Ex-NEETS and ex-manchildren how did you break out

[Luquier]

And fix your life? Looking for ppl who were losers in their early 20s then turned things around

 

[Deleted member 153838]

Nobody breaks free from the manchild life

 

[Luquier]

Nobody breaks free from the manchild life

Man teenager is my goal

At manbaby level Rn

 

[green_fn_2033]

And fix your life? Looking for ppl who were losers in their early 20s then turned things around

Unless you ascended somehow throughout your early 20s, nothing is gonna change for you. You just slip further from your biological prime. Your social life typically shrinks as you get older and the selection of women you have become shitter. Money is probably the only thing that can meaningfully change your life at this point. I'm approaching my mid 20s and many of my "friends" are also similarly aged so I'm just telling you the patterns I see.

 

[FredoEstelar]

I'm not a NEET, but I have a manchild-like lifestyle. I will keep it that way for now.

 

[Luquier]

Unless you ascended somehow throughout your early 20s, nothing is gonna change for you. You just slip further from your biological prime. Your social life typically shrinks as you get older and the selection of women you have become shitter. Money is probably the only thing that can meaningfully change your life at this point. I'm approaching my mid 20s and many of my "friends" are also similarly aged so I'm just telling you the patterns I see.

I don’t care about women, can just jerk off or escorts. Friends don’t matter either. I mean in general (fixing laziness and living a decent life alone)

 

[Mandibular0]

got into my dream uni bc of luck and ascended while doing the first semester

 

[gymceltard]

Unless you ascended somehow throughout your early 20s, nothing is gonna change for you. You just slip further from your biological prime. Your social life typically shrinks as you get older and the selection of women you have become shitter. Money is probably the only thing that can meaningfully change your life at this point. I'm approaching my mid 20s and many of my "friends" are also similarly aged so I'm just telling you the patterns I see.

Yup social circles die out, socialization opportunities disappear.

In highschool and college you’re surrounded by people your same age, same class level, and the gender ratio is 50:50 which is insane. You will never have that again.

When you get a career you will be surrounded by old men and old women who are like 40+. And if you do a male dominated career your coworkers will be 90% men inflating every womans SMV naturally.

At my old security guard job a fat Pajeeta was hyper simped by every man at the job because she was the only female there. Life and dating get more bad as you age.

 

[isis_Bleach]

im on that arc rn ill tell u how i make it out

 

[STAMPEDE]

You can't escape the NEET life if you've ever been a NEET btw. It will follow you for the rest of your life

 

[rapelover3]

You don't "break free" you get forced into the system by your parents

 

[Deleted member 234348]

 

[SplashJuice]

I was never a NEET but I had turbulent phases in my life.

You crawl out not by changing everything at once.

You do incremental changes, one thing at a time.

Over two years it'll accumulate into a massive difference.

 

[gymceltard]

I was never a NEET but I had turbulent phases in my life.

You crawl out not by changing everything at once.

You do incremental changes, one thing at a time.

Over two years it'll accumulate into a massive difference.

How. What specific steps did you take?

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

And fix your life? Looking for ppl who were losers in their early 20s then turned things around

I just stopped caring about small things at 16. Simply happened.

 

[Matthias8272]

Currently trying to find medications that work for motivation and anxiety then I'm going to volunteer for a retail job to learn basic social skills (probably won't get employed for paid work with no work experience) and try to rekindle high school friendships. Also starting fresh with another degree next year after stopping another one

Yet to break out of it but that's what I'm going to try

 

[gymceltard]

Currently trying to find medications that work for motivation and anxiety then I'm going to volunteer for a retail job to learn basic social skills (probably won't get employed for paid work with no work experience) and try to rekindle high school friendships. Also starting fresh with another degree next year after stopping another one

Yet to break out of it but that's what I'm going to try

Why volunteer? If you live in America there’s many jobs constantly hiring.

 

[swt]

At manbaby level Rn

how so? curious to know

 

[Matthias8272]

Why volunteer? If you live in America there’s many jobs constantly hiring.

I'm from NZ, asian/indian immigrants are taking a shit ton of the entry level jobs and most aren't hiring, teens are struggling to get part time work in retail while in school so a early 20s guy with no experience has no chance. 100s of applications for each role

 

[gymceltard]

I'm from NZ, asian/indian immigrants are taking a shit ton of the entry level jobs and most aren't hiring, teens are struggling to get part time work in retail while in school so a early 20s guy with no experience has no chance. 100s of applications for each role

Brutal. Same here in Canada, but I managed to get a job at UPS delivery driver, then I quit and got another job at FedEx warehouse worker which I quit because there was too many ethnics at my job

Try applying for seasonal warehouse jobs at FedEx or UPS if you niggas have those companies I got hired really easily.

Also aren’t there lots of fly in fly out high paying mining shit in Australia? I see those videos online a lot.

 

[romanstock]

I'm a very mature NEET.

 

[FiendFiend]

And fix your life? Looking for ppl who were losers in their early 20s then turned things around

i broke out of being a NEET for like a good year , does my shit count or nah?

 

[Matthias8272]

Brutal. Same here in Canada, but I managed to get a job at UPS delivery driver, then I quit and got another job at FedEx warehouse worker which I quit because there was too many ethnics at my job

Try applying for seasonal warehouse jobs at FedEx or UPS if you niggas have those companies I got hired really easily.

Also aren’t there lots of fly in fly out high paying mining shit in Australia? I see those videos online a lot.

Every driver who delivers anything to my house (and my family orders a lot) has been Chinese or indian.

And yeah Ive heard of the mining jobs but they're super brutal and people don't last long in those roles, also idk how easy they are to get now that they're more well known. I have welfare though and live at home so I don't care for the money from getting some volunteer/retail job more so for the social interaction

 

[gymceltard]

Every driver who delivers anything to my house (and my family orders a lot) has been Chinese or indian.

And yeah Ive heard of the mining jobs but they're super brutal and people don't last long in those roles, also idk how easy they are to get now that they're more well known. I have welfare though and live at home so I don't care for the money from getting some volunteer/retail job more so for the social interaction

How much money does welfare pay? If you already got money from that you are good bro. I would socialize by getting hobbies, or meeting girls on dating apps for dates as social practice.

 

[Matthias8272]

How much money does welfare pay? If you already got money from that you are good bro. I would socialize by getting hobbies, or meeting girls on dating apps for dates as social practice.

It's pretty shit, I think it's around the same as working 20 hours per week minimum wage. But yeah better than nothing, but I'm trying to get a degree and work eventually, plus also socialize

 

[TiktokUser]

It's pretty shit, I think it's around the same as working 20 hours per week minimum wage. But yeah better than nothing, but I'm trying to get a degree and work eventually, plus also socialize

are you black by any chance