Failed talking stage

[AverageCoper]

Anyone here went through something similar ? I'm a retarded lovecel and I thought that I finally found an nice little mtb for me, we had been talking for 2 weeks and we had been on dates before so I invited her over to watch a movie, and then we got cuddling we held hands we kissed a lot she told me she wanted me and that she liked me all that shit. When she gets home I was thinking that she was sending me a cute message saying that she likes me and wants to see me soon but no, long ass paragraph on how she "dOeSn'T fEeL rEaDy FoR a ReLaTiOnShIp" and that she didn't feel a "spark", yet she cuddled and kissed me for 2h30. I broke up with my ex like 3 weeks ago so it's really some shitty fucking times. I begged for her to try to stay and feel something like an absolute pathetic dumbass but to no avail she wants nothing to do with me and she told me that "oh maybe in the future when Im ready and we cross paths again" sure. So I blocked her everywhere except snap but I'm not contacting her again. It's crazy because she was love bombing the shit out of me and told me she wanted something serious and that she really liked me, but this just showed me that no matter what all foids are the fucking same lol.

 

[AverageCoper]

bump

 

[ibIameweight]

Dnr

 

[TheBWCKing]

Anyone here went through something similar ? I'm a retarded lovecel and I thought that I finally found an nice little mtb for me, we had been talking for 2 weeks and we had been on dates before so I invited her over to watch a movie, and then we got cuddling we held hands we kissed a lot she told me she wanted me and that she liked me all that shit. When she gets home I was thinking that she was sending me a cute message saying that she likes me and wants to see me soon but no, long ass paragraph on how she "dOeSn'T fEeL rEaDy FoR a ReLaTiOnShIp" and that she didn't feel a "spark", yet she cuddled and kissed me for 2h30. I broke up with my ex like 3 weeks ago so it's really some shitty fucking times. I begged for her to try to stay and feel something like an absolute pathetic dumbass but to no avail she wants nothing to do with me and she told me that "oh maybe in the future when Im ready and we cross paths again" sure. So I blocked her everywhere except snap but I'm not contacting her again. It's crazy because she was love bombing the shit out of me and told me she wanted something serious and that she really liked me, but this just showed me that no matter what all foids are the fucking same lol.

She just wanted to fuck it seems. If she was down to kiss and cuddle then she wanted you to escalate it seems. Being a lovecel is tough in 2026 but at least you get the ego boost of kissing with a girl and cuddling

It's not just men, some women just want to fuck and don't want anything serious. When she's 40 she will be regretting that tho

 

[AverageCoper]

She just wanted to fuck it seems. If she was down to kiss and cuddle then she wanted you to escalate it seems. Being a lovecel is tough in 2026 but at least you get the ego boost of kissing with a girl and cuddling

It's not just men, some women just want to fuck and don't want anything serious. When she's 40 she will be regretting that tho

yeah she told me she didnt want to fuck on the first time she came to my house and thst she was tired of being lusted over and wanted a “sweet guy” lolll fml

 

[sociamaxxer]

Anyone here went through something similar ? I'm a retarded lovecel and I thought that I finally found an nice little mtb for me, we had been talking for 2 weeks and we had been on dates before so I invited her over to watch a movie, and then we got cuddling we held hands we kissed a lot she told me she wanted me and that she liked me all that shit. When she gets home I was thinking that she was sending me a cute message saying that she likes me and wants to see me soon but no, long ass paragraph on how she "dOeSn'T fEeL rEaDy FoR a ReLaTiOnShIp" and that she didn't feel a "spark", yet she cuddled and kissed me for 2h30. I broke up with my ex like 3 weeks ago so it's really some shitty fucking times. I begged for her to try to stay and feel something like an absolute pathetic dumbass but to no avail she wants nothing to do with me and she told me that "oh maybe in the future when Im ready and we cross paths again" sure. So I blocked her everywhere except snap but I'm not contacting her again. It's crazy because she was love bombing the shit out of me and told me she wanted something serious and that she really liked me, but this just showed me that no matter what all foids are the fucking same lol.

dnrtl but i can guess what u said. dont take to much time for talking stages

 

[AverageCoper]

dnrtl but i can guess what u said. dont take to much time for talking stages

true but its rough for lovecels like me who get attached quick. She told me before she wanted to lock me in jfl

 

[sociamaxxer]

true but its rough for lovecels like me who get attached quick. She told me before she wanted to lock me in jfl

i also had ts with a talking stage didnt love a single girl since then 2 years since btw

 

[AverageCoper]

i also had ts with a talking stage didnt love a single girl since then 2 years since btw

dang bro that’s rough I feel like hopeful situationships can hurt more than a breakup sometimes

 

[sociamaxxer]

dang bro that’s rough I feel like hopeful situationships can hurt more than a breakup sometimes

fr none of my exs hurt me like that