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Hi guys, so i've come down from my amazing life to share this new insight with you.
you might be whithering away at ur computer, or scrolling the half naked girls in your classroom, or in an isolated corner of ur office with no friends. or maybe u are shooting up roids and getting a pump for your next tinder date with a typical average 2023 girl.
Its clear for the good looking people here (me), that can easily get a girl, that its not hard to be IN a relationship. but what do you do after you are in one?
do you create your own little ddlg, bdsm fantasy lifestyle and smoke weed?
do you follow a mutual value based relationship like 2 NPC's exchanging appreciation?
do you follow a religion and try to "fit in" with the rest?
Now, i know you don't think this far ahead, but times have actually changed.
So even being in a relationship, are you going to have the life your parents had?
No, because you are different and so is she from traditional roles.
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Are you really going to bring this girl home to your family, and show her to your mom and dad so that they can accept her as an extention of you and hers future lineage?
this is something you guys seem to ignore, like the elephant in the room.
there is no present or future for you if you do not have any family stability.
_______
Who is going to be changing the diapers, helping you with emergency funds, passing on wisdom?
Nobody, because you think you can just outsource this to daycares, hustling and grinding, and youtube alpha male gurus.
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We have a serious problem guys.
And it has to do with this individualistic mindset, where you genuinely (temporarily) believe that you can survive all on your own.
____
And maybe this isn't your fault, maybe your parents didn't care to keep close relations with their relatives, or grandparents.
Maybe its because nobody in your extended family thinks like you. Or you dont want to listen to them.
At what point did families deviate so far from eachother? It is not rocket science. No matter what kind of kinky, bdsm, religious, or dom-sub relationship you have in a family, you have to have the same values in the end.
You need a community to feel alive, and fullfilled in life.
Playing the status game with other individuals, and competing for individualistic gain means nothing. Because if you took it away, you would be a shell of a person with no support.
______
So guys, before you give that hoe a swipe, or be nice to another girl in ur class, or jerk off to their pictures, ask yourself. Where in all of this, is community?
Mutual understand, future-thinking.
____
Because once you have a chick, there is you and her.
But if u have a family, its you, her, and everyone else too.
Stop thinking so linearly, and alone. You aren't alone. Don't neglect your family
you might be whithering away at ur computer, or scrolling the half naked girls in your classroom, or in an isolated corner of ur office with no friends. or maybe u are shooting up roids and getting a pump for your next tinder date with a typical average 2023 girl.
Its clear for the good looking people here (me), that can easily get a girl, that its not hard to be IN a relationship. but what do you do after you are in one?
do you create your own little ddlg, bdsm fantasy lifestyle and smoke weed?
do you follow a mutual value based relationship like 2 NPC's exchanging appreciation?
do you follow a religion and try to "fit in" with the rest?
Now, i know you don't think this far ahead, but times have actually changed.
So even being in a relationship, are you going to have the life your parents had?
No, because you are different and so is she from traditional roles.
_______________
Are you really going to bring this girl home to your family, and show her to your mom and dad so that they can accept her as an extention of you and hers future lineage?
this is something you guys seem to ignore, like the elephant in the room.
there is no present or future for you if you do not have any family stability.
_______
Who is going to be changing the diapers, helping you with emergency funds, passing on wisdom?
Nobody, because you think you can just outsource this to daycares, hustling and grinding, and youtube alpha male gurus.
_____
We have a serious problem guys.
And it has to do with this individualistic mindset, where you genuinely (temporarily) believe that you can survive all on your own.
____
And maybe this isn't your fault, maybe your parents didn't care to keep close relations with their relatives, or grandparents.
Maybe its because nobody in your extended family thinks like you. Or you dont want to listen to them.
At what point did families deviate so far from eachother? It is not rocket science. No matter what kind of kinky, bdsm, religious, or dom-sub relationship you have in a family, you have to have the same values in the end.
You need a community to feel alive, and fullfilled in life.
Playing the status game with other individuals, and competing for individualistic gain means nothing. Because if you took it away, you would be a shell of a person with no support.
______
So guys, before you give that hoe a swipe, or be nice to another girl in ur class, or jerk off to their pictures, ask yourself. Where in all of this, is community?
Mutual understand, future-thinking.
____
Because once you have a chick, there is you and her.
But if u have a family, its you, her, and everyone else too.
Stop thinking so linearly, and alone. You aren't alone. Don't neglect your family
