mocco
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If you are on holiday somewhere else, that is the perfect time to cold approach every girl you find attractive, to build that muscle.
legit in my home country i almost never cold approached because i hesitated, only worked when i was with my other friends but you wont always be with your friends when you see a girl you like.
anyways, im in France, every time i go out alone and see a girl i like, i go up to her and talk and get her insta or number, when shes with her other girlfriends, im always good with them too because girls almost always listen and care about what her friends think, so if you can get her friends to see you as someone good for her, she will most def like you too even more.
It has been a success, . I barley feel any hesitation, its still there but it gets even easier to deal with the more i cold approach.
It even improves other areas in your life, like when you see someone you want to network with, you just go up to him all chill and talk to as if you already knew him.
You will shit buckets at first, but you gotta realise your losing nothing.
Any questions let me know, im autistic so i understand the struggle, but you just gotta put yourself out there more than others.
legit in my home country i almost never cold approached because i hesitated, only worked when i was with my other friends but you wont always be with your friends when you see a girl you like.
anyways, im in France, every time i go out alone and see a girl i like, i go up to her and talk and get her insta or number, when shes with her other girlfriends, im always good with them too because girls almost always listen and care about what her friends think, so if you can get her friends to see you as someone good for her, she will most def like you too even more.
It has been a success, . I barley feel any hesitation, its still there but it gets even easier to deal with the more i cold approach.
It even improves other areas in your life, like when you see someone you want to network with, you just go up to him all chill and talk to as if you already knew him.
You will shit buckets at first, but you gotta realise your losing nothing.
Any questions let me know, im autistic so i understand the struggle, but you just gotta put yourself out there more than others.
