Family makes me feel invisible, is it cuz of looks?

[Aezac]

(Very long rant)

Fuck bro what is this shit, today me and my family were looking at my grandpas blood tests and he had some thyroid issues and I was trying to explain that any diseases/illnesses he has could need thyroid medications which in result gives those test scores.

And these motherfuckers brushed me aside like background chatter, I would call them, they would look at me for a second and then another family member would call that one and they’d look away from me and so on. Not to mention they make me do all the tedious work ie getting water, locking the door, closing the gate, closing the lights, putting on some sports channel. I don’t know why my dad makes me put on the sports channel when the tv and live channel app is right fucking infront of him for gods sake.

This isn’t the first time,

I remember not too long ago my uncle had some thief at work who was stealing his cash so we lent my cousins our 360 pocket camera and they were brainstorming on ways to capture the thief sneakily, bro oh my god I was spouting so much shit about what they could do.

I said they could carve a tiny tiny hole in a tissue box and lay it on the side with the tissues still in, and after they could extract the video onto a laptop for more detail, etc. Not a single person listened, but when my mom said exactly what I said? “Oh yeah you’re right” “mhm” what the fuck bro? Why does family expect you to take care of them later on when they can’t take care of themselves when they pull shit like this.

Makes me feel like a invisible radio in the back and that they’re filtering out my voice.

Even as a kid, I was extremely hyper and my grade 1 teacher told my mom to test me for ADHD multiple times but my mom just brushed it and said she would but never did. Till this day I’m not tested and I fail in school due to this. But no, my parents label it as stupidity not ADHD.

I excel in lessons that need critical thinking for example ELA or Social studies but when you need to sit and listen like math I usually fail because I zone off.


I sound like a retard ranting this but this really makes me feel neglected and invisible.

 

[Willyourememberme?]

Go to each of them personally and ask them what the hell is going on, why you and the whole family are ignoring me. Even if it doesn’t help, you can try to get them together and address them.

 

[Jacobtwl]

Here’s a TLR For yall “
I feel invisible and ignored by my family. Whenever I try to contribute or give an idea, they brush me off, but when someone else says the same thing, they suddenly listen. I’ve felt this way for years, even as a kid when my teacher suggested I get tested for ADHD and my parents ignored it. I struggle in school because I zone out, yet they call me stupid instead of trying to understand me. It just hurts feeling unheard and unimportant by the people I care about most.”

 

[Willyourememberme?]

Bro, don’t worry. Normal people won’t judge you for this.

 

[Vannx]

(Very long rant)

Fuck bro what is this shit, today me and my family were looking at my grandpas blood tests and he had some thyroid issues and I was trying to explain that any diseases/illnesses he has could need thyroid medications which in result gives those test scores.

And these motherfuckers brushed me aside like background chatter, I would call them, they would look at me for a second and then another family member would call that one and they’d look away from me and so on. Not to mention they make me do all the tedious work ie getting water, locking the door, closing the gate, closing the lights, putting on some sports channel. I don’t know why my dad makes me put on the sports channel when the tv and live channel app is right fucking infront of him for gods sake.

This isn’t the first time,

I remember not too long ago my uncle had some thief at work who was stealing his cash so we lent my cousins our 360 pocket camera and they were brainstorming on ways to capture the thief sneakily, bro oh my god I was spouting so much shit about what they could do.

I said they could carve a tiny tiny hole in a tissue box and lay it on the side with the tissues still in, and after they could extract the video onto a laptop for more detail, etc. Not a single person listened, but when my mom said exactly what I said? “Oh yeah you’re right” “mhm” what the fuck bro? Why does family expect you to take care of them later on when they can’t take care of themselves when they pull shit like this.

Makes me feel like a invisible radio in the back and that they’re filtering out my voice.

Even as a kid, I was extremely hyper and my grade 1 teacher told my mom to test me for ADHD multiple times but my mom just brushed it and said she would but never did. Till this day I’m not tested and I fail in school due to this. But no, my parents label it as stupidity not ADHD.

I excel in lessons that need critical thinking for example ELA or Social studies but when you need to sit and listen like math I usually fail because I zone off.


I sound like a retard ranting this but this really makes me feel neglected and invisible.

in nature family ignore the weakest child who have the less chance to survive and focus on the strongest

 

[Jacobtwl]

Are you Mexican perchance? And I kinda go thru the samething is not looks it’s more than that yeah looks will 90% carry for people you first meet or family members you don’t live with but other than that people get use to it and they will care more about your true self

 

[Aezac]

Go to each of them personally and ask them what the hell is going on, why you and the whole family are ignoring me. Even if it doesn’t help, you can try to get them together and address them.

nah they aren’t ignoring me, it’s more as if they’re brushing me off as if I don’t matter.

 

[Aezac]

in nature family ignore the weakest child who have the less chance to survive and focus on the strongest

Makes sense, I’m planning to start roiding. It could change that

 

[Aezac]

Are you Mexican perchance? And I kinda go thru the samething is not looks it’s more than that yeah looks will 90% carry for people you first meet or family members you don’t live with but other than that people get use to it and they will care more about your true self

Nah I’m not Latino of any sort, North African. I feel like my family are snobs, just because we made it out this hell hole they always compare the rules here to the rules outside. Really annoying

 

[Willyourememberme?]

nah they aren’t ignoring me, it’s more as if they’re brushing me off as if I don’t matter.

I’m really sorry for you, even though I’ve never been in your shoes, and my family doesn’t push me away, but I’m sure it’s very unpleasant, and the family is doing the wrong thing by doing this.

 

[Vannx]

Makes sense, I’m planning to start roiding. It could change that

idk if u need roid but dont care abt their validation or attention u just gna get frustrated for nothing

 

[Aezac]

I’m really sorry for you, even though I’ve never been in your shoes, and my family doesn’t push me away, but I’m sure it’s very unpleasant, and the family is doing the wrong thing by doing this.

Thanks man it means a lot

 

[Willyourememberme?]

Thanks man it means a lot

Hang in there, I’m sure you’ll succeed.

 

[Aezac]

idk if u need roid but dont care abt their validation or attention u just gna get frustrated for nothing

I was planning to roid long before this, first it started as peptides then it transitioned into steroids. I’m learning about pharmas more and more, I’m like 15 and my dad swore he’d buy me a motorcycle when I’m 16 and get my license. If I’m roiding by then and they try to take my shit or cut me off I’ll take the motorcycle and leave home. Not like deadass run away but probably leave for a few days to scare them just so they stop

 

[Vannx]

I was planning to roid long before this, first it started as peptides then it transitioned into steroids. I’m learning about pharmas more and more, I’m like 15 and my dad swore he’d buy me a motorcycle when I’m 16 and get my license. If I’m roiding by then and they try to take my shit or cut me off I’ll take the motorcycle and leave home. Not like deadass run away but probably leave for a few days to scare them just so they stop

peptides is enough focus on yourself and stack some money bf leaving the house whos toxic to u i guess and for adhd u can’t make an appointment yourself to get diagnosed ?

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

khoya with us maghrebis it's unfortunately like this, idk how old are you but this is the general experience of any north african kid

 

[gaeldelaloza]

(Very long rant)

Fuck bro what is this shit, today me and my family were looking at my grandpas blood tests and he had some thyroid issues and I was trying to explain that any diseases/illnesses he has could need thyroid medications which in result gives those test scores.

And these motherfuckers brushed me aside like background chatter, I would call them, they would look at me for a second and then another family member would call that one and they’d look away from me and so on. Not to mention they make me do all the tedious work ie getting water, locking the door, closing the gate, closing the lights, putting on some sports channel. I don’t know why my dad makes me put on the sports channel when the tv and live channel app is right fucking infront of him for gods sake.

This isn’t the first time,

I remember not too long ago my uncle had some thief at work who was stealing his cash so we lent my cousins our 360 pocket camera and they were brainstorming on ways to capture the thief sneakily, bro oh my god I was spouting so much shit about what they could do.

I said they could carve a tiny tiny hole in a tissue box and lay it on the side with the tissues still in, and after they could extract the video onto a laptop for more detail, etc. Not a single person listened, but when my mom said exactly what I said? “Oh yeah you’re right” “mhm” what the fuck bro? Why does family expect you to take care of them later on when they can’t take care of themselves when they pull shit like this.

Makes me feel like a invisible radio in the back and that they’re filtering out my voice.

Even as a kid, I was extremely hyper and my grade 1 teacher told my mom to test me for ADHD multiple times but my mom just brushed it and said she would but never did. Till this day I’m not tested and I fail in school due to this. But no, my parents label it as stupidity not ADHD.

I excel in lessons that need critical thinking for example ELA or Social studies but when you need to sit and listen like math I usually fail because I zone off.


I sound like a retard ranting this but this really makes me feel neglected and invisible.

Cut them off after you move out.

 

[foidslayer5000]

(Very long rant)

Fuck bro what is this shit, today me and my family were looking at my grandpas blood tests and he had some thyroid issues and I was trying to explain that any diseases/illnesses he has could need thyroid medications which in result gives those test scores.

And these motherfuckers brushed me aside like background chatter, I would call them, they would look at me for a second and then another family member would call that one and they’d look away from me and so on. Not to mention they make me do all the tedious work ie getting water, locking the door, closing the gate, closing the lights, putting on some sports channel. I don’t know why my dad makes me put on the sports channel when the tv and live channel app is right fucking infront of him for gods sake.

This isn’t the first time,

I remember not too long ago my uncle had some thief at work who was stealing his cash so we lent my cousins our 360 pocket camera and they were brainstorming on ways to capture the thief sneakily, bro oh my god I was spouting so much shit about what they could do.

I said they could carve a tiny tiny hole in a tissue box and lay it on the side with the tissues still in, and after they could extract the video onto a laptop for more detail, etc. Not a single person listened, but when my mom said exactly what I said? “Oh yeah you’re right” “mhm” what the fuck bro? Why does family expect you to take care of them later on when they can’t take care of themselves when they pull shit like this.

Makes me feel like a invisible radio in the back and that they’re filtering out my voice.

Even as a kid, I was extremely hyper and my grade 1 teacher told my mom to test me for ADHD multiple times but my mom just brushed it and said she would but never did. Till this day I’m not tested and I fail in school due to this. But no, my parents label it as stupidity not ADHD.

I excel in lessons that need critical thinking for example ELA or Social studies but when you need to sit and listen like math I usually fail because I zone off.


I sound like a retard ranting this but this really makes me feel neglected and invisible.

Brutal reality of being ND in an NT family. Thank god there are tons of ND people in my extended family. Sorry brah

 

[foidslayer5000]

khoya with us maghrebis it's unfortunately like this, idk how old are you but this is the general experience of any north african kid

exact same with any East Asian or south asian kid. Makes you fucking hate your iqlet subhuman family that gave you these shit genes

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

exact same with any East Asian or south asian kid. Makes you fucking hate your iqlet subhuman family that gave you these shit genes

nah still love them regardless, that's just how culture developed not their fault

 

[foidslayer5000]

nah still love them regardless, that's just how culture developed not their fault

whatever u say bro theyre low iq as fuck and think they're gods. Idk where youre from but better hope it aint fucking India

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

whatever u say bro theyre low iq as fuck and think they're gods. Idk where youre from but better hope it aint fucking India

I said "us maghrebis" in the earlier comment, so no I'm not indian. As you said they might be low iq but still it's the way they're used to.

 

[foidslayer5000]

I said "us maghrebis" in the earlier comment, so no I'm not indian. As you said they might be low iq but still it's the way they're used to.

def doesn't excuse their retardation. but its ok bhai ill let u cope in peace

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

def doesn't excuse their retardation. but its ok bhai ill let u cope in peace

it does excuse them bhaiii, they don't do it actively on purpose

 

[Aezac]

peptides is enough focus on yourself and stack some money bf leaving the house whos toxic to u i guess and for adhd u can’t make an appointment yourself to get diagnosed ?

Nah I’m 15 like I said still managed by my parents, and no peptides are not enough. If you know anything about pharmaceuticals they can not and will not grow your facial bones nor give you good muscle mass

 

[Aezac]

exact same with any East Asian or south asian kid. Makes you fucking hate your iqlet subhuman family that gave you these shit genes

Yeah man I fucking hate the culture here, it’s so ghetto coded. Just today I saw some 8 year old kid driving a car by himself nigga near a highway

 

[Vannx]

Nah I’m 15 like I said still managed by my parents, and no peptides are not enough. If you know anything about pharmaceuticals they can not and will not grow your facial bones nor give you good muscle mass

no i dont know anything about pharma but u can grow muscle naturally ? and i was talking abt the futur not rn stacking up money

 

[Aezac]

khoya with us maghrebis it's unfortunately like this, idk how old are you but this is the general experience of any north african kid

I guess man but it’s not any better if your family are snobs, my family believe they’re better than the people here just because we lived abroad all our lives. My mom try’s to act like she’s doing a good thing my restricting me from going outside with my cousins or going to a fucking restaurant myself.

Bro I forgot this, the other day I tried to go to a restaurant that’s a 4 min walk from my aunties and my mom tried to get my cousin to go with me, bro I’m fucking 15 not 9 years old. I hate when people baby me as if I’m beneath them in any sort of way

 

[Aezac]

no i dont know anything about pharma but u can grow muscle naturally ? and i was talking abt the futur not rn stacking up money

You can grow them naturally but you have a genetic ceiling, after that you can’t grow much more

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

I guess man but it’s not any better if your family are snobs, my family believe they’re better than the people here just because we lived abroad all our lives. My mom try’s to act like she’s doing a good thing my restricting me from going outside with my cousins or going to a fucking restaurant myself.

Bro I forgot this, the other day I tried to go to a restaurant that’s a 4 min walk from my aunties and my mom tried to get my cousin to go with me, bro I’m fucking 15 not 9 years old. I hate when people baby me as if I’m beneath them in any sort of way

I went through the same stuff bro that's how we are man I also live abroad and trust me until you're 18 or even 19 it's gonna be this way but it gradually gets better

 

[Aezac]

I went through the same stuff bro that's how we are man I also live abroad and trust me until you're 18 or even 19 it's gonna be this way but it gradually gets better

Maybe man but the way they parent is super annoying, it’s fucking bullshit. Normally in the summer I need to be home before 1 AM but during the World Cup I was allowed to be outside until even 6 AM if I wanted to watch the game, that’s not logical

 

[Urielwillascend]

Do you have a sister?

 

[Vannx]

You can grow them naturally but you have a genetic ceiling, after that you can’t grow much more

does this thing have bad secondary effect ?

 

[Aezac]

Do you have a sister?

Yea

 

[Aezac]

does this thing have bad secondary effect ?

Wdym the steroids?

 

[Vannx]

Wdym the steroids?

yeah

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

Maybe man but the way they parent is super annoying, it’s fucking bullshit. Normally in the summer I need to be home before 1 AM but during the World Cup I was allowed to be outside until even 6 AM if I wanted to watch the game, that’s not logical

7na al mgharba hakka straight up emotion based bullshit

 

[Aezac]

yeah

Not really if you take ancillaries the bad side effects will be less severe

 

[Vannx]

Not really if you take ancillaries the bad side effects will be less severe

why u want big muscle

 

[R@m@]

in nature family ignore the weakest child who have the less chance to survive and focus on the strongest

Opposite actually

 

[Aezac]

why u want big muscle

Why not?

 

[Notorious_1676]

My family ignores my cousin but it's mainly due to his lack of intellect, you're probably ignored because you were 1-annoying as a child 2-short 3-strange or weak voice 4-Maybe they dislike you because you're smarter than them but they did commend your Mum for repeating what you said so probably not but still a possibility.

Either way I suggest just cutting them off or not helping around with home tasks. Wouldn't hurt to be a bit more disrespectful, I have 2 cousins and they're both copies of each other in everything, even when it comes to their lack of intellect but one earns more respect due to being more rude and disrespectful

 

[Vannx]

Why not?

is it worth the steroids u cant satisfy urself with a natural fit body ?

 

[Vannx]

Opposite actually

mb then

 

[Aezac]

is it worth the steroids u cant satisfy urself with a natural fit body ?

Bro steroids during puberty grow your facial bones, deepen your voice, boost free testosterone, AND make you shredded. What’s there to not like? I mean you can’t try to convince me to not take them, but if you wanna lift for 4 years to achieve a roiders 6 month physique be my guest

 

[Vannx]

Bro steroids during puberty grow your facial bones, deepen your voice, boost free testosterone, AND make you shredded. What’s there to not like? I mean you can’t try to convince me to not take them, but if you wanna lift for 4 years to achieve a roiders 6 month physique be my guest

i though stero was fake muscle

 

[Aezac]

i though stero was fake muscle

No lol? Steroid is real muscle, let me give you a quick easy lesson that you should remember.

Myostatin is what tells our body to stop building muscle, if you see a African guy who has lots of muscle it’s because his body naturally produces less myostatin than normal people.

So you can see with less myostatin they become stronger without lifting, but let’s say you take steroids. They basically decrease myostatin a lot and let your body build muscle very easily. So it’s not fake muscle it’s real muscle that stays

 

[R@m@]

mb then

Depends if theres scarcity or not, if theres scarcity they will focus on the strongest, if theres no scarcity they will focus on helping the weaker one and ignore the strongest

 

[Vannx]

No lol? Steroid is real muscle, let me give you a quick easy lesson that you should remember.

Myostatin is what tells our body to stop building muscle, if you see a African guy who has lots of muscle it’s because his body naturally produces less myostatin than normal people.

So you can see with less myostatin they become stronger without lifting, but let’s say you take steroids. They basically decrease myostatin a lot and let your body build muscle very easily. So it’s not fake muscle it’s real muscle that stays

why myostatin exist

 

[foidslayer5000]

You can grow them naturally but you have a genetic ceiling, after that you can’t grow much more

most peoples genetic ceilings are pretty high tho, you'll look great at your natural peak lol