Everything reminds me of my loneliness

[Zenis]

In today's society, literally any way you could choose to distract yourself reminds you that ultimately, you are an alien disconnected from your tribe.

anytime i watch a movie about anything im reminded by how shit my life is, If I read a book I'm reminded of how boring my life is, if i watch something that has a couple in it, it reminds of how ive missed out on having a girlfriend and how im a fucking incel.

i feel like its impossible to forgot that your alone when everything reminds you of it

 

[Zenis]

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[greycel]

What's so bad if you are?
You can only ever be truly reliant on yourself

Find & Fix who you are

 

[Zenis]

What's so bad if you are?

i just feel like im missing something, so many times just feel empty or have some kind of cortisol spike thinking of it

 

[Eltrē]

What's so bad if you are?
You can only ever be truly reliant on yourself

Find & Fix who you are

Because it's a basic human need.... you literally start to deteriorate when lonely, both mentally and physically.

 

[greycel]

Because it's a basic human need.... you literally start to deteriorate when lonely, both mentally and physically.

I've personally only grown ever since I've entered a state of solitude, both mentally & physically
Reason I mentioned this to OP is because like 99% of normies, people jump into responsibilities (relationships/buying a pet/etc) overlooking their flaws/ thinking their flaws will get fixed

He's got to be fully content with himself before sharing himself with another

 

[Eltrē]

I've personally only grown ever since I've entered a state of solitude, both mentally & physically
Reason I mentioned this to OP is because like 99% of normies, people jump into responsibilities (relationships/buying a pet/etc) overlooking their flaws/ thinking their flaws will get fixed

He's got to be fully content with himself before sharing himself with another

That's fair enough but you still have to pay attention to the fact that regardless of how you feel about the loneliness, your health will get worse.

It's not a matter of mindset or beliefs, it's a matter of biology.

 

[nobodylovesme]

How about instead of watching that romance movie, you go talk to the females or just try to make friends?

 

[Zenis]

How about instead of watching that romance movie, you go talk to the females or just try to make friends?

ive never watched a romance specfic movie in my life, its just almost every sort of media has some kind of romance in it

 

[Arbuscular]

I was watching some movie about a guy that wants to kill himself but can't for some reason and halfway I was like: wow literally me

But then he got a girlfriend

 

[JustCallMeKash]

In today's society, literally any way you could choose to distract yourself reminds you that ultimately, you are an alien disconnected from your tribe.

anytime i watch a movie about anything im reminded by how shit my life is, If I read a book I'm reminded of how boring my life is, if i watch something that has a couple in it, it reminds of how ive missed out on having a girlfriend and how im a fucking incel.

i feel like its impossible to forgot that your alone when everything reminds you of it

Your brain sees what you believe if u focus on how lonely you are you'll feel lonely as a result u control ur reality u can literally choose how u want to feel

 

[Zenis]

I was watching some movie about a guy that wants to kill himself but can't for some reason and halfway I was like: wow literally me

But then he got a girlfriend

yeah you think for once you find a form of media you can relate to but boom some shit like that happens

 

[Zenis]

Your brain sees what you believe if u focus on how lonely you are you'll feel lonely as a result u control ur reality u can literally choose how u want to fell

i cant change that

 

[JustCallMeKash]

i cant change that

Ur doing it rn by believing this ur stopping urself from being happy

Ur thoughts shape ur actions and ur actions shape your reality

 

[Zenis]

Ur doing it rn by believing this ur stopping urself from being happy

Ur thoughts shape ur actions and ur actions shape your reality

so what do i think to myself

 

[JustCallMeKash]

so what do i think to myself

Jst lie to urself that ur not lonely and ur happy and in turn ull feel these emotions for real, but I honestly would jsr recommene u fix the root cause of this problem, but this works if ur too depressed to fix the problems rn

 

[JustCallMeKash]

Jst lie to urself that ur not lonely and ur happy and in turn ull feel these emotions for real, but I honestly would jsr recommene u fix the root cause of this problem, but this works if ur too depressed to fix the problems rn

Just have hope when u have hope and truly believe that no matter what u will have a happy and good life then nothing will take away ur joy thats the easiest way I can explain it

 

[Zenis]

Jst lie to urself that ur not lonely and ur happy and in turn ull feel these emotions for real, but I honestly would jsr recommene u fix the root cause of this problem, but this works if ur too depressed to fix the problems rn

how long does it take for the fake emotions to feel real

 

[JustCallMeKash]

how long does it take for the fake emotions to feel real

I can do it instantly, but they become real and stay that way aslong as u see urself as someone who will become successful and acheive everything u want

 

[Zenis]

I can do it instantly, but they become real and stay that way aslong as u see urself as someone who will become successful and acheive everything u want

doesn't hurt to try

 

[JustCallMeKash]

I was delulu enough to believe ts cuz I hvae a massive ego so I believed in myself with no proof because I believed I started taking action and as a result it became reality, so i guess the easiest way to believe is to start taking action towards what u want cuz in action comes confidence and with confidence ull believe

 

[JustCallMeKash]

I was delulu enough to believe ts cuz I hvae a massive ego so I believed in myself with no proof because I believed I started taking action and as a result it became reality, so i guess the easiest way to believe is to start taking action towards what u want cuz in action comes confidence and with confidence ull believe

In short lock in

 

[Zenis]

I was delulu enough to believe ts cuz I hvae a massive ego so I believed in myself with no proof because I believed I started taking action and as a result it became reality, so i guess the easiest way to believe is to start taking action towards what u want cuz in action comes confidence and with confidence ull believe

its somewhat worked already. told myself im happy and im feeling it

 

[Eltrē]

how long does it take for the fake emotions to feel real