Ex cheated I feel really awful

[Xul1ll]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

DNR
Foids are evil

 

[Eskorbutin]

If you think you're gonna marry her in the first years she's gonna cheat on you

 

[Xul1ll]

DNR
Foids are evil

Only the ones with dad issues

 

[Xul1ll]

If you think you're gonna marry her in the first years she's gonna cheat on you

How do you figure this man?

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

There's nothing you can do, that could be considered a good decision... All you can do is minimize the effects of any decision

 

[nekv]

Ropefuel, I'm sorry for your loss bro

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

How do you figure this man?

I mean... the internet created the 3 month rule for a reason

 

[Eskorbutin]

How do you figure this man?

They give you extra especial treatment if the know they're dumping you, that way they can feel better with themselves. It only takes some time for them to be convinced you are the one or worth staying.

 

[TrueBlueJew]

The first thing you did wrong was try to have an actual relationship with a femalien, breed and leave is the strat

 

[Xul1ll]

I mean... the internet created the 3 month rule for a reason

Inst that not what the 3 month rule is or I'm confused mb

 

[Xul1ll]

They give you extra especial treatment if the know they're dumping you, that way they can feel better with themselves. It only takes some time for them to be convinced you are the one or worth staying.

Shit dawg that does kinda make sense. But what if your friends with them before hand and they treated you just as good?

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

Inst that not what the 3 month rule is or I'm confused mb

3 months of a great relationship [in this case its usually longer obv] and you feel like you are gonna get married

but then disaster strikes

 

[Xul1ll]

3 months of a great relationship [in this case its usually longer obv] and you feel like you are gonna get married

but then disaster strikes

I thought it was if you last 3 months you might last forever. Jfl now I think about it that makes no sense bro mb

 

[Ascensionsoon]

Best you can do is focus on yourself and move on man, I would say wait and figure out your feelings first before moving onto the other chick, but fuck your ex dude don't get stuck on her and get past those feelings asap, she's a bitch and whore for doing that.

 

[Xul1ll]

The first thing you did wrong was try to have an actual relationship with a femalien, breed and leave is the strat

Man just stfu please.

 

[ashmeer]

I feel so bad for u

 

[Xul1ll]

Best you can do is focus on yourself and move on man, I would say wait and figure out your feelings first before moving onto the other chick, but fuck your ex dude don't get stuck on her and get past those feelings asap, she's a bitch and whore for doing that.

Thankyou for the honest response bro much love

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

I thought it was if you last 3 months you might last forever. Jfl now I think about it that makes no sense bro mb

In a sense, that's very possible

But most likely that's the 8 month rule

 

[Throw_Away]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

You have to learn early on that you can never be "committed" or "in love" with a foid unless you're absolutely sure of who she is and have known her for years and even then they might just cheat on you for no reason lol. whichever party cares less always wins in a relationship

 

[Xul1ll]

In a sense, that's very possible

But most likely that's the 8 month rule

We were tg for 9

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

We were tg for 9

you get the point man!!

 

[ashmeer]

We were tg for 9

are u facially attractive

 

[Xul1ll]

you get the point man!!

yes bro yes

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

 

[Throw_Away]

are u facially attractive

how's that a question lol if he was chad she'd never cheat on him

 

[ashmeer]

how's that a question lol if he was chad she'd never cheat on him

foids can even cheat on chads

 

[Throw_Away]

foids can even cheat on chads

Not if the chad knows how to act in a relationship. and either way chad wont gaf because he has infinite more options. but cmon bro its obvious in this case lol

 

[Xul1ll]

Not if the chad knows how to act in a relationship. and either way chad wont gaf because he has infinite more options. but cmon bro its obvious in this case lol

Nah I'm ngl that's just not true

 

[Sacrimoon]

Cannon event. Foids can really be evil, even though they always call themselfes the “empathetic gender”

But i’m a little skeptical about the “this is not a rebound” part. Nigga you literally made a huge thread talking about how you hate what she did to you, i’m pretty sure everything rn would be a rebound

 

[Sacrimoon]

There's nothing you can do, that could be considered a good decision... All you can do is minimize the effects of any decision

Tuff name gng icl can’t lie

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

Tuff name gng icl can’t lie

tbh tbh be honest is it a good 1 one or not

 

[Xul1ll]

Cannon event. Foids can really be evil, even though they always call themselfes the “empathetic gender”
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But i’m a little skeptical about the “this is not a rebound” part. Nigga you literally made a huge thread talking about how you hate what she did to you, i’m pretty sure everything rn would be a rebound

Shit I mean that's probably why I feel slightly guilty about it. But I feel like I would hoenstly have dated this new girl at any point in my life. I'll wait it out beucase I don't what the new girl to feel bad at all and feel like a rebound, but hoenstly Idek. Your honest thankyou.

 

[Throw_Away]

Nah I'm ngl that's just not true

what part of it is untrue and disagreeable? can you show me 1 case of a non-attached chad getting cheated on by a woman he actually cares about and is in love with? (yes obviously exceptions exist but still lol)

 

[Throw_Away]

Nah I'm ngl that's just not true

Yeah exceptions exist ig bro but on average chad is not getting cheated on lol he gets true lovepill

 

[Xul1ll]

what part of it is untrue and disagreeable? can you show me 1 case of a non-attached chad getting cheated on by a woman he actually cares about and is in love with? (yes obviously exceptions exist but still lol)

You just said show me an example and then agreed that it does exist?

 

[lemonnz]

I had a similar experience, she liked me first and she had imperfections but I was so in love in my head she was perfect in every way but she broke tf out of my heart, left me for some shorter chopped dude, and talked bad about me behind my back all because I was “boring”

Moral of the story is love doesn’t exist and the better you treat a girl the worse she treats you

This happened in Demember of last year and I still haven’t recovered even though I talked to “badder” bitches I might never be able to love someone like that again

 

[lemonnz]

Yeah exceptions exist ig bro but on average chad is not getting cheated on lol he gets true lovepill

Nah I keep seeing this one tall chad on tiktok who’s wife cheated on him you can tell he is hurt af, its sad to see but it shows that giving your feelings to a girl is the riskiest shit and she will cheat on her depending on her mood because thats how girls are emotional creatures


Just go through his tiktok he got cheated a while ago but every post is about it in some way

 

[Xul1ll]

Nah I keep seeing this one tall chad on tiktok who’s wife cheated on him you can tell he is hurt af, its sad to see but it shows that giving your feelings to a girl is the riskiest shit and she will cheat on her depending on her mood because thats how girls are emotional creatures


Just go through his tiktok he got cheated a while ago but every post is about it in some way

Thankyou for this bro

 

[Throw_Away]

You just said show me an example and then agreed that it does exist?

Upon further reconsideration I changed my mind

 

[Xul1ll]

Upon further reconsideration I changed my mind

Yeah bro all good

 

[orthognathic]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

 

[sick kunt31]

 

[Mazilias]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

Happend to me too man, just gym idk more sorry man

 

[incelincel]

sorry for you

 

[Nikolas Romanov]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

I'm so sorry bro it fucking sucks. Same thing happened to me even though i'm like 99% sure i mog him?? Dont reproduce with evil foids, they'll always be corrupted.

 

[ascension]

Girls your age aren't looking to settle down with one guy and then in the future marry him.

Girls operate a clear dating strategy. Fuck guys they're attracted to in their younger years, THEN settle down with a normie.

That's where you went wrong, thinking some chick was gonna stay loyal when she's in her prime and knows she can fuck around, then find a beta provider in 15 years time.

 

[IzDrizSub5]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

move on and then hang with her, you cant choose when to get over someone so be patient

 

[kisslessvirgin]

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.

ova boyo

 

[whateverittakes245]

I was seeing this girl for nine months. I put up with alot alot if bullshit from her like stuff that could've been cheating but it probably wasn't and I chose to belvie her everytime.

I was maybe the happiest I've ever been in my entire life about 1 month ago. I loved her so much, I actually thought that I was going to marry this girl.

Its going to sound cringe but I didn't even look at other girls with lust, I didn't want them. I just wanted her. For everything forever.

I went on a school camp, and on this camp a girl told me that she had cheated on me, long story short it was true.

I litteraly started bawling my eyes out in front of like 30 people from school -complete bitch for doing it like that then in front of everyone.

I didn't know what to do.

I waited to message her beucase I didn't know what to say.
I didn't tell her I knew for three days.
When she messaged me that she knew I was upset about her school trip.

I was on the bus, coincidently sitting behind this girl who told me.

She had kissed a 6'3 htn on her school trip.
They were both drunk together and it happened.
I don't know if they did more.
It doesn't really matter if they did more.
I was finally starting to feel good about how I look.
I can barely fucking look at myself in the mirror anymore.

What the fuck did I do to deserve this, I stayed completely loyal to her the entire time. I fucking hate her so much.

Everytime I think about what happened I just get an overwhelming sense of like remorse and guilt I don't even understand it.

So then I thought maybe I would realise that I have some form of self worth if I tried to move on and go out with a different girl.

And I want to add this new girl is not a rebound I really really do like her alot.

Today I had one of the best days of my life. This new girl who I always kind of liked even before I met my ex. We have a lot in common. We went to study together and then ate goyslop and watched the sunset. I walked her home and said goodngiht.

It was really nice.

And I do really like her.

And sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we dated. But I get so up inside my head about it and I just can't think that will ever happen.

All due to my ex cheating on me.

How the fuck am I supposed to live knowing I was nothing that night.

All her absoulute fucking bullshit compliments and everything we did together.

Completely fake.
How am I supposed to trust someone with my heart like that?

I don't know what to do boys I just need some sort of anti depressant advice.

I really really do like this other girl but I fear she is way out of my league and she's older then me, so she probably thinks that were more like friends?

And I feel like guilty to even try in a way, like I should wait before I try and move on?

But I just don't want to make anyone feel sad so I just don't know what to do.

I really really do like this girl. But I feel like trying to hangout with her while I still have some feelings for my ex is wired and a gross thing to do

I need some advice love you boys.

Long rant sorry.

Dnr
But hope you get better bro, same shit happened to me recently, yeah it's hard