"Falling in love" is a distracting, unnecessary feeling that makes people do stupid and irrational things

[Bitch]

The oxytocin gives you a similar high like a drug. You're also unable to work or study normally, you eat less and sleep less. You are ready to move anywhere and change your stable job you worked hard to get, because of your partner. Maybe you scale down from a big nice house to a smaller shitty apartment in a city. Just how a drug addict is prepared to risk everything that he has in his life going on for a high. Suddenly the person becomes more important than your own ambitions in life. What happens when they leave you though, which is a completely normal thing in today's day in age, couples break up like they've never done before. You're left alone in some other country or city living in a small shitty apartment away from your hometown, friends and family members.

Just think how important is actually your job. You're forced to spend 8 hours a day, so most of your life actually, at your job and if you had a decent job with decent coworkers back where you used to live and now get a shitty one, congratulations, it's over now.

Some people drop out of college, risk or destroy their career and start a family young because "they've fallen in love" or they move to an entirely different country and leave all their friends and family members that took care of them while they were young behind. This is a textbook example to poverty. A girl gets pregnant at 18, drops out of school and now also has to support a child without education.

 

[Pakicel]

Love really is a @Bitch

 

[Sprinkles]

Just make sure you the one that’s being falled for

 

[Psychophilly]

worth

 

[HerpDerpson]

Just think how important is actually your job.

No job on this earth is important.

 

[cytoplasm]

Dnr. Falling in love is beatiful. At least it was the last time it happened to me when i was 14

 

[Bitch]

worth

I can tell you're young and have no real life experience

No job on this earth is important.

 

[Bitch]

Dnr. Falling in love is beatiful. At least it was the last time it happened to me when i was 14

Sex with no attachment mogs, at least you know what you're getting from the start already. It's good for both sides and there's a common interest. It's a transaction in which both parties benefit (almost) equally in most cases.

Being in love with someone and then getting dumped is shit. I never like to depend on other humans, their emotions or irrational decisions. Humans are unpredictable. My experience with falling in love is horrible. I'm ready to brainwash myself and go full cold sociopath with no emotions maxx to never fall in love again.

Sure it's easy for Chads to fall in love because the girls that they fall in love with are actually attainable to them.

 

[stevielake]

I want cuddles & sex im khhv 23.

 

[Pakicel]

No job on this earth is important.

Being a wagecuck sucks but what other options does the average incel really have? Heck, many of the people here are unemployed with no college degree. They should be happy to get a min wage working at mcdonald's.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Being a wagecuck sucks but what other options does the average incel really have? Heck, many of the people here are unemployed with no college degree. They should be happy to get a min wage working at mcdonald's.

I'm not saying nobody sgould work (I do work to pay for shelter and food after all), but that doesn't make it "important". Those are artificial man-made activities that can't compare to something natural, like loving somebody. In a word without jobs, you'd still be able to just kill an animal and eat it, and you'd still want to be loved, because it's human.
Even jobs that are considered meaningful, like construction. Imagine if everyone really loved themselves so they would just refuse to do it because how much physical strain destroys you. So we won't have 100 story buildings or stadiums. But do we need those? Nope. All of our basic needs can be provided without those.
OP also chastizes a young woman for having a child instead of working, but at the end of the day, that's what everyone wants, everyone wants to look better to start a family, there's just no way around it.

 

[Raskolnikovpilled]

It pains me to say that you are right.

 

[Deleted member 19157]

works if ur a cold emotionless bastard, normal humans dont mean to fall in love. u are just painful sentient to a depressing degree if you can stop yourself from falling in love