent is our desire and drive to knowledge and discovery.

Let me bring something else up. Self esteem. Both me and you(yes you) have extremely low self esteem. This is because we compare ourselves to the most dimorphic or highest psl men ever. However, we have all fallen to the largest arrival fallacy possibly in modern history(aside from the rat race). Your life can only gain significant value upon developing your interests, your passions. David Gandy hates how he looks. Jordan Barrett hated his cheeks so much he deleted them. Sean O'Pry and Chico viewed himself as average. Haruma killed himself. The list goes on. Looks simply do not equate to fulfillment.

Now let me go back to clavicular. If any of you have ever watched his streams, you see he quickly looses interest or happiness in exciting moments. He seems generally relatively numb except for when he is using all of his energy to scream at his camera about bp. The meth, in combination with the extreme amount of slaying he does makes even the small moments laughing with friends seem boring and he becomes disillusioned. This is simply not a way to live your life. One, his life will be extremely short. Two, he is not genuinely happy. As humans we all have an acute emotional attention to detail upon other humans. You can genuinely see clavicular is not happy unless he is drunk.

Now, when we die, our brain lives on for another 5 minutes. In those 5 minutes, your brain puts you in a state of whatever you genuinely think happens after you die. For most people, it is about seeing what accomplishments or things they have achieved in their life. Would you rather be the sex-addicted LA streamer who does meth, whos only accomplishment is 100+ bodies and has his 18-29 year old life haunt him for his 29+ life, or a humble man who finds a woman that loves him, has maybe two or three kids, and lives a happy and simple life on professionalizing something hes good at, continuing his bloodline? If you would choose the first one, you seriously have become disillusioned with reality, and I recommend reading Immanuel Kant.

Every single one of you neurodivergent kids on this forum can accomplish something with their lives. The mere fact of our own consciousness makes us able to do incredible feats. The sheer fact that you were so online to the point that you found this forum proves that you can become invested and developed into something. Personally, the skills I like to develop are composing my own music, playing violin, studying quantum gravity, and speaking mandarin chinese(im white).

Every single life has an inherent potential to mold itself into something beautiful, instead of creating a glass cannon of a human being whos life genuinely means nothing. Now, you all might be thinking, b-but I wont find a wife and have kids because I'm chopped. Let me use an example.

John Nash, the man from the movie A Beautiful Mind(based on a true story). He was an unattractive guy, had severe mental issues(schizophrenia), but was extremely good at one thing in particular, that being math. He married a beautiful woman, who fell in love with his inside brilliance, not his outside beauty. She was genuinely obsessed with him(I linked a pic below of those two).

Every single person has the potential, if hyper-focused, to become great, just simply look at Feynman. An average guy, who put in serious effort and genuinely contributed to society.

Now, if you want to live a worthless life of fucking college girls in sororities and not the life of a nobel prize winning man at the top of his game you clearly are low iq. If you spent your early years doing all of this shit just to slay and hyperfixate on looksmaxxing and bp you will have nothing to look back upon, and you will live out your days of old age in regret. Also, guys who all they do is fuck random girls never have the opportunity to find a woman who truly fits them to marry. You should not be looking at the blond college girl wearing a corset and bunny ears on halloween to give you any sense of fulfillment. The girl that matches what most guys want on this forum deep down is one who stays out of sight and spends more time in the library than she does partying with her friends. I know that is what all of you secretly want.

Even if you never even find such a wife to share your days with, just realize that simple human biological attatchment is worth significantly less than our sentience, and that exploring your interests using your human conscience always trumps biological desire.

Instead of stressing about blackpill, you need to leave it behind, and realize your inherent human potential to be something more than surface level. Basically the only reason why we are human is because we have the capacity of self-awareness, emotion, and thought. We all have a strong sense of logic or pattern recognition. You are simply ignoring your inherent human genetic gifts to rot away to your own self-standards. We are all disgracing the greatest gift, sentience.

Now, I am not saying to stop improving yourself, but simply hyperfixating on something so redundant to fulfillment in life will genuinely make every single second you've lived for nothing. You will find yourself on your deathbed with nothing but regret for your future years.

Get offline, please, and realise all of your potential. You weren't born to sit on this forum and rot away your brain. I know every single neurodivergent person on this forum has something they were obsessed with before they got into this. Simply detox your dopamine, and channel your energy into something that gives your life meaning. If you don't genuinely explore and develop your interests and passions, you are worth absolutely fucking nothing. You were made for this.

Also, hmu if u wanna have a convo

P.S. don't say DNR I spent time on this

A 3/10 in this com and leaving the site before killing themselves is comical

 

[niggero0]

whitepill is the way, innit?

 

[tato]

In my opinion, the blackpill only stems from deep personal insecurity. Although people do subconsciously judge you, it is entirely your choice whether you listen to those judging you or not. The blackpill tricks you into caring what those people think. This is central to why you all(and me) feel like shit 24/7.

It does this in a particular way, that being making people so obsessed over their outside appearance that they have no time to look into themselves. If I were say 4/10, maybe 5'7, and I was in college, thinking the reason I was being rejected was because of my approach or personality, I would be significantly more content with my life than if I knew the real reason behind it. After all, ignorance is bliss, and we've all seen what the blackpill does to people who truly take it.

The way to progress, meet the wife of your dreams, and seek fulfillment in our short lives is not from something as superficial as improving our appearance. Health should be a greater concern than anything you do to your outside body. The gift of living and breathing is simply something worth subsisting for. Lets use an example. Clavicular. Clav is the most brainwashed human being I've ever seen(aside from loox). He is genuinely taking meth to "suppress his appetite". He is willing to do everything in his power to be the most polished person he can be. However, this ignores something endemic to all things living.

We are not machines, we are not polished. Animals and living organisms move in a flowing onward behavior without burden(aside from most humans). We are meant to have an awkward moment or a kink or quirk about ourselves, that is what makes us human. When water flows and the cheetah sprints they do not care about hiccups in the way, they simply keep flowing or keep sprinting. Our human equivalent is our desire and drive to knowledge and discovery.

Let me bring something else up. Self esteem. Both me and you(yes you) have extremely low self esteem. This is because we compare ourselves to the most dimorphic or highest psl men ever. However, we have all fallen to the largest arrival fallacy possibly in modern history(aside from the rat race). Your life can only gain significant value upon developing your interests, your passions. David Gandy hates how he looks. Jordan Barrett hated his cheeks so much he deleted them. Sean O'Pry and Chico viewed himself as average. Haruma killed himself. The list goes on. Looks simply do not equate to fulfillment.

Now let me go back to clavicular. If any of you have ever watched his streams, you see he quickly looses interest or happiness in exciting moments. He seems generally relatively numb except for when he is using all of his energy to scream at his camera about bp. The meth, in combination with the extreme amount of slaying he does makes even the small moments laughing with friends seem boring and he becomes disillusioned. This is simply not a way to live your life. One, his life will be extremely short. Two, he is not genuinely happy. As humans we all have an acute emotional attention to detail upon other humans. You can genuinely see clavicular is not happy unless he is drunk.

Now, when we die, our brain lives on for another 5 minutes. In those 5 minutes, your brain puts you in a state of whatever you genuinely think happens after you die. For most people, it is about seeing what accomplishments or things they have achieved in their life. Would you rather be the sex-addicted LA streamer who does meth, whos only accomplishment is 100+ bodies and has his 18-29 year old life haunt him for his 29+ life, or a humble man who finds a woman that loves him, has maybe two or three kids, and lives a happy and simple life on professionalizing something hes good at, continuing his bloodline? If you would choose the first one, you seriously have become disillusioned with reality, and I recommend reading Immanuel Kant.

Every single one of you neurodivergent kids on this forum can accomplish something with their lives. The mere fact of our own consciousness makes us able to do incredible feats. The sheer fact that you were so online to the point that you found this forum proves that you can become invested and developed into something. Personally, the skills I like to develop are composing my own music, playing violin, studying quantum gravity, and speaking mandarin chinese(im white).

Every single life has an inherent potential to mold itself into something beautiful, instead of creating a glass cannon of a human being whos life genuinely means nothing. Now, you all might be thinking, b-but I wont find a wife and have kids because I'm chopped. Let me use an example.

John Nash, the man from the movie A Beautiful Mind(based on a true story). He was an unattractive guy, had severe mental issues(schizophrenia), but was extremely good at one thing in particular, that being math. He married a beautiful woman, who fell in love with his inside brilliance, not his outside beauty. She was genuinely obsessed with him(I linked a pic below of those two).

Every single person has the potential, if hyper-focused, to become great, just simply look at Feynman. An average guy, who put in serious effort and genuinely contributed to society.

Now, if you want to live a worthless life of fucking college girls in sororities and not the life of a nobel prize winning man at the top of his game you clearly are low iq. If you spent your early years doing all of this shit just to slay and hyperfixate on looksmaxxing and bp you will have nothing to look back upon, and you will live out your days of old age in regret. Also, guys who all they do is fuck random girls never have the opportunity to find a woman who truly fits them to marry. You should not be looking at the blond college girl wearing a corset and bunny ears on halloween to give you any sense of fulfillment. The girl that matches what most guys want on this forum deep down is one who stays out of sight and spends more time in the library than she does partying with her friends. I know that is what all of you secretly want.

Even if you never even find such a wife to share your days with, just realize that simple human biological attatchment is worth significantly less than our sentience, and that exploring your interests using your human conscience always trumps biological desire.

Instead of stressing about blackpill, you need to leave it behind, and realize your inherent human potential to be something more than surface level. Basically the only reason why we are human is because we have the capacity of self-awareness, emotion, and thought. We all have a strong sense of logic or pattern recognition. You are simply ignoring your inherent human genetic gifts to rot away to your own self-standards. We are all disgracing the greatest gift, sentience.

Now, I am not saying to stop improving yourself, but simply hyperfixating on something so redundant to fulfillment in life will genuinely make every single second you've lived for nothing. You will find yourself on your deathbed with nothing but regret for your future years.

Get offline, please, and realise all of your potential. You weren't born to sit on this forum and rot away your brain. I know every single neurodivergent person on this forum has something they were obsessed with before they got into this. Simply detox your dopamine, and channel your energy into something that gives your life meaning. If you don't genuinely explore and develop your interests and passions, you are worth absolutely fucking nothing. You were made for this.

Also, hmu if u wanna have a convo

P.S. don't say DNR I spent time on this

dnr

 

[fishcooasnodjodjdj]

Would you go for a 4-5/10 who had a "good personality" when you could get an 7/10 who had an "ok personality", that's the choice a lot of girls have, and throw in the fact they don't find guys under a 6/10 remotely attractive, why in the world would they ever choose a sub 5. How many girls have you heard say "omg i wish i couldve been alive earlier and married albert einstein" as opposed to some 60s hearthrob celebrity.
Regarding the statistic, did you understand what I said?
I forgot the numbers but the idea is something like
80% of men 40+ who are under 5'6" in the US are unmarried
while 10% of men 40+ who are over 6' in the US are unmarried

yeah its an extreme example to show the point that people can still be fulfilled being promiscuous. And it doesn't matter if he contributed anything cuz we're talking about his mental state.

Brain is also genetic, and again, why would you choose a 5/10 looks with a 10/10 personality, if you could get a 7/10 in looks with a 10/10 personality. No one, not even you no matter how hard you try to convince yourself, doesn't care about looks when dating. It's human nature to reproduce with the best genetics.

what do you mean "something youre not"? Hardmaxxing helps people look better and improves their lives, in dating and otherwise. Just because you look different than your genetics doesn't mean it's morally wrong or something.

betabuxxing happens to 6/10s
95% of women have to settle with someone less than they wanted and thought they would end up with
and betabuxxing doesn't have to be literal or intentional, there's a reason there's an epidemic of dead bedrooms throughout the west

First of all, it is impossible to look exactly into the minds of other people, especially on a wide scale. Also, your comparison is redundant because there is no black and white definition for how ‘good’ or ‘bad’ a personality is because when a genuine girl wants to meet you they assess your entire person. Personality only accounts for the ways in which you respond and act to your social environment, not for what you do in the meantime. Also, the girls you want would choose the personality over the looks because girls who are good hearted and think prudently realize that a boring 7/10 is much worse for their kids than a 5/10 with a good personality is. The girls that ignore this aren’t the girls you want anyway.

And yes, people can be fulfilled while being promiscuous, but that only happens to the top .1% of men and is therefore functionally redundant to the reality of most people on earth. I will call such fulfillment blissful fulfillment because one who lives their life simply can be fulfilled quite easily. However, most people on earth get fulfillment from accomplishment or developed passion not blissful promiscuity.

Yes it is human nature and I’m not ignoring that. Obviously looks do play a big role but again, this thread was supposed to be about fulfillment, not personality vs looks. It seems it’s moving towards the latter so it might be time to call it quits. Anyways, there is no such thing as an X/10 personality. There can only be different personalities. And, again, personality is simply about your social interaction. What I am saying is that your entire person would be so well developed and concrete if you truly developed your interests that you wouldn’t even need personality in the first place. Girls want a good father for their kids, not a genetic masterpiece. And again, the girls that want the latter are superficial and nearsighted, not the girls you want.

Hardmaxxing is morally wrong to me because instead of living up to your own personal genetic potential, you modify yourself so that you are no longer you. You are no longer an exact expression of your genetics. You are no longer you.

Betabuxxing≠problems in the bedroom. Problems in the bedroom are because of a lack of dimorphism in sexuality because of declining testosterone. If two people are in love with each other they each have an inherent living ability to express themselves as a man or a woman. The issue is that neither of this happens. Your woman is more attracted to you when you act like a man. Even if you are hideous and 5’4, if you lay it down on her like a real man she will say “I love my short king”. Betabuxxing is because men have low test, not necessarily because they are chopped. Yes being chopped is an undeniably sizable part in it but even if you were chopped you could still have kids and a wife and if Betabuxxing happens at least you have the gift of children.

If a woman does not want children simply break up with her. The reason everyone is so blackpilled is because we are all(yes all of us) low test. We blame our failures on something wrong with the opposing team, not exploiting the rules.

 

[fishcooasnodjodjdj]

A 3/10 in this com and leaving the site before killing themselves is comical

Unfortunately yes but it is still possible

 

[jestercookievicular]

dnr

 

[VirginByChoice1]

First of all, it is impossible to look exactly into the minds of other people, especially on a wide scale. Also, your comparison is redundant because there is no black and white definition for how ‘good’ or ‘bad’ a personality is because when a genuine girl wants to meet you they assess your entire person. Personality only accounts for the ways in which you respond and act to your social environment, not for what you do in the meantime. Also, the girls you want would choose the personality over the looks because girls who are good hearted and think prudently realize that a boring 7/10 is much worse for their kids than a 5/10 with a good personality is. The girls that ignore this aren’t the girls you want anyway.

Would you rather date a 7/10 (top 1% looks) who has an ok personality or a 5/10 (top 50% looks) who has a good personality, btw in this scenario you don’t find the 5/10 attractive.
Obviously by rating personality I’m talking about how much you would like them.

If you wouldn’t choose the 5/10, then why would a girl choose a 5/10 if she has the option to get better? If you would, you’re lying to yourself to cope

And yes, people can be fulfilled while being promiscuous, but that only happens to the top .1% of men and is therefore functionally redundant to the reality of most people on earth. I will call such fulfillment blissful fulfillment because one who lives their life simply can be fulfilled quite easily. However, most people on earth get fulfillment from accomplishment or developed passion not blissful promiscuity.

it’s not the top .1%
especially if we’re just talking about sex before marriage, not promiscuity
A majority of 50 year olds today, fucked around in their teens and adulthood then got married, and most don’t feel unfulfilled

Yes it is human nature and I’m not ignoring that. Obviously looks do play a big role but again, this thread was supposed to be about fulfillment, not personality vs looks. It seems it’s moving towards the latter so it might be time to call it quits. Anyways, there is no such thing as an X/10 personality. There can only be different personalities. And, again, personality is simply about your social interaction. What I am saying is that your entire person would be so well developed and concrete if you truly developed your interests that you wouldn’t even need personality in the first place. Girls want a good father for their kids, not a genetic masterpiece. And again, the girls that want the latter are superficial and nearsighted, not the girls you want.

I’m saying that ALL girls (and guys) want good genetics in a partner subconsciously, they can’t control it. And many people would say if they didn’t get married and have a partner who loved them, they wouldn’t be fulfilled. So if you’re ugly, theres a much lower chance of you getting married, therefore a much lower chance of being fulfilled.

Hardmaxxing is morally wrong to me because instead of living up to your own personal genetic potential, you modify yourself so that you are no longer you. You are no longer an exact expression of your genetics. You are no longer you.

Why do your genes have to be an exact expression of you? That’s like saying, if you’re born into poverty, you’re not allowed to get rich because that’s not really you. It makes no sense.

Betabuxxing≠problems in the bedroom. Problems in the bedroom are because of a lack of dimorphism in sexuality because of declining testosterone. If two people are in love with each other they each have an inherent living ability to express themselves as a man or a woman. The issue is that neither of this happens. Your woman is more attracted to you when you act like a man. Even if you are hideous and 5’4, if you lay it down on her like a real man she will say “I love my short king”. Betabuxxing is because men have low test, not necessarily because they are chopped. Yes being chopped is an undeniably sizable part in it but even if you were chopped you could still have kids and a wife and if Betabuxxing happens at least you have the gift of children.

That’s the whole point, she WONT love you if she’s not attracted to you. And saying she’ll be happy if you fuck her good even if you’re 5’4” and hideous is some retarded red pill cope
Betabuxxing is when she cheats on you because she needs sexual satisfaction from somewhere else. Would you be satisfied if a 300 lb woman fucked you really good? Would you be attracted to her like “omg I love my island whale”

If a woman does not want children simply break up with her. The reason everyone is so blackpilled is because we are all(yes all of us) low test. We blame our failures on something wrong with the opposing team, not exploiting the rules.

Saying that this generation is low test is misleading. Sure the average has gone down a bit, but it’s still in the normal range. As in, there were many many people back 100 years ago with the average test level today

You can’t exploit the rules if they’re stacked against you

 

[GoErOnFoids]

Interesting dnr THREAD…

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Read every word. Very good post