"Exposure therapy" must be one of the biggest meme/scam pieces of advice

[apocalypse]

"Being rejected 1000 times will make you confident and not worry about rejection"
"Stabbing yourself 1000 times will make you immune to being stabbed"

 

[Deleted member 18086]

yet all these guys you see with gfs have not risked getting rejected once and just went with whateve girl came to them. rejection spikes cortisol up, the human brain knows it, approaching is risky thats why men dont just naturally approach like idiots, you know its gonna hurt. these mfs who promote the whole "rejection tolerance" narrative are sadists and they enjoy the idea of breakings unattractive men

 

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yet all these guys you see with gfs have not risked getting rejected once and just went with whateve girl came to them. rejection spikes cortisol up, the human brain knows it, approaching is risky thats why men dont just naturally approach like idiots, you know its gonna hurt. these mfs who promote the whole "rejection tolerance" narrative are sadists and they enjoy the idea of breakings unattractive men

yep. pickup niggas approach and get rejected 100 of times a day meanwhile the average guy doesnt even know what approaching is.

i still wonder how they get GFs tho

 

[Deleted member 17763]

Eh approaching once in a while is a good habit if you’re fairly good looking and it’s the right context, because even if you get rejected it’s often still a positive experience and the girl will be flattered. It has to be a smooth tangential approach though not just running up to a girl on the street and telling her she’s cute

 

[apocalypse]

running up to a girl on the street and telling her she’s cute

 

[Danish_Retard]

"Being rejected 1000 times will make you confident and not worry about rejection"
"Stabbing yourself 1000 times will make you immune to being stabbed"

While a funny comparison neuroplasticity is real, whereas we have no plasticity in other cell types.

 

[looksmaxxed]

all you need to do is make sure she sees you, wymxn will approach you if they wanted you. approaching as a man is a 100% rejection rate unless she didn't notice you before or was busy.

 

[apocalypse]

While a funny comparison neuroplasticity is real, whereas we have no plasticity in other cell types.

Being rejected would mould my neurons to turn me into becoming even more of an abused dog than I already am
More of a bad thing does not suddenly become good

 

[apocalypse]

all you need to do is make sure she sees you, wymxn will approach you if they wanted you. approaching as a man is a 100% rejection rate unless she didn't notice you before or was busy.

I've only ever been overtly hit on by landwhales
Can't imagine my dopamine if I was approached in the same way by a slim Beckie

 

[Deleted member 18086]

i still wonder how they get GFs tho

luck+genetics

 

[lilhorizontal32]

yet all these guys you see with gfs have not risked getting rejected once and just went with whateve girl came to them. rejection spikes cortisol up, the human brain knows it, approaching is risky thats why men dont just naturally approach like idiots, you know its gonna hurt. these mfs who promote the whole "rejection tolerance" narrative are sadists and they enjoy the idea of breakings unattractive men

It only helps if u get positive feedback

 

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[germanlooks]

just running up to a girl on the street

 

[Deleted member 13332]

@Vermilioncore shine my boots fag

 

[Vermilioncore]

@Vermilioncore shine my boots fag

Hang on master I’m gathering up spit in my mouth like a donkey ready to be worked all day, once my spit is full I will shine your shoes and take a brick into my asshole okay?