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I understand that pain. That's where I was at for most of my life. That's why I'm deciding to leave home.
How did you fix it? How do you make friends?

I’m stuck like OP…
 
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How did you fix it? How do you make friends?

I’m stuck like OP…
You have to learn to make your own space/vibe/aesthetic. Learn to keep yourself busy with some hobbies. (for example I read books and I make quick summaries via google docs, then print them out and put them in a folder, so that I can have a quick glance at whatever material I was reading about. I've been doing this and plan to do this with Robert Greene books. Another hobby I have been doing is getting into more ambient music and more new genres of music or new artist like Cult Member for example.)

I never had real friends, despite having been very charismatic and liked my whole life, it was inevitable that I realized that one day everyone would've came to hate me, lose interest in me, or simply dislike me.

I'm planning to travel the world now at 19. I quit my job, saved some money, and booked a flight to Belgium for the 17th of this month.

If you have any more question, you can go ahead and ask.
 
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You have to learn to make your own space/vibe/aesthetic. Learn to keep yourself busy with some hobbies. (for example I read books and I make quick summaries via google docs, then print them out and put them in a folder, so that I have a quick glance at whatever material i was reading about. I've been doing this and plan to do this with Robert Greene books. Another hobby I have been doing is getting into more ambient music and more new genres of music or new artist like Cult Member for example.)

I never had real friends, despite having been very charismatic and liked my whole life, yet it was inevitable that I realized that one day everyone would've came to hate me, lose interest in me, or simply dislike me.

I'm planning to travel the world now at 19. I quit my job, saved some money, and booked a flight to Belgium for the 17th of this month.

If you have any more question, you can go ahead and ask.
Damn bro, meet up?

I’m 20, quit my job and started an online business and that takes my whole day so I don’t really need hobbies I guess.

But I lost all my friends because I didn’t really care at the time but now I do.
 
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Damn bro, meet up?

I’m 20, quit my job and started an online business and that takes my whole day so I don’t really need hobbies I guess.

But I lost all my friends because I didn’t really care at the time but now I do.
Yeah that would be cool, where you from?

What kind of business do you run? I got this type of business idea in mind I plan to start very soon, but I'm still in the process of brainstorming.
 
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Yeah that would be cool, where you from?

What kind of business do you run? I got this type of business idea in mind I plan to start very soon, but I'm still in the process of brainstorming.
Can’t say much on the Business, but we could legit meet up some day.

I’m free other than work and have some money to spare even tho I’m making only slightly above a normal wage
 
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Can’t say much on the Business, but we could legit meet up some day.

I’m free other than work and have some money to spare even tho I’m making only slightly above a normal wage
Are you in Europe or...?
 
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Making friends nowadays after you finish school is impossible
 
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Same my Friends moved on i only have one friend i keep Contact with he moved the another state but we videochat sometimes im all alone now I still have my parents but no Friends.
 

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