Every year of my life is wasted

[Deleted member 19442]

wtf

 

[Melkor]

The older you get, the more you're gonna wish the preceding year was the year you stopped wasting it

 

[john2]

90% of people in this world are background characters who don't and can't do anything significant.

Sit down at a desk, write down what you truly wish to do in life. Describe your ideal life in detail if you can. And try visiting this written note once every week. If you see yourself changing your concept of your ideal life or what you want to become in the future, then don't stress too much. Success is subjective for the most part. However things like becoming rich and having lots of free time imo are objective goals that are 'success', as one of the key definitions of success for most normal humans is to be able to have plenty of time and resources. So i'd suggest you focus on working on these broad/common goals even if your ideals or your own concept of your ideal life that you'd like to live in the future is changing every month.

You've only got one life, so figure out what you truly want to do in your life before actually working hard and getting stuff done. Because working hard and putting in lots of time, money and effort into reaching a common goal that you personally don't want is not success or 'making the best out of your life'.