Extreme Loneliness

[Deleted member 14984]

I helped a person I thought was my friend with his exam preparations last week since he is low IQcel and he knew I had exams too but he gives 0 fucks about me, only cares about himself.

JFL at helping other people and never getting anything in return.

I hope he gets Aids

 

[ascension]

It doesn't help that society is entirely structured around normies and their lifestyle. And once you fall out of those social structures you are basically fucked.

I have no clue of what to do. Nothing seems worth investing time/energy into as nothing makes me happy or has the potential of making me happy long-term, seemingly.

Yeah. At our age (mid-20's) people expect you to be socially competent. They're not going to bother with some socially anxious, depressed autist. No one has time for that. If you're too logical and cold then that's a disadvantage too, because normies all live in delusions, such as believing in true love, and true friendship and all that.

Our issue is that we've been exposed to the bad side of human nature during our formative years. Family abuse, being neglected at school, being ignored or mocked by girls. A lot of bad luck all mixed together. 99% of people don't end up being exposed to all these negative elements at the same time.

I don't have any idea either tbh. Nothing really makes me happy anymore, no one wants to talk to me IRL, people just look at my face and then look away instantly or give me a dirty look. They just dismiss me totally after one glance. No one ever seems open to talking to me, there's no prolonged eye contact, no smiles or warmth on their face. No one's body language suggests that they want to talk to me. I think it's over for me.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Amish are religious weirdos

So are hippies. New Age retards. I'd personally pick the Amish over them any day.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Yeah. At our age (mid-20's) people expect you to be socially competent. They're not going to bother with some socially anxious, depressed autist. No one has time for that. If you're too logical and cold then that's a disadvantage too, because normies all live in delusions, such as believing in true love, and true friendship and all that.

This is extremely true. As a woman with all those issues, you atleast have your female looks+pussy that will make people want to socialize with you regardless of those issues.

But as a guy? Yeah you are fucked

Our issue is that we've been exposed to the bad side of human nature during our formative years. Family abuse, being neglected at school, being ignored or mocked by girls. A lot of bad luck all mixed together. 99% of people don't end up being exposed to all these negative elements at the same time.

Also very true. I don't know anyone that had a fucked up like I had, except some people on this forum.

Most people that suffer from inceldom+social rejection in their childhood usually atleast have a family that gave them some warmth/love. If you don't even have that, you are basically in the bottom <5% of society in terms of childhood experiences ngl.

I don't have any idea either tbh. Nothing really makes me happy anymore, no one wants to talk to me IRL, people just look at my face and then look away instantly or give me a dirty look. They just dismiss me totally after one glance. No one ever seems open to talking to me, there's no prolonged eye contact, no smiles or warmth on their face. No one's body language suggests that they want to talk to me. I think it's over for me.

Yup..

Everything I do in life, literally everything, feels like self-improvement that I don't enjoy whatsoever.

Studying for status/money. Working for money. Gymcelling for looks. Socializing for status/social skills. I don't think I ever do something because I enjoy it or like doing it. Merely doing shit because I hope that somehow it will impove my life and I will find enjoyment in the future jfl.

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Lol u niggas r losers

 

[MoggerGaston]

Lol u niggas r losers

nah were just ugly

 

[Deleted member 19036]

j

What looks-level do you need to get a quality social circle?

just an heakhy brain dies the job. over fir abused whitey mentalcels

 

[MoggerGaston]

j

just an heakhy brain dies the job. over fir abused whitey mentalcels

I got bullied since kindergarten when i was 4yo cuz i had glasses + lazy eye. Never began for us incels

 

[Deleted member 2729]

No friends, no family, hardly any social interaction on a daily basis.

I passed exams, legit nobody to even share this news with. Got a motorcycle license, legit nobody would care so didnt share it with anyone.

Etc. etc.

I live in complete solitude, because I am too ugly for anyone to actually care about me.

Fucking brutal being non-chad male in 2022.

bro come to germany we drink cheap alcohol and cope and you can tell me about the driverlicensepill

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I helped a person I thought was my friend with his exam preparations last week since he is low IQcel and he knew I had exams too but he gives 0 fucks about me, only cares about himself.

JFL at helping other people and never getting anything in return.

People care about you depending how charismatic and attractive you are really.
If you don't have at least one to a certain degree, people will be cold to you no matter what.

 

[MoggerGaston]

bro come to germany we drink cheap alcohol and cope and you can tell me about the driverlicensepill

Lets go

 

[Deleted member 2729]

Lets go

if you ever travel to germany let me know bro you seem to be very lonely just like me

 

[MoggerGaston]

if you ever travel to germany let me know bro you seem to be very lonely just like me

I went to Berlin this summer, I want to go there again next year. What area do you live though? Would love to hangout

I used to visit Aachen/Cologne a lot.

 

[SubSigma]

U got the boyos on .org

 

[Tusseleif]

No friends, no family, hardly any social interaction on a daily basis.

I passed exams, legit nobody to even share this news with. Got a motorcycle license, legit nobody would care so didnt share it with anyone.

Etc. etc.

I live in complete solitude, because I am too ugly for anyone to actually care about me.

Fucking brutal being non-chad male in 2022.

Same here same here man. I just rot in the attic playing video games or drawing, doing my hobbies. Don’t even have the motivation to work since I feel I got nothing to work and live for.
Looksmaxxing such as leanmaxxing and lifting is hard too since I don’t go outside and no one to impress, and food is such a good cope when you do nothing and are depressed. Absolutely brutal way of life to live, and full of contradicting things too since ur just making it worse for urself by looksminning myself like this. Being NEET is ideal, but it’s only ideal when you have friends, gf and ur Chad

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Lol, same here brother. I'm almost 27 myself and have more or less been a NEET type of person for the last 10 years. I only have a small friend group back in my hometown, all incels and they are just coping with wageslaving and food/football. It's so weird, I remember being a 15 year old guy talking with my friend about some dude that dropped out of school, I couldn't really imagine it since I was brought up bluepilled in a decent (albeit rather non-NT) family. Fast forward a couple of years and I became that guy. That's what happens when you have a combination of being shit/unmotivated at school, addicted to video games and a low self esteem fatcel in adolescence years.

It almost feels like yesterday too when I was 20/21, the difference was that I never left the house and mum cooked nice dinners while I was rotting and trying to decide what to do.
I finally moved out at 22 first, then at 24 to make some socialising efforts. I was less looksmaxxed at 22 and also more naive but of course I became a mentalcel at that school because I was constantly comparing myself to the NT chadlites there and reminding myself I was 3 years older than the majority but instead I was mentally 16. Then at 24 when I moved out for a 2nd time I was healthier looking (lean and tan) which is important for looking NT.

What happened next is, I had 8 drunk weekends in a row, first time french kissing a girl (at age 24.5) she was a blonde big titted htb aswell (got ghosted after I didn't fuck her because I was too drunk ofc). I didn't get driver's license before mid 20s also and lost my virginity at 26.

It's like I finally accomplished stuff that most people do at 16-18, only to do them at 24-26. I have been cursed by video games and a dumb brain.

Now christmas and new years is coming up and it looks like I will be all by myself this time, already happened on new years before tbf...

 

[pardocel]

No friends, no family, hardly any social interaction on a daily basis.

I passed exams, legit nobody to even share this news with. Got a motorcycle license, legit nobody would care so didnt share it with anyone.

Etc. etc.

I live in complete solitude, because I am too ugly for anyone to actually care about me.

Fucking brutal being non-chad male in 2022.

just like me tbh I've never had real friends EVER

 

[Deleted member 11126]

No friends, no family, hardly any social interaction on a daily basis.

I passed exams, legit nobody to even share this news with. Got a motorcycle license, legit nobody would care so didnt share it with anyone.

Etc. etc.

I live in complete solitude, because I am too ugly for anyone to actually care about me.

Fucking brutal being non-chad male in 2022.

Being ugly won't stop you from having friends unless your a truecel. I've never had it easy with women but I could always make male friends. I've had normie friends before too.

Unless your like deformed men don't care. In HS I had bad acne and was a total loser but still made some decent male friends.

 

[Sociobiology]

Lol, same here brother. I'm almost 27 myself and have more or less been a NEET type of person for the last 10 years. I only have a small friend group back in my hometown, all incels and they are just coping with wageslaving and food/football. It's so weird, I remember being a 15 year old guy talking with my friend about some dude that dropped out of school, I couldn't really imagine it since I was brought up bluepilled in a decent (albeit rather non-NT) family. Fast forward a couple of years and I became that guy. That's what happens when you have a combination of being shit/unmotivated at school, addicted to video games and a low self esteem fatcel in adolescence years.

It almost feels like yesterday too when I was 20/21, the difference was that I never left the house and mum cooked nice dinners while I was rotting and trying to decide what to do.
I finally moved out at 22 first, then at 24 to make some socialising efforts. I was less looksmaxxed at 22 and also more naive but of course I became a mentalcel at that school because I was constantly comparing myself to the NT chadlites there and reminding myself I was 3 years older than the majority but instead I was mentally 16. Then at 24 when I moved out for a 2nd time I was healthier looking (lean and tan) which is important for looking NT.

What happened next is, I had 8 drunk weekends in a row, first time french kissing a girl (at age 24.5) she was a blonde big titted htb aswell (got ghosted after I didn't fuck her because I was too drunk ofc). I didn't get driver's license before mid 20s also and lost my virginity at 26.

It's like I finally accomplished stuff that most people do at 16-18, only to do them at 24-26. I have been cursed by video games and a dumb brain.

Now christmas and new years is coming up and it looks like I will be all by myself this time, already happened on new years before tbf...

Why'd you stop doing all that cool shit man?

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Why'd you stop doing all that cool shit man?

What'd you mean by doing cool shit? that drunk stage was something I did with a fellow studycel aspie NT. It was okay doing it at 24 as I look youngish but I should have been doing it at 16-19 instead with my peers from my hometown like every other normal person did, I knew I was compensating and tried to make up for the time I lost. But I stopped going because it was 2 years ago during the lockdown and people slowed down because of police always interrupting and exams approaching. Another interesting thing was that half of the times I went it ended up as sausage fests, rarely saw any hot girls except when nightclubs opened again.

 

[Deleted member 23880]

@Nobagger I think I saw you posted a pic here before, pretty sure that I was studying in the same town that you live.
Har ikke giddet å lage en brukerkonto her før nå, men har lest anonymt på forumet jævlig lenge nå. Stedet begynner på M ikke sant?

I don't really know the locals here that well, but it seems to me from stalking ig's etc that there are a good amount of hoes and plenty of good looking guys here... I only saw a few of them irl, lots of chadlites and so many with tattoos and shit is my impression.
is the hypergamy bad from your experience? and the girls?

 

[Sociobiology]

What'd you mean by doing cool shit? that drunk stage was something I did with a fellow studycel aspie NT. It was okay doing it at 24 as I look youngish but I should have been doing it at 16-19 instead with my peers from my hometown like every other normal person did, I knew I was compensating and tried to make up for the time I lost. But I stopped going because it was 2 years ago during the lockdown and people slowed down because of police always interrupting and exams approaching. Another interesting thing was that half of the times I went it ended up as sausage fests, rarely saw any hot girls except when nightclubs opened again.

The idea catching up is cope imo. You can experience life in whatever order you want.

You can still go slay if you want to you just have to be motivated to do so.

 

[Tusseleif]

@Nobagger I think I saw you posted a pic here before, pretty sure that I was studying in the same town that you live.
Har ikke giddet å lage en brukerkonto her før nå, men har lest anonymt på forumet jævlig lenge nå. Stedet begynner på M ikke sant?

I don't really know the locals here that well, but it seems to me from stalking ig's etc that there are a good amount of hoes and plenty of good looking guys here... I only saw a few of them irl, lots of chadlites and so many with tattoos and shit is my impression.
is the hypergamy bad from your experience? and the girls?

Har ikke postet bilde av hele ansiktet, men deler av ansiktet individuelt, som kjeve og øyne, osv. Har sendt bilde i pm til folk. Er fra Trondheim men bor i Oslo, så pendler mellom de.

Plenty of good looking people here yeah. Lots of hoes because of the party and alcohol culture. Most women are sluts tbh. Basically all girls I know on IG party like crazy and have hundreds of followers. Lots of tall good looking guys too, plenty around 4.5 to 5.5 psl, so basically many HTNs and Chadlites. Hypergamy can be pretty bad, I have the impression that only the popular and gl guys slay, there’s lots of incels too, studies showing less men have kids, etc. So I think only the top percent of men regularly get laid

 

[Deleted member 23880]

The idea catching up is cope imo. You can experience life in whatever order you want.

You can still go slay if you want to you just have to be motivated to do so.

I know it's cope, it's just that you will never be 16 again, going to school no other responsibilities; not being particularly judged for status and certainly not money. Hormones, and seeing the world with more excitement and knowing you have just started your life.

It only gets harder for every year in your 20s, and if you're on forums in your mid 20s the chance of you having slayer childhood friends to be with is very slim, it's not impossible but you're supposed to have other things going for you than just looks and if I actually manage to slay some girls I will probably have that family thing in the back of my mind, as that is in human's instincts when he is nearing 30, it will just not be the same.

I hope to have a better life in one year, but I'm currently a bit overweight, no social life and quit studies aswell. I'm waiting for tret+phen to arrive (if customs accept) and by restarting my softmaxxing journey again I will maybe look human again for next summer, but then the problem is I need friendsl

 

[Sociobiology]

I know it's cope, it's just that you will never be 16 again, going to school no other responsibilities; not being particularly judged for status and certainly not money. Hormones, and seeing the world with more excitement and knowing you have just started your life.

It only gets harder for every year in your 20s, and if you're on forums in your mid 20s the chance of you having slayer childhood friends to be with is very slim, it's not impossible but you're supposed to have other things going for you than just looks and if I actually manage to slay some girls I will probably have that family thing in the back of my mind, as that is in human's instincts when he is nearing 30, it will just not be the same.

I hope to have a better life in one year, but I'm currently a bit overweight, no social life and quit studies aswell. I'm waiting for tret+phen to arrive (if customs accept) and by restarting my softmaxxing journey again I will maybe look human again for next summer, but then the problem is I need friendsl

Try intermittent fasting before you blast gear if you want to just lose weight.

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Har ikke postet bilde av hele ansiktet, men deler av ansiktet individuelt, som kjeve og øyne, osv. Har sendt bilde i pm til folk. Er fra Trondheim men bor i Oslo, så pendler mellom de.

Plenty of good looking people here yeah. Lots of hoes because of the party and alcohol culture. Most women are sluts tbh. Basically all girls I know on IG party like crazy and have hundreds of followers. Lots of tall good looking guys too, plenty around 4.5 to 5.5 psl, so basically many HTNs and Chadlites. Hypergamy can be pretty bad, I have the impression that only the popular and gl guys slay, there’s lots of incels too, studies showing less men have kids, etc. So I think only the top percent of men regularly get laid

Jeg har ikke sett bilde av deg bro, har heller ingen interesse av det for å være ærlig. Jeg mener jeg så at noen lå ut bilde av M0lde her på forumet før, et utsiktsbilde, trodde det var fra deg.
Har faktisk aldri vært i Tr.heim. Har lyst å bo i Oslo men boligmarkedet er jo helt fucka. Haha ja, de fleste jentene her har minst 1k followers på IG.

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Try intermittent fasting before you blast gear if you want to just lose weight.

I know how to lose weight, I'm currently doing a low fat diet but need to reduce my calories a bit to speed the progress. Upping the carbs and sugars helps the thyroid and insulin resistance for sure and also less brain fog which I need at this time of year, when also dealing with a depressed shitty life.
I need to start cardio and gym again too.

I'm curious about hopping on T, I kinda want to do some small doses but have absolutely no clue how much I should take etc, and where to get it.

 

[Tusseleif]

Jeg har ikke sett bilde av deg bro, har heller ingen interesse av det for å være ærlig. Jeg mener jeg så at noen lå ut bilde av M0lde her på forumet før, et utsiktsbilde, trodde det var fra deg.
Har faktisk aldri vært i Tr.heim. Har lyst å bo i Oslo men boligmarkedet er jo helt fucka. Haha ja, de fleste jentene her har minst 1k followers på IG.

Å ja, postet et utsiktsbilde da jeg var i Molde en gang

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Å ja, postet et utsiktsbilde da jeg var i Molde en gang

Hvordan fant du fram til dette forumet forresten?

 

[Sociobiology]

I know how to lose weight, I'm currently doing a low fat diet but need to reduce my calories a bit to speed the progress. Upping the carbs and sugars helps the thyroid and insulin resistance for sure and also less brain fog which I need at this time of year, when also dealing with a depressed shitty life.
I need to start cardio and gym again too.

I'm curious about hopping on T, I kinda want to do some small doses but have absolutely no clue how much I should take etc, and where to get it.

Fasting makes it WAYYYYY easier to lose weight since your body will develop certain adaptations in order to maintain your bodyfat since it's designed to only shed bodyfat when you have zero calories coming in.

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Fasting makes it WAYYYYY easier to lose weight since your body will develop certain adaptations in order to maintain your bodyfat since it's designed to only shed bodyfat when you have zero calories coming in.

So, Kinobody's method of fasting the first 4 hours of the day, then having some small meal and then some dinner in the evening is better?

 

[Deleted member 17920]

what’s the purpose of life? there’s no end goal for anyone but chad (spread their genes)

 

[Sociobiology]

So, Kinobody's method of fasting the first 4 hours of the day, then having some small meal and then some dinner in the evening is better?

There are different ways of fasting but ye this sounds good.

 

[Deleted member 21766]

Create a tulpa

 

[Tusseleif]

Hvordan fant du fram til dette forumet forresten?

Kjedet meg under lockdown, søkte på ting relatert til utseende og høyde på Google siden jeg var ganske blackpilla på viktigheten på utseende siden sånn 2018, men fant ikke blackpill/looksmaxxing/incel greier før 2020

 

[spongebob]

No friends, no family, hardly any social interaction on a daily basis.

I passed exams, legit nobody to even share this news with. Got a motorcycle license, legit nobody would care so didnt share it with anyone.

Etc. etc.

I live in complete solitude, because I am too ugly for anyone to actually care about me.

Fucking brutal being non-chad male in 2022.

I feel u bro

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Kjedet meg under lockdown, søkte på ting relatert til utseende og høyde på Google siden jeg var ganske blackpilla på viktigheten på utseende siden sånn 2018, men fant ikke blackpill/looksmaxxing/incel greier før 2020

Aaah.
Jeg fant lookism forumet i 2017-18 selv, husker ikke helt når jeg fant dette men tror det var i 2020. Har tenkt sånn selv ganske lenge, men tok en stund før jeg skjønte det helt. Så mye på film/serier rundt 2016-17 når jeg rottet og begynte å google skuespillerne så ble det linket til et av disse forumene

 

[Tusseleif]

Aaah.
Jeg fant lookism forumet i 2017-18 selv, husker ikke helt når jeg fant dette men tror det var i 2020. Har tenkt sånn selv ganske lenge, men tok en stund før jeg skjønte det helt. Så mye på film/serier rundt 2016-17 når jeg rottet og begynte å google skuespillerne så ble det linket til et av disse forumene

Ja, var på looksmaxxing/mewing subreddits og discorder i 2018/2019, så ganske utrolig at jeg fant forumet her så sent. Hvordan er din opplevelse med dating i Norge da, og ser du mange Chads, hypergamy, osv?

 

[Deleted member 23880]

Hvordan er din opplevelse med dating i Norge da, og ser du mange Chads, hypergamy, osv?

Jeg har aldri vært skikkelig NT nok til å dra særlige konklusjoner. Spolerte tenårene mine med å bli hektet på dataspill og sitte hjemme. Bodde litt utenfor en by også så det var ikke så mye å gjøre der utenom fotball. Var ikke russ siden det var på første friåret mitt som jeg brukte på å sitte hjemme. Btw litt rart å tenke på hvor lenge 16 føltes ut siden når jeg var 20, mens nå som jeg er nesten 27 føles 20 ut som to år omtrent.
Vil tro de fleste jentene ligger rundt, er hvertfall ikke uvanlig at jeg har jenter med 1 til 2.5m i snapchat score. Selv søker jeg ikke etter ligg før jeg har lav fett% igjen, men vet at jeg ikke har mye sjans uansett.

Men de litt pene jentene virker ekstremt overfladiske og høye på seg selv. Og har jo blitt veldig påvirket av kardashians og tiktok, som ikke er bra tegn. Og har sett at veldig få av disse fra 18-24 legger ut bilde av typen sin (fordi de ligger rundt) og nesten samtlige har bikinibilder ute, så go figure... ser en god del av disse kommenterer under hverandres bilder "slayy" som om det er en prestasjon at de kan gjøre det. Utifra det jeg ser på sosiale medier hvertfall virker det som at det stemmer 100% med teoriene jeg leser her inne, og de kan basically gjøre hva de vil uten konsekvenser noe man kan se på rosabloggerne forbildene deres. Synd det er så mange chads.

 

[JovenCansao]

You're not even ugly

 

[softlysoftly]

No friends, no family, hardly any social interaction on a daily basis.

I passed exams, legit nobody to even share this news with. Got a motorcycle license, legit nobody would care so didnt share it with anyone.

Etc. etc.

I live in complete solitude, because I am too ugly for anyone to actually care about me.

Fucking brutal being non-chad male in 2022.

congrats on passing and getting a license mate

 

[MoggerGaston]

More than 2 years later and my life has somehow gotten even worse. (jfl how is that even possible)

Is suicide the only way to escape this hell?

 

[Deleted member 120829]

JFL at this soy thinking he'll find empathy here. Most of us are like that and we aren't going around bitching about it. Instead, we've found shelter on the internet where you can find niggers to talk to. For example, when omegle was active, you were able to put BBC in your interests and you'd get matched with niggers all the time. Adapt or die fag

 

[Deleted member 42399]

Join a discord group

 

[JeanneDArcAlter]

Reminder OP is a fakecel whos had sex

 

[MoggerGaston]

JFL at this soy thinking he'll find empathy here. Most of us are like that and we aren't going around bitching about it. Instead, we've found shelter on the internet where you can find niggers to talk to. For example, when omegle was active, you were able to put BBC in your interests and you'd get matched with niggers all the time. Adapt or die fag

Wise words.

 

[Deleted member 120829]

Wise words.

Kissing niggers solves all problems life throws at you.

 

[Deleted member 71543]

Holy mentalcel

 

[MoggerGaston]

ugly subhuman truecel beast

true

 

[the_machinist_786]

I'm 16 and I can already relate and feel every line of your post and replies in this thread, feeling worse. You basically summed up everything that's been in my mind for like a week now, but this perception was (kinda) building since past two months