Every man must build himself up in his own mind

[Deleted member 16501]

To make his purpose more compelling so he stays on it

yet you guys tear yourselves down on here
and are far away from your purpose

and you wonder why you feel depressed every day?

 

[Mr Test]

and you wonder why you feel depressed every day?

No, I don’t wonder about it

 

[Deleted member 25059]

then there are many here that they built up to the clouds in their own heads

 

[Danish_Retard]

Delusionally building yourself up is not a solution

As soon as reality hits you it's OVER for you.

The real solution is seperating your identity from uncontrollable externals such as looks or wealth.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Delusionally building yourself up is not a solution

As soon as reality hits you it's OVER for you.

The real solution is seperating your identity from uncontrollable externals such as looks or wealth.

I tried that for 10 years, only fucked up my life further.

It's not the way out. It always ends and you then have to face reality

The reality for YOU right now is that it's not exactly OVER for you, but if you fuck around for a decade or two and do nothing, it may almost be then.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Delusionally building yourself up is not a solution

Why not? I think narcy people are probably the most happy in the modern world ngl.

Seperating your identity like you say is going to lead to social isolation in most cases as most people will always value externals such as looks/wealth and will judge you on that. If you don't value those things, it leads to social incompatibility tbh.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Why not? I think narcy people are probably the most happy in the modern world ngl.

Seperating your identity like you say is going to lead to social isolation in most cases as most people will always value externals such as looks/wealth and will judge you on that. If you don't value those things, it leads to social incompatibility tbh.

you are starting to get enlightened
you're aware of the spiritual warrior's path: face it all, total awareness