Feedback Needed: Message to an Ex I Hurt

[zerotohero]

Hey everyone, I wrote this message to my ex to apologize and express my gratitude, and I want to know if it reads well. It’s meant to acknowledge the pain I caused and to leave things on a heartfelt note. Do you think this version works better?

Message:

“(Her name),

I know this message isn’t easy to receive, but I felt the need to write to you one last time. Not to ask for anything, but to thank you and apologize with all my heart.

I hurt you, and I know it. My coldness, my mistakes, and seeking comfort in the wrong places really caused you pain, and I take full responsibility without excuses.

I learned too late that having someone so noble, pure, and loyal is a privilege not everyone deserves.

You were and still are a diamond, and it hurts to have lost you for not seeing it in time. I want to remember the beautiful moments: the excitement of that June 28th, that sleepless night, and your light, which I still hold in my heart.

I truly hope life gives back to you all the good you give, that you publish your poetry, that your career brings you happiness, and that one day you become the incredible mother I know you will be.

Thank you for everything, (her name). I carry you with me, and I hope time allows us to remember each other with a smile someday.

Take care.”

 

[Nebelix28]

 

[gymcel64]

dumbass countless people have told you not to send it, if you want to apologize that bad, do it face to face in real life.
If you don’t have the balls for that then just get on with your life.

 

[zerotohero]

dumbass countless people have told you not to send it, if you want to apologize that bad, do it face to face in real life.
If you don’t have the balls for that then just get on with your life.

How am I supposed to do it? I haven’t run into her yet.

 

[Daddy's Home]

Holy fucking ND message bro.. Jesus fucking Christ..

You are literally the embodiment of the guy in this video..

I wrote this message to my ex to apologize and express my gratitude

It’s meant to acknowledge the pain I caused and to leave things on a heartfelt note

Bro, she is just some fucking random bitch bro, no one gives a shit, just leave her alone, she doesn't give a shit about your message or anything, she is not special, she won't want you back, she already knows you're just a dumb kid, you don't have to confirm her this for the 10th time

 

[zerotohero]

Holy fucking ND message bro.. Jesus fucking Christ..

You are literally the embodiment of the guy in this video..

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Bro, she is just some fucking random bitch bro, no one gives a shit, just leave her alone, she doesn't give a shit about your message or anything, she is not special, she won't want you back, she already knows you're just a dumb kid, you don't have to confirm her this for the 10th time

 

[UMIRINBRAH?]

DNR

 

[greycel]

dumbass countless people have told you not to send it, if you want to apologize that bad, do it face to face in real life.
If you don’t have the balls for that then just get on with your life.

This

Send me the other thread
And also 99% of the time, this is a bad choice.
You're doing this likely because you think she is clean/pure inside (spoiler: most girls aren't)

You gain nothing from this. You have no plans to get back together.. most importantly, you know for sure this woman won't be your future wife

Reserve your attention and this devotion towards that woman

 

[Chasingthedream569]

DONT DO IT BRO I TOLD YOU DONT DO IT, YOU WILL BOOST NOTHING BUT HER EGO AND MAKE YOU EVEN MORE PATHETIC IN HER EYES

 

[predestined]

Too chalant try being more nonchalant

 

[browncurrycel]

dumbass countless people have told you not to send it, if you want to apologize that bad, do it face to face in real life.
If you don’t have the balls for that then just get on with your life.

 

[gymcel64]

How am I supposed to do it? I haven’t run into her yet.

and i don’t think you will ever again, so just let it go.

 

[Th3Man]

Hey everyone, I wrote this message to my ex to apologize and express my gratitude, and I want to know if it reads well. It’s meant to acknowledge the pain I caused and to leave things on a heartfelt note. Do you think this version works better?

Message:

“(Her name),

I know this message isn’t easy to receive, but I felt the need to write to you one last time. Not to ask for anything, but to thank you and apologize with all my heart.

I hurt you, and I know it. My coldness, my mistakes, and seeking comfort in the wrong places really caused you pain, and I take full responsibility without excuses.

I learned too late that having someone so noble, pure, and loyal is a privilege not everyone deserves.

You were and still are a diamond, and it hurts to have lost you for not seeing it in time. I want to remember the beautiful moments: the excitement of that June 28th, that sleepless night, and your light, which I still hold in my heart.

I truly hope life gives back to you all the good you give, that you publish your poetry, that your career brings you happiness, and that one day you become the incredible mother I know you will be.

Thank you for everything, (her name). I carry you with me, and I hope time allows us to remember each other with a smile someday.

Take care.”

Dnr
Don't send her any message. She doesn't exist to you now.