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Look at this girl giving tips for guys after a breakup. She is a Girl. She had tons of breakups with chad. She should know what to do will some people think. Wrong. Look at this video.
Now let’s look at the FIRST argument.
What’s meant to be is meant to be.
That’s a girl way of thinking of things cuz everything always got catered towards them. What’s meant to be is meant to be is the same as saying the rent is gonna pay itself. Wrong. Someone goes to work, gets a loan and pays for the house you live in. Just cuz you dont see the effort doesn’t mean there is none.
Guys usually have a „if you want something work for it“ mentality meanwhile a lot of girls have the „what’s meant to be is meant to be“ mentality. Why? Cuz someone HAS to do it and guys are brought up to be the investors and girls the receiver.
What’s meant to be is meant to be is just the inability and ignorance to see that others putting in effort. If no one talks to no one cuz it’s “meant to be” guess what. No one will ever meet anyone. Also not rebuild a relationship if that’s what you want.
She is right on the not begging part tho. Have self respect.
Argument two. Don’t sleep around cuz you will lose self respect.
Again a woman’s perspective. A guys value increases the more he sleeps around. A woman’s value decreases if she is seen as a slut who sleeps around a lot. The goals of the genders are different due to the different accessibility. If a woman could ONS tons and tons of super model CEOs after a breakup she would do that cuz that would prover her value to her. Sleeping around with random guys does not.
The key here is that it’s very hard for an average man to sleep with many woman but it’s easy for a woman to sleep with many man.
Don’t bother for the others I think the point is clear.
Now let’s look at the FIRST argument.
What’s meant to be is meant to be.
That’s a girl way of thinking of things cuz everything always got catered towards them. What’s meant to be is meant to be is the same as saying the rent is gonna pay itself. Wrong. Someone goes to work, gets a loan and pays for the house you live in. Just cuz you dont see the effort doesn’t mean there is none.
Guys usually have a „if you want something work for it“ mentality meanwhile a lot of girls have the „what’s meant to be is meant to be“ mentality. Why? Cuz someone HAS to do it and guys are brought up to be the investors and girls the receiver.
What’s meant to be is meant to be is just the inability and ignorance to see that others putting in effort. If no one talks to no one cuz it’s “meant to be” guess what. No one will ever meet anyone. Also not rebuild a relationship if that’s what you want.
She is right on the not begging part tho. Have self respect.
Argument two. Don’t sleep around cuz you will lose self respect.
Again a woman’s perspective. A guys value increases the more he sleeps around. A woman’s value decreases if she is seen as a slut who sleeps around a lot. The goals of the genders are different due to the different accessibility. If a woman could ONS tons and tons of super model CEOs after a breakup she would do that cuz that would prover her value to her. Sleeping around with random guys does not.
The key here is that it’s very hard for an average man to sleep with many woman but it’s easy for a woman to sleep with many man.
Don’t bother for the others I think the point is clear.