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Hey guys,
Question: Can I figure out with more or less accuracy whether I would have an attractive face if I get down to say 10% or below bodyfat?
I am currently obese (technically, I am not Jabba the Hutt but I have a potbelly and a doublechin), and *I've never considered myself ugly, let alone incel ugly, but its features are obscured by the doughy fatness of the cheeks, chin, etc. My only motivation is high SMV, high sex appeal, being visibly attractive, if not model-tier. (Its my only *actual motivation, since I know that eating right and exercising are good for longevity, mental health, etc. etc.---but I just don't care about that IN COMPARISON to simply ensuring that my face, skin tone etc. are not non-starters).
However, I have other hobbies, interests, passions, etc., and I don't want to go balls to the wall, or even work hard to eliminate my other flaws (my being a fatass glutton, for example) insofar as they indirectly relate to my nonsexual passions, if it turns out I'm a sub-5 facially, or if my mediocre career history and prospects, and lack of ambition in the conventional sense, are indicators waiting to reveal my incelself once I looksmax to the utmost (this side of facial surgery, which I don't think I would ever do). Despite being sexually frustrated for years, have never been in a relationshp for more than one month, and have had sex once with a woman I wasn't attracted to and so did not enjoy the experience, I am new to all the subcultures surrounding dating, sex, etc. So I apologize if I come off as a naive douche, but I figure I just gotta put my case as I perceive it, and see if I can or will significantly improve it.
I should just add that when I was very thin, I only ever matched with fat women on dating sites. I honestly don't know how this happens, its as if something about me, even when I'm athletic and with a low BMI, signals this was or will be again an obese man. That was in high school and college, about a decade ago. I'm 33 right now.
Thank you all
Question: Can I figure out with more or less accuracy whether I would have an attractive face if I get down to say 10% or below bodyfat?
I am currently obese (technically, I am not Jabba the Hutt but I have a potbelly and a doublechin), and *I've never considered myself ugly, let alone incel ugly, but its features are obscured by the doughy fatness of the cheeks, chin, etc. My only motivation is high SMV, high sex appeal, being visibly attractive, if not model-tier. (Its my only *actual motivation, since I know that eating right and exercising are good for longevity, mental health, etc. etc.---but I just don't care about that IN COMPARISON to simply ensuring that my face, skin tone etc. are not non-starters).
However, I have other hobbies, interests, passions, etc., and I don't want to go balls to the wall, or even work hard to eliminate my other flaws (my being a fatass glutton, for example) insofar as they indirectly relate to my nonsexual passions, if it turns out I'm a sub-5 facially, or if my mediocre career history and prospects, and lack of ambition in the conventional sense, are indicators waiting to reveal my incelself once I looksmax to the utmost (this side of facial surgery, which I don't think I would ever do). Despite being sexually frustrated for years, have never been in a relationshp for more than one month, and have had sex once with a woman I wasn't attracted to and so did not enjoy the experience, I am new to all the subcultures surrounding dating, sex, etc. So I apologize if I come off as a naive douche, but I figure I just gotta put my case as I perceive it, and see if I can or will significantly improve it.
I should just add that when I was very thin, I only ever matched with fat women on dating sites. I honestly don't know how this happens, its as if something about me, even when I'm athletic and with a low BMI, signals this was or will be again an obese man. That was in high school and college, about a decade ago. I'm 33 right now.
Thank you all
