Every guy needs one thing that makes him distinct or irreplaceable.

[Dbeyduvudhs]

For some guys that’s a very good facial bone structure.

Others it’s height.

Others it’s insane good body / status from some career related to that.

For most of us normies of average height and face we must create it.

The solution is some distinct colorful hair with a stylish haircut - or cool tattoos combined with jewelry.

Or some type of hipster artistic clothing and instagram

The problem with most guys is that they fail to differentiate themselves. They hide in anonymity

Differentiation takes courage

 

[Deleted member 26824]

i thought this was gonna be a personality thread

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

Other men can differentiate with money or status.

The point here is there has to be SOME REASON FOR A GIRL TO CHOOSE YOU

imagine going to a restaurant for the first time where you have a endless sea of options.

You’re only going to choose a particular dish because it “catches your eye” with some unique thing

 

[Dbeyduvudhs]

i thought this was gonna be a personality thread

It’s risky and usually bad to differentiate with personality.

It runs the risk of being “creepy:weird”

People are much more lenient with appearing unique than behaving unique.

Unique behavior is almost always scary and or bad.