JayDimsa
Military grade autism
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Due to low self esteem I always found it difficult to make eye contact. I've been trying this to improve for years now, it's not a looksmax but confident eye contact is pretty fucking important to master asap. Holding eye contact is difficult especially if your self esteem is low or non existant, indeed I've had such horrible self esteem people literally pointed out the lack of eye contact and this made me feel even worse. I've had some tricks that worked for me.
1. Do not think they are peering into your soul or bullshit like that. Internalize the truth that it's impossible to peer into your soul, they are looking into your eyes just because they're normies, there is no hidden or mystical meaning, that's what normies do because they have high self esteem.
2. Try to find a reason to look at the other person's eye that is not the real reason you are doing it. Of course the real reason is to assert dominance™, but you will find it impossible if you are still in full beta, low self esteem mode. Some autistic tricks that worked for me: try to calculate their canthal tilt, try to figure out the rgb code of their eye color, try to figure out what type of gem or material that eye color reminds you of.
3. You are looking into their eyes because eyes are pretty most of the times, especially girls' eyes.
4. If they break the eye contact before you do, consider it a win and a small step towards eye contact mastery. You can break eye contact a bit if they do and pretend that something caught your attention for a moment, then resume eye contacting even if they don't. If you totally submitted them, they will resume eye contact and break it immediately after. That's another win.
5. Don't do the stare with raised eyebrows or the bug-eyed look (sorry for my bad english). Try to peer into them with a decent looking stare.
Looking at their nose or shuffling around their face doesn't fucking work, imo. You will look autistic and weird if you do that. If you stare into their eyes because you are calculating their canthal tilt internally, you will look mega interested into the shallow normalfag drivel they're spouting. Foids with low self esteem, especially the good looking kind who hides behind a fake though persona will melt before your almighty eye contact power.
Finally, thanks to Corona Chan, if you live in a country where it's mandatory to wear face masks, this is the best period ever to master this, because you will be less aware of your whole face and will concentrate on the eyes.
Am I onto something here or have I gone full retard? What are some tricks that worked for you? Have you noticed differences in how people treat you after eye contacting with them.
1. Do not think they are peering into your soul or bullshit like that. Internalize the truth that it's impossible to peer into your soul, they are looking into your eyes just because they're normies, there is no hidden or mystical meaning, that's what normies do because they have high self esteem.
2. Try to find a reason to look at the other person's eye that is not the real reason you are doing it. Of course the real reason is to assert dominance™, but you will find it impossible if you are still in full beta, low self esteem mode. Some autistic tricks that worked for me: try to calculate their canthal tilt, try to figure out the rgb code of their eye color, try to figure out what type of gem or material that eye color reminds you of.
3. You are looking into their eyes because eyes are pretty most of the times, especially girls' eyes.
4. If they break the eye contact before you do, consider it a win and a small step towards eye contact mastery. You can break eye contact a bit if they do and pretend that something caught your attention for a moment, then resume eye contacting even if they don't. If you totally submitted them, they will resume eye contact and break it immediately after. That's another win.
5. Don't do the stare with raised eyebrows or the bug-eyed look (sorry for my bad english). Try to peer into them with a decent looking stare.
Looking at their nose or shuffling around their face doesn't fucking work, imo. You will look autistic and weird if you do that. If you stare into their eyes because you are calculating their canthal tilt internally, you will look mega interested into the shallow normalfag drivel they're spouting. Foids with low self esteem, especially the good looking kind who hides behind a fake though persona will melt before your almighty eye contact power.
Finally, thanks to Corona Chan, if you live in a country where it's mandatory to wear face masks, this is the best period ever to master this, because you will be less aware of your whole face and will concentrate on the eyes.
Am I onto something here or have I gone full retard? What are some tricks that worked for you? Have you noticed differences in how people treat you after eye contacting with them.
